I admit I'm so mad at myself.
I admit I was looking forward to our trip into Johnson City and enjoying a girl's day trip but I couldn't keep my mouth shut and ended up hurting and making my friend angry.
I admit it is hard to remain silent when a friend is determined to reunite with the guy who cheated on her, lied to her, stole nearly everything she owns, left her broken and homeless after leaving her for the woman he cheated on her with.
I admit she even asked if this piece of excrement can move in and stay with us.
I admit several vulgarities escaped me in answer.
I admit....gabhhh grrrrrr aarrrgh.
Shutting up, shut up...... she's an adult, keep your opinions to yourself
I admit I need to mind my own business and stop being so damn judgmental.
I admit I don't understand loving someone so much you can convince yourself an habitual cheat and liar who has repeatedly made awful choices in all aspects of his life has "a good side, he ust needs her help."
I admit Winsome that I see this from both sides. I took my ex back even though I knew it was the wrong thing to do. It didn't feel right, but there was 16 years history between us, our son, and right at that time I thought I was more miserable without him than with him. However, the second time, well, I say second time ... I don't think it ever really stopped, but I was done. Arsehole still thought I was going to take him back again though.
From your side, on the outside looking in, I'd be seeing it exactly the same as you. Just as I knew that it's exactly how I'd have been seeing my situation too. You say it's not your business, but it is when it involves your home with his history. Not only that, but this is someone very close to you. How does the closest person to us stand by and say nothing? I believe that the value of the truest friend is to tell us the truths we don't want to hear xx
I deserved better. Not than you, but from you.