tiggerspoohbear
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I admit all of you who have responded to my admits are making me cry tears of joy. I advised the landlady as soon as she got home and was down there for invited supper, after which we did call the local police. I admit I only let him in to pee and after 20 min of innocuous chat, the unthinkable started. I can be hell on wheels when I have to be, but I was so shocked at his behavior that I was caught off guard. I admit I finally got him out, and it was after that he made other comments. Once of which was "are you looking for a boyfriend" NO was emphatically stated, come to find out from landlady that the fukktard is also married. I admit this was reported to the police and that they just left after taking a long report. They will be speaking to him in person, it won't be pleasant for him, OH NO, hope he's at home with his wife when they do this. I do have a mean streak but i keep it fairly well hidden. I admit I am not a victim, I know I did nothing wrong, and slapping his hand away when he tried to reach for my top seemed to sorta stamp it outta him. Of course, when he offered to show me his, and reached for his belt buckle, I told him NO, I'd seen enough of them to know they all looked the same and had no interest in his. I admit from now on my patio door will be locked day and night until I can get a friend to cut down a stick to keep it open a few inches, and use the extra few inches to jam into the open part. Policewomen were the ones who advised me of this. Right now, the fans I have will have to do. I admit I've seen him around the property all summer, there's been no indication of anything wrong, and I've sat at my landlady's kitcken table when he came in to discuss things about garbage bins and there was never an indication he was a dirty old pervert. Said pervert will be told to pick up the bin tomorrow when we are not home (Sharron won't leave tomorrow without me in tow ICK 8am departure) and that if he dares trespass more severe action will be taken. I admit the 2 police women who showed up were the best, they will contact the officer who's also their mental health rep and the nurse practicioner who works with him, since they have the contacts to get me the help I need with the mental health community. I admit it won't take as long as the other associations I'm trying to deal with, as the cops have more pull in that department. I admit I need new meds NOW, and hope to get the assessment I so direly need in a timely fashion.     This goes out for all the support I've received from all of you tonight. It's been a great help and made me feel so much better. Thank you will never be enough, you don't know how much it means to me and I love you all. I admit no one will ever get away with this again, time to find the baseball bat again, or keep the hammer handy for kneecaps and 'nads that need attention, but not in the way they think they're gonna get. I admit I'm too nice for my own good sometimes, but it's not a flaw, it's who I am. I will not apologize for not knowing that someone can turn the tables so fast on me and leave me totally befuddled. I admit this was a long admit, but I had my piece to say and I did so. I admit TFB, he was inside my apartment, I was not outside and I in no way asked for this. That was incredibly hurtful and made it sound to me like i was to blame. I was NOT. His fault, his problem, now he can deal with the police. I admit I have another admit, my landlady called him and ripped as strip up one side and down the other, that he was no longer welcome on the property, that the police would be so advised of his inapropriate behavior, and no offering to make it up would suffice. She also told him that he best expect the police to show up on his doorstep, as he was supposed to be a professional and that if he had done this to me, then who else had he done to, and who would be next? He almost cried to her, but she didn't give in, and hung up before he could. Ok, enough for now. Hugs and kisses and squishes to all who were there for me in a time of need. Know that I will always return the favor, and feel much stronger knowing the strong women on here make me feel so. I may be submissive, but I can raaaawr.
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