beargonewild
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl i hate it that as a mother i'm helpless ...that i cannot begin to understand why she would do what she did early yesterday morning ...why someone with a bright "the sky's the limit" future would think ending her life is the way out. i hate it when people told me all day "you're not alone" however i did feel so alone in this (and i still do though i have a great support system) ...my emotions are out of whack right now ...i'm not upset or angry at her but it's hard putting on a strong face in front of strangers when all you want to do is cry.... i hate it that i'm totally lost for words... ~superduper mega Hugz~ I do empathize with you, more than you may realize right now. Without going into details, I was in your um's shoes a few short years ago. What helped was having a good circle of people who helped me move through the pain and see that life is more important to waste. I did seek counseling for a period of time and I had a small close group of friends who was there to listen, no judgement, no condemnation. All I will say is just be there for her, she is deeply hurting and yes you are probably also. You know how to contact me if you ever want to talk. (go ahead, have yourself a damn good cry!)
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