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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 4:27:00 PM   
lally2


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
..we had to kill dinosaurs to get our leathers.


Uh huh. And the best floggers were made from the brunt-o-sor-ass ;-)

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and nasty mean Dominants got eaten by Tyrant- he-saw-us-rex (and felt extreme pity)

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 4:55:54 PM   
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I've been working on a thesis that will describe "do-me" Domme's and Doms.


And where are you going to defend this thesis? At the kinky University?

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What got me thinking about this was a femdom commenting on how she doesn't want to do "D/s" in a restaurant when she's eating out. She did not want to be saddled with "Mistress 'responsibilities'" there. Instead of telling her sub what to eat and engaging in power exchange at the dinner table, she just wanted to have dinner with man who'd be polite, considerate, and conscientious (to make the meal go well.)


That femdom you are referring to is me and you completely missed the point of my thread. I was talking about how I do D/s. And that is my way. I don't need to follow anyone's little rule book.

If you have issues with the fact that a woman is in charge of the dynamics in a Femdom/male sub dynamic and determines how it going to play itself out to suit her, you might want to reconsider what you are doing here. No one is holding a gun to your head.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 5:02:41 PM   
Jeffff


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I've been working on a thesis that will describe "do-me" Domme's and Doms.



I can't speak for every body, but I certainly expect to get "done". Well maybe not so much get as take.

If that makes Me a do me Dom?.... tough shit, the purists can go fuck themselves.


Pun intended


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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 5:07:43 PM   
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If you have issues with the fact that a woman is in charge of the dynamics in a Femdom/male sub dynamic and determines how it going to play itself out to suit her, you might want to reconsider what you are doing here. No one is holding a gun to your head.

- LA[/font]



Unfortunately, the gun held to your head blew out most of your brains.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 5:10:56 PM   
LadyAngelika


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tough shit, the purists can go fuck themselves.


Indeed! ;-)

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 5:52:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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tough shit, the purists can go fuck themselves.


Indeed! ;-)

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Guns, fucking, and good dinner conversation with a beautiful woman? Count me in!

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 5:58:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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tough shit, the purists can go fuck themselves.


Indeed! ;-)

- LA


Guns, fucking, and good dinner conversation with a beautiful woman? Count me in!


Michael, only you could incorporate a couple of sad bloke's desperate cries for attention into something hot.

Sounds like a Bond movie, actually ;-)

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 6:42:38 PM   
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Michael, only you could incorporate a couple of sad bloke's desperate cries for attention into something hot.

Sounds like a Bond movie, actually ;-)

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Not really or it would have sounded something like this.......

"Gunsshh, fucking, and good dinner convershashion with a beautiful woman? Count me in!"


Actually it still doesn't work. I could never imagine Connery spewing out something like "count me in" or finding you in the least bit attractive....Have you seen the quality of woman that this guy routinely bangs?

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 7:00:34 PM   
MasterXMagnum


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Sorry but this sort of crap wasn't around before the internet...and bragging about how early you were on bulletin boards doesn't carry much weight around here as many here did this at real bars back when sex was new and we had to kill dinosaurs to get our leathers.
OH indeed it was. The memory banks rebooted and I've recalled the name of the lady, Nancy Ava Miller. She's actually still active in PEP, and PEP was here before the WWW by a few years, at least, and IT was born as an organization out of a few individual groups deciding to get, well, "organized". There actually was something happening in the "community" before the web overwhelmed it.

The web is better, I admit. There's no "purist" talk going on here. It's much more open now, more people are free to explore their interests than were before. And there's no bragging, just some history. If you're not interested, feel free to ignore it. If you feel like slamming your dick on the computer to see if we can hear it, give that a shot too.



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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 7:01:56 PM   
SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Have you seen the quality of woman that this guy routinely bangs?


Not sure if you are talking about Connery or me but we both have a connoisseur's eye for women and trouble, not always in that order.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 7:08:03 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Nancy Ava Miller has certainly been around for a long time.. but this 9 levels of submission (in many different forms) is not hers... and it starting getting thrown around the internet.. without an author... likely ten years ago... maybe more...

the original was published in the Lesbian Sex Manual edited by then Pat Califia (now Patrick) and really has made the rounds of the net in various iterations

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 7:09:53 PM   
takemeforyourown


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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 7:37:38 PM   
domiguy


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I want to be Connery's slave...or maybe Patrick Stewart's.


You are a precious, sick and twisted fuck. God loves you.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 8:04:42 PM   
sweetboundesire


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Status: offline 		i'd be jack nicholson's slave....he's the only old dude in the world that can do it for me like that...mmmm mmmm! i swear that smile and those eyebrows would overcome his saggy skin and old man'ness any day!

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 8:14:39 PM   
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*g*

Easier way to state what lally just mentioned.... My girl has no limits... that doesn't mean there are no limits within the relationship, she lives within MINE and trusts in those to keep her safe.

That's how i understand no limits, too.

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I stopped reading at True.

i read the whole wretched thing, and it just sounds like a lot of comparisons and judgments to me. Non something, play this, true that. Any time i hear "real" or "true," i roll my eyes and say, according to WHO? What matters is how real or true it is to the people involved, not how it pans out to some list-maker.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 8:16:11 PM   
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I want to be Connery's slave...or maybe Patrick Stewart's.

Oh yesssssss. Sean Connery. ~wiping the drool off my face~

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 8:24:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: takemeforyourown

I want to be Connery's slave...or maybe Patrick Stewart's.


Oooooh yes, a British accent *swoon*

Bond. James Bond.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 8:43:24 PM   
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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/23/2010 9:08:03 PM   
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Bond: (pauses) I must be dreaming.

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RE: The Nine Degrees of Submission - 3/24/2010 5:21:50 AM   
RavenMuse


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
as many here did this at real bars back when sex was new and we had to kill dinosaurs to get our leathers.


You had dinosaurs? You lucky lucky bastard.... You have no idea how hard it is to make leather from primordial slime?


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