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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:41:37 PM

pissthirstysub

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hugs to Kali, sorry you are feeling so down.
I hate that my fingers still smell like onions. I scrubbed them and the nails pretty thoroghly and it's still there, perhaps it is all in my head? I think the worst part about working in a kitchen is going home smelling like the food.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:42:13 PM

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OK ladies repeat after me there is no closure..it is a fallacy. What there is instead is a Finish to the matter that you yourself put on it. No one, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, Dom or whatever is going to give you closure or make sense of what happened for you. They have moved on..you can too. every last person on earth has lost someone who meant something to them, through death, life, whatever and no one comes back to give them closure. They make it for themselves, when they fold away the last of their clothing, when they write that last letter to them, when they close the grave, when they accept a date with someone else.

Find a T-shirt of theirs, or something they gave you that you don't mind losing...Hold a funeral for the relationship and let that object stand in their place, bury it, burn it, set it adrift at sea or give it away and along with it the lost feeling you are holding onto. Embrace the anger, the loss and the grief and allow yourself to grieve, then look at yourself in the mirror and celebrate the person you are that THEY are now missing out on. You are much more than the relationship you are no longer in..you are vibrant, intelligent, capable, and will be for the rest of your life. No ifs, No Ands, No Buts, with or without another person in your life, you are whole and complete.

The only closure we have is the one we grant ourselves...Go ahead..make one for yourself..Today

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:46:17 PM

christine1

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geesh girl, making me cry here. i think it's a grand idea and i have one last thing of his here that i can do that exact thing with. i'm going to do it right now.

hugs and thanks for the great suggestion.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:48:38 PM

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what a great posting.. I knew he would never be able to give me closure.. so I had to make it for myself.. It is funny you should mention these things.. I burnt the t-shirt that held his scent on it.. and I sent it all away.. I had spent so many months in mourning of the relationship.. that it was impposible to move on, to be happy.. to do anything but what him back.

The finality of it made the seperation more real.. more solid. It gave me strength.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:56:41 PM

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I get my closure by mailing them anthrax.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:10:54 PM

christine1

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okay, 3 dozen dried red roses disintegrated into the breeze, i felt each one of them crush into my hands. wow, that was very hard and strangely beautiful at the same time.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:15:35 PM

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well done hon
hugs
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:27:26 PM

BlackPhx

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Hugs to you and Kudos MiLady...it's time for you to ROAR!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:31:30 PM

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Godzilla woman shall be thundering across the landscape again soon? Huzzah!!
Now do I quake in fear or cheer while trying not to get squished?!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:33:50 PM

christine1

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thanks poen.

rofl shadow! i won't squish ya...i might have big feet, but i can still tip toe through the tulips in them!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:50:12 PM

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I am sooo happy for you sweetie.. no Squishing the Tigger.. I likes him too much to see him as toe jam. LOL

As they said now it is time to ROAR!

Gwyniepoo.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:51:19 PM

GreedyTop

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quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

I get my closure by mailing them anthrax.

*SNORT*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:52:13 PM

Kalista07

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thnaks pts.....

try washing Your hands in lemon juice....It generally works well for me...

i hate that i feel like i'm getting further and further and further away from reality....humankind....hope...or something...

i hate it that He is at His friends house right now and i feel like i'm losing my mind.

i hate when it's taking everything i have to not just delete my profile and block this site

Kali

< Message edited by Kalista07 -- 9/7/2008 6:03:20 PM >

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 5:52:54 PM

GreedyTop

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*hugs to all who need them*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 6:16:18 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Poen is a GENIUS!!!!

Hugs to KALI and everyone else that needs them! You know we are on your side, we might be virtual, but lub is lub!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 6:33:42 PM

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I hate it when...my cat wakes me up, by waiting untill he's right in my face with a loud "MEEOW"

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 6:42:37 PM

auroraborealis

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Honey if you are having these thoughts and feelings.. you need to get on the phone and call him.. he will be right there.. and there for you. if you dont you will just get bitter about him not being there for you when you need it.. or your feelings of potenitaly dragging him away from hsi friends. You are in a relationship.. and that means trust, understanding, and helping one another out when it is good times, or rough times. He will want to be there for you.

Let him do his job honey.

*hugs*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 7:24:14 PM

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I hate it that I decided to make a plaid, pleated schoolgirl skirt for a school-themed play party this coming weekend... a party during which I probably won't even play.

I hate that instead of just a gathered skirt, I decide it must be pleated.

It must be stitched down, pleated. STITCHED DOWN. Aaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhhhhh.

I hate that it's taking forever to topstitch the pleats, and I keep taking breaks (and my butt is starting to get numb from the sewing chair).

I hate that I decide it should close with a zipper, and I haven't put a zipper into a garment in ages (none of that Renaissance stuff has zippers).

Okay, I love that I'm sewing again, but dangit, why can't I pick easier, faster projects?!?!?!

Cali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 7:30:35 PM

auroraborealis

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I wish I was there I would show you my pleat cheat.

I used to make Kilts in mass production.

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 7:35:35 PM

CalifChick

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Spill it woman.

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