christine1
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Joined: 12/15/2007 From: i'm headed to HIM... Status: offline
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Asher, i had similar problems but it was a sis in law. i finally had to just consider the source and realize that her opinion of me and what i did wasn't important even though sometimes she made it hard to remember that. i know that with age, other peoples criticism of me has less effect and meaning....i hope the same happens with you but sooner. is there anyway that you could take her aside and politely ask her to mind her own business? i don't know your situation in the least, but i know that if you and your wife are happy with your arrangements, that's all that matters in the end. eta: maybe you could still be honest but not as honest? maybe next time just tell her you were sleeping and leave out the cuddling part? i have to do stuff like that with my family still... ~~lugs out the bags of 30 lbs of watermelon i just bought and gets out a big knife...anybody want some?~~
< Message edited by christine1 -- 6/29/2008 3:34:03 PM >
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