GhitaAmati
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Ok.....heres for my weekend in a whirlwind post.....
Thursday evening around midnight mom and dad get in....everyone heads to bed...laundry is still not done, nothing is packed, house is not marta stewart approved, Sir's truck got buried to the axles trying to get to a jobsite so he spent the day unburying truck, fixing the three wheels on the trailer that got destroyed, and generally cussing about the 102 degree heat he was out in without water for 5 hours instead of getting his job done so apparently he has to do it friday (and mange to figure out a way to drive truck with trailer with tractor on back through 1/4 mile of sugar sand to actually get to job) instead of being off for his son's birthday and to leave on mini vacation.
Friday : 5am...Sir heads to work, I head to barn to get tractor. Out of gas. Grab gas cans and drive to store. Store not open yet. Wait until 6am. Get gas. Drive home. Crank mower....mow front yard (about a acre), head towards back yard where grass is about 3 feet tall and wet. Set blade to highest level and chop down to a manageable size (3 more acres)...Move blade to a lower more decent hieght for a yard and start to mow for the second time. Bog down blade and mower. Tip up mower and remove clumps of wet grass. Re start mower....repeat this about every turn around the yard. Finally bog down so bad that belt in engine snaps. Go to get second tractor to pull busted tractor with. Second tractor will not start....go to get 4x4 nissan...damn it..takes two people to start and mom and dad already left in my van to take grandparents and babies to breakfast. (you have to lift the hood and bank on a relay with a hammer while someone else turns the key....)....put tractor in neutral and literally push tractor through wet grass to barn. Replace belt...try to finish mowing yard....starts to bog up again....give up and drive tractor back to barn. Feed animals. Get call from Sir...he isnt going to be home in time for UMs birthday party. Cuss. Call Sirs workplace. Cuss out chick making schedules who promised he could have friday at least be off by 2 if not off. She tells me "he needed to give her several days notice"..I say "he told you monday, today is friday, that would be several" she says "no, several means 12 or 14 days, not 3 or 4" I say "whatever I didnt call to argue semantics with you" she says "huh, whats that" I say "nevermind I think I see part of the problem if you cant understand a three syllable word" She hangs up on me....
Mom and dad finally get home with grandparents and kids. They go inside to hang out, I take car seats out of van and head to town. Run by bank to make sure hotel charge issues are settled. Go to salon to get hair cut by same lady who has been cutting my hair for 4 years. Ask for a trim and to get some of the weight thinned out of the back. She cuts 3 inches off total length (I personally think it looks great but Sir doesnt allow me to wear my hair this short and she knows that....) Go next door to get fingers and toes done....finally begin to relax a bit...get body massage from little short veitnamese lady I call mama....she does my eyebrows for me for free....Drive across town (40 minute drive) to pick up 8yo's second birtday present...store is compleatly out of what I wanted. Cuss more. Drive back accross town to walmart. Pick up some stuff for party and some travel bath stuff for trip. Go to publix to pick up birthday cake I scheduled to pick up at 1pm, its now 2:05pm and cake is not ready. Party is at 3pm. Wait around for cake. Forgot to get Ice cream that Sir requested. Drive home even though I wanted to head to Bealls to go shopping for an outit for Sir to wear Saturday night because they were having a really great sale. Get home and family is waiting on my front porch (so is 8yo who's bus ran early so I wasnt home when he got there and now I have presents unwrapped and he wants to help unload the van so I sent him to water cattle which were already watered but I needed to get him away) Dishes are not done and now I have company, laundry is not done, still nothing is packed, the van did not get vacuumed or washed in town, and family is expecting a party. Wrap presents, sign cards, 8yo comes in, he unwraps presents and never looks at cards. We eat cake, I allow my UMs to have cows milk as a treat with the cake (which please no one ask why cake came from bakery....time issues and kitchen issues....it gets worse)....baby throws up milk. Mom cleans up baby while I clean up living room. Sir calls....still no where near home and we are supposed to leave for Orlando at 4:30 to meet other couples for dinner. Still cant get ahold of dog sitter to come feed dog on Saturday. Go ahead and pack for kids and send parents on their way with my kids...Sir is going to be upset that he doesnt get to say bye to babies but they had a long drive too and had to leave and I couldnt really start packing up certain things with my parents constantly offering to help. Call other couples to let them know we are running late. One couple who is going with us calls because they havent found a dog sitter either. Tell them to come bring dog to our house and then at least dog can stay outside since they cant leave her outside at their apartment. Keep packing...cant find Sirs swimming trunks. Call Sir to see if he knows where they are. Phone is breaking up, he says no, I say OK I need to go finish gathering things up and there is another call beeping through. He screams "oh yea like some stranger is more important" and hangs up on me (no, Sir is not usually unreasonable or idiotic....he's spent another hell filled day in over 100degree temps....turns out he had to physically carry several hundred pounds of equipment back and forth over several trips accross the 1/4 mile expanse of sugar sand instead of risk getting van and trailer stuck again) I switch over to other call and its another couple going with us to say they arent coming. Ok, no big deal really...didnt really want them coming anyway cause as hot as the dude it, the chick and I just dont really get along personality wise. Couple with dog show up....I get ahold of nephew down the street and bribe him with $20 to come feed both theirs and my dog on Saturday. Put their dog in my yard...my dog decides to try to kill it.....go get logging chains from barn....chain each dog to opposite ends of my front porch (god forbid anyone tried to break into my house this weekend...pittbull on one end, rottwieler on the other..) Finish loading things up into my van which Im embarrased to have anyone ride in...covered in thomas the tank engine toys, crayons, and old pretzels...I really did mean to get it cleaned out..just ran out of time. Finally Sir gets home about 5pm walks in the door. Orders me out into the front yard immediatly. We have company and I truly hate getting in trouble in front of anyone and he knows this so at least he takes me for a short drive to get his other truck from the shop while he vents on me about something he is angry about..(anyone who really knows my Sir, knows he flat out never gets actually angry, so the fact that he slammed my front door hard enough to break something was kinda scary) Anyway, he gets out whats wrong, we manage to disuss it rather well for having both had awful days, anger was caused my miscommunication and bad nerves from heat and other issues, so by the time we get back to house where company we left sitting on couch with no explination are sitting, all issues have been resoved and they are actually rather impressed by the way we handled the issue....company had already fixed broken front door for me too....We all finally get on the road about 6pm to head to Orlando. Other couple is already there shopping and waiting for us. We get to hotel about 9:30pm and check in. There is a TGIFridays in front of the resort so we decide to eat there. It was close to empty and the service still sucked. Food had to be sent back twice, drinks ran empty, couple who had already been waiting for us had some sort of an issue with the seating arrangement...who knows...these are people who Sir and I met not long ago and we invited because we seemed to really click over the three meals we'd had with them but had never played or anything...and as soon as we got to Orlando it was like the dude had a compleatly different personality from the guy we'd met and chatted with before. Because of the way the girls sat down when we got there, the girls were sitting together and left room at the table for the guys...he was like...you dont really think Id want to sit between two other guys, why the hell am I not getting any attention. I was thinking "Dude, we sat down cause we want to eat, not cause we want to play footsie...and besides, your bi...." but I didnt say anything, I politly got up and switched seats so he could sit between the two other girls and I went to the other side of the table. N, the couple who road up with us whom is a really great friend of ours graduated from some really high faluting culinary school and is constantly nit picking any resteraunt we go to (which is why we normally eat at home with them instead of going out....e01n...its the fungi dude)....He left a note on the bill for the waitress to find another career cause she sucks...I added a small comment about findind a good waxer for her mustache....
We get back to the hotel...we are all tired, hot, kinda pissy from a bad day...So my Sir wants to just climb into the hot tub in the room just to relax his back and his tummy and mine both were having some severe issues caused by the publix bakery birthday cake...trust me you dont want me to go into details but the artifical coloring in the icing was artificially coloring some other things and we really needed to stay near one of the suites 4 bathrooms....(one of the major pickmeups and plusses about that evening was the room was awesome...Sir even praised me several times for doing really well on fiding the room). Needless to say, no one really felt like playing...well..I mean my Sir and I, and N and A the couple who road up with us who had also had a long tireing day. M&K the couple who met us seemed to take it extreamly personally and didnt handle that very well...they seemed to think we should all just start to fucking just because and well..that kinda caused some major drama. Anyway, Sir invited anyone who wanted to to join him in the hottub. I got in for a few minutes but it was so hot that I couldnt stay in for long. So I got out...mainly to go find another bathroom. Sir got out not long after that to get a drink and M&K(dramacpl) got into the hot tub. They waved my Sir back over to talk to and while he was sitting there with his legs hanging into the tub, M got out to come into the kitchen and left my Sir and K in there together. I was sitting on the couch doing some paperwork and M came and sat down next to me. I think he expected me to be all over him and well...I just had other things I needed to finish for my Sir and even if I didnt I really wasnt in the mood to be flirtatious. Apparently he realized that my Sir and K were still in the hot tub together and were laughing about something and my Sir had his arm around her. M got pissed. (Dude, wtf...there is a huge open door between you and her, you left her in there, we came down here as a large group of swingers, you know your wife has the hots for my Sir, and yet you cant handle this??) M left the hotel room and went for a "walk" which is really funny cause he left all pissed and then later had to call us to ask how to get back to the room cause he got lost....Sir and I are tired and tummys are really hurting....N offered to massage it from the insides like I mentioned before but instead I accepted the Immodium that A offered....N is a good enough friend that I can make comments like..."Id love to but Im afraid Id poop when I came" He lauged.....So the 4 of us really wanted to go to bed, I went into the extra bedroom to where K was sitting crying to try to make sense of the situation. M gets back in the room and pretty much threatens to leave K here. I was shocked. So they barge into me and my Sirs room where he is already in bed trying to get some rest now that his tummy is settled down. M is rather pissed becaus apparently he had K had already made an agreement that they dont do any sort of playing when the other isnt in the room and he seems to feel that an arm around someones shoulders and flirting is playing....which that I can kinda ok if thats what their agreement is...but when you are 20 feet away and only sitting on the other side of a pair of open french doors....its still technically the same room to me....dude...if you didnt like her in there without you, then you shoudlnt have gotten up and left,,but apparently he thinks she should have gotten up and followed him...but anyway. The guy stood there in our room until 4:30am just degrading his wife left and right. I was rather pissed cause well...as much as ive been known to enjoy some humiliation and degredation play...its well..been play...and I know with all my heart that my Sir would NEVER treat me in the manner this man was treating his wife. I felt so sorry for her. They had mentioned to us once that they had had a bad experiance at a swing club...which well..they had never explained the experiance and I had agreed because I dont like the clubs either...well....he brought back up in the middle of the conversation..that "this same thing happend at the swing club and she needs to learn that we could have a good time if she would learn to just put my feelings before hers and not worry about herself"..It took all the strength I had in my head to not scream at that man right then. I mean the NERVE! (no these people are not in a BDSM powerdnamic type relationship at all..and this chick isnt consenting to this kind of treatment)...god damn even as a slave I get more consideration that this dude was giving his wife!!!
So...they finally get the hint after my Sir asks them 6 times to please go to bed and we will handle this in the morning. We go to sleep, N&A were in the room attached to ours and had to listen to all this too...which I think was rather rude and only out of repect for my Sir did N not join in and cuss M out....N&A also have a powerdynamic type relationship although there is no S&M and N was shocked just as much as I was. N and my Sir both make 90% of A and mines desicions, but this dude was just abusive....I guess you had to be there....the 4 of us agree after they go to bed that there is no way in hell we are interested in playing with this couple, but we are not going to ask them to leave the hotel room...its a suite and they are in kind of an attached sperated apartment section so it wasnt uncomfortable like we would have been sleeping in the same room.
Saturday morning...things seem to be better in the new light....Drama wise at least. We all head to breakfast (which once again had sucky service...not batting very good here...) After breakfast we go to meet my Sirs best friend J who was going to drive for us to pick up the rental van, and M&K decide to spend the day seperatly going shopping...YAY...the entire tension of the air just..kinda broke. We got the rental van, J took it to go run some errands, and Sir and I, and N&A went back to the hotel room. A runs a camwebsite and we used the really awesome decor of the hotel to take lots and lots of sexy pics of her in all sorts of outfits. Were having a really great time and things were...well...getting MUCH better when M&K got back to the room. We all scattered to clean up the langerie laying everywhere, put up whips and dildos and get clothes on while N went to open the door (im so glad I hadnt given them their own key to the room). About 20 minutes later G&G the 4th couple showed up and things got much much better (I absolutly adore G&G, kind of an older couple, really really sweet, awesome in bed, and really great at making new people comfortable...kinda swinger mentor types) We had already breifed them on the phone earlier about the drama...
We finished watching the Gator football game (Gators won) while we got ready for our night out on the town. I got dressed and ironed Sirs shirt and G fixed my hair and I was feeling a whole lot better cause getting dressed up alwayus makes me feel better...especially since I was wearing my new shoes that Donna likes and Sir was really really impressed with my new outfit and Im always happy when I buy something without him there and realize later I did GOOD.
We went and did some shopping at some toy stores, and the drama was very low key...everyone kinda stuck to their own couple and flirted and bought some really great toys and then we headed to dinner and ...well...the drama hit again. It was a really high class resteraunt that we had picked out, which was also a gentlemans club. M&K were rather rude comenting on the girls, and whiny about how the girls wouldnt come over and dance for them and I kept trying to explain that you actually had to PAY for the private dances that the other tables were getting and mentioned something about how it was nice that the table right next to us was spending close to a thousand dollars on private dances so we got to enjoy the show without shelling out money and he still didnt seem to get why the chicks wouldnt pay him any attention. (dude, you are childish if you really think strippers are there to flirt with you, they are there to make money....take out money and they will pay attention to you...and at this place..you might wanna show something more than a single....)
Dinner...the food was awesome....better be when we are paying over $500 for 9 people....
After dinner...we went back to the room....Sir, G&G, and A got in the hot tub. I sat down with N and J(the driver) to catch up on the football scores. No one ostrasized anyone, in fact we even invited M&K to join up but apparently he was still upset that women werent falling all over him so they went and locked themselves in the room. After the others got out of the hot tub, we all kinda piled onto the couches to watch movies. M is pissed that we arent playind with him (dude...look...NOONE is playing,...) Finally, about 1am...we kinda start to feel a little frisky and M&K havent come out of their room for a while...so the 6 of us move to the Master section of the suite and lock the door. Large kingsized bed, a couch and a hot tub...who needs to hang out in the living room..plenty room for all of us on this bed. Anyway....trust me..the hours spent in there WAY made up for the drama...I squirted for the first time ever in my life...wow it was awesome....Halfway through the playing...someone knocks on the door...we ignore it...10 minutes later we get a phone call..I ignore it...It rings again 5 minutes later and I turn off my cell phone. 30 minuites later when N goes to the kitchen to stock up on ice water, he realizes they have left. we all clap. finally, about 5am, we all decide to pass out and spread out around the apartment. We sleep in until well...ok...we stayed in bed until about 10am...Sir woke me up about 7:45 and erhm...wow again...the 6 of us clean up the apartment and pack up and check out of the hotel...head to IHOP....I must say....as far as both the relaxation level, the service, and the company...the meal was by far the best one we got all weekend. The waitress was awesome, the food came out fast and all of it was right......we gave the girl a $100 tip. The waiter at the $500 meal table? He got $25.
Long drive back home...dogs have managed to not kill each other nor rip the front porch off the house....we bathe N&A's dog cause its covered in dirt and smells...(first time that dog has ever spent the night outside) then they head on home and Sir and I head to the bedroom...erhm...YUM...I actually squirted for the 2nd time in my life and theres this nipple thing I want to ask about in another post sometime...then we load back into the Van to go meet my parents and pick up the kids. Get home and put them to bed...and erhm....YUM again...I love the new toys we bought.....and erhm...anal....for the first time in 5 years!!!!! Sir informed me this morning when he woke me up that apparently after a rather intense orgasm I passed out....I was still tied in the position I was in when I fell asleep...I dont remember anything but happiness and well...convulsions.....
Sigh....my weekend...
Wow....Ive never written so much in one post.....I need to just copy this for my Journal for Sir......
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We did a lot of lazing about and football watching lol....had a fire going and everything...*sigh*...i really do love the fall 
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