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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 11:21:43 AM

camille65

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I've always felt a little bit weird. Like there are rules I don't quite understand when it comes to social interaction, unspoken rules that others know about but I just can't get the hang of. When talking to people I feel awkward and stilted, small talk is an incredible chore for me. Group interaction is even worse because it is like a whole bunch of people are leaving me behind and I can never catch up.

You aren't alone.

Most likely it is more common to feel alien than not, people just don't admit it.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 11:36:22 AM

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Group interaction is even worse because it is like a whole bunch of people are leaving me behind and I can never catch up.

so true

Whilst my day wasn't too bad now in the last 30 mins my fibro as flaring up big time..great...now I finally manage more the mental move to work on my uni work load but now my legs and arms are in bloody pain...

I took my amitriptyline to hope it is getting better, but know that often this one leads to knock me out and puts me to sleep...

I just hate my current state of living with working around the clock...and now that I am out of it for a week and at my parents house I still can't chill due to uni work I have to catch up with...why can't we have the first of June...kind of NOW...as on 1st of June I am going to Gran Canaria with 2 service users and a colleague...and gosh I need a proper rest

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 11:42:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

I've always felt a little bit weird. Like there are rules I don't quite understand when it comes to social interaction, unspoken rules that others know about but I just can't get the hang of. When talking to people I feel awkward and stilted, small talk is an incredible chore for me. Group interaction is even worse because it is like a whole bunch of people are leaving me behind and I can never catch up.

You aren't alone.

Most likely it is more common to feel alien than not, people just don't admit it.

The important thing to remember is that others don't see this when they look at you. They look at you and feel they are the one who can't cope. What's going on is that we compare the way we feel inside to how people look outside. We've all picked up the ability to make small talk on the weather etc which makes us look comfortable doing it, even though we don't feel that way.

And this is the reason self help groups work, we get to compare how we feel inside to how everyone else feels inside and discover we are just like everyone else, not alien after all.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 12:09:57 PM

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Nope, I'm most definitely alien. I truly have a hard time understanding why humans do & say the things that they do. I have these rules for behavior & when they don't live up to them, I cut them dead & go back to my insular little alien world. My dog, on the other hand, is great company!!

But it feels really good to know that there are others out there who feel the same way. I don't tend to like most humans either. When I told His Evilness that he told me that he was truly honored that I do in fact like & enjoy him & the Mrs. In my perfect world, I would work by myself with computers. I get them.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 12:15:23 PM

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Close but not exactly a door prize Des..this is a different type of alienation..though one very common to those who grew up with abuse. I think in this case I will put the start of a thread over on Off Topic and we can all have at.

poenkitten

Thread titled the Alien Nation

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 12:17:10 PM

LinnaeaBorealis

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Heading over to Off Topic...........

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 12:46:14 PM

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I hate that I decided to hack off my torn pants into shorts while I was wearing them. I just goatse'd the hell out of the side of my leg, and didn't even feel it. Eep eep eep.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 3:50:27 PM

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Lynnxz...you ok?

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 4:02:43 PM

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I tried to staple it shut with those skin staples, but it wouldn't hold. :(

Thankfully, there's a awesome emergency clinic down the road. The doc gave me some stitches for $50. Hurray for cheap!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 4:28:01 PM

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Halloween should prove interesting at Casa de Asher this year.....

Somehow, I think that Halloween is always interesting at Casa de Asher. Just a guess, though.

You have NO ideal. Last year he was a priest and I was a nun.

Thats hawt

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 4:35:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Close but not exactly a door prize Des..this is a different type of alienation..though one very common to those who grew up with abuse. I think in this case I will put the start of a thread over on Off Topic and we can all have at.

poenkitten

Thread titled the Alien Nation

Poen, I do get it. And posted my experiences and understanding in the Alien Nation thread. Great name, btw.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 5:07:15 PM

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%$@^ing car alarm. Going off for over an hour. Arghhhhh!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 5:55:56 PM

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i hate that yesterday i allowed a man who works for the same agency i do who is at my same level to make me cry. i hate it that he feels he somehow has the right to talk down to me, criticise me, and tell me what the hell to do. i hate that i'm going to have to put him in his place today. i hate that i'm gonna have to pull out my card of "listen here ya bastard...i've been doing this for the last ten or 15 years and you've been doing it for uhm...3????!!!!! And i'm a master's level licensed clinican...You have a fucking bachelor's degree and you suck ass!!! Oh yeah and YOU ARE A FREAKING DRUNK!!!!!"
i really hate having to pull rank on some fucking jack ass mfer...But, seriously...This guy needs to be humbled....He's such a fucking little pussy too....ARGH!!!!
i also hate that last night i was sooo stressed that when we went to see our counselor we spent most of the time talking about me and me crying....

Kali
Who either needs some time off or an automatic weapon.......or both....

Sending you lots of hugs Kali. I hope today was better and the jackass was put in his place.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 5:57:17 PM

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It's annoying when i'm out shopping and buy the wrong size curtain rods without knowing how wide my windows are at home. *le sigh* D'oh! And here i thought they would work, too.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:31:14 PM

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i hate it when people get involved in gangs, hard drugs and the promises of power and escape from poverty. im seeing too many people fall into a horrible life i was once corrupted by. someday i hope as a society we get this filth of our streets. you dont get used to 4am junkie knocks on your door ever.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:37:53 PM

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I hate it when I'm cold.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:41:20 PM

girlygurl

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I'll warm you up Red.... Please let me warm you up!!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:42:02 PM

LinnaeaBorealis

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Red, didja go throw your arms around your dad & kiss him on top of his head like I wanted you to? Iffen you did, I'll be more than happy to transfer my body heat to you. Iffen you dint, I'm gonna get hold of the other male in your house & teach him how to really sneak up on you. *snickersnort*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:43:04 PM

LinnaeaBorealis

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Ooooooooh, yeah!!! A Girly Red Linea sammie!!!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/19/2009 6:54:36 PM

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I has a feeling there are enough Red fans here that we could make a Red lasagna!

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