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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

Dropping the admits for this.

No, we've never officially switched, but it's a long story.  The short version is that I am by far the more dominant of the two of us.  We've been living together since October, and the situation has slowly been changing from me wearing his collar and doing what he says because that the way it is, to me doing what he says because I love him and I really want to be his slave, to him telling me what to do after seeking guidance from me about what he should be telling me, and finally to me just telling him what to tell me to do.  He's just not a Master.  You can't make a Master out of a pup.  I was so focused on my dream of being a house slave - and he was so focused on making it happen for me - that we lost sight of what the real dynamic had turned into (or deliberately ignored it, at times).  But I love my dog, and I couldn't let him continue to struggle like that for an illusion.  We both fucked up.  Now it's time to fix things.

He's already been warned that this is not an experiment, and that I am now in charge - and he'll do what I say, period.  We agreed to no limits with me, and I expect the same.  He's also been warned that I need to be on the bottom sometimes, and that this will likely mean playing with others eventually - but it'll just be play and not a relationship.  I gave him a list of my terms and expectations tonight, and after some discussion and hammering out of details he eagerly agreed to them all.  He's a very good dog, and he's very eager to serve me.  I think this will work out very well for both of us once the dust settles.  It's hard to let go of what we've been aiming for all this time - and my dream of being collared - but I have to do what will best serve both me and my pup.

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

The Master is also in service to those that look to her.

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

but I have to do what will best serve both me and my pup.

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

I admit now I want the Troll to bake my noodle.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I admit I have talked to Troll a bunch of times on the phone ;)

I admit I like those SoulPads, but I wonder how rain proof they are?

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I admit Greedy sounds like this adorable young woman on the phone that just gets you all itchy to TIE HER THA FUK UP AND MOLEST HER! *regains composure*

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ORIGINAL: MaxsBoy

Dropping the admits for this.

No, we've never officially switched, but it's a long story.  The short version is that I am by far the more dominant of the two of us.  We've been living together since October, and the situation has slowly been changing from me wearing his collar and doing what he says because that the way it is, to me doing what he says because I love him and I really want to be his slave, to him telling me what to do after seeking guidance from me about what he should be telling me, and finally to me just telling him what to tell me to do.  He's just not a Master.  You can't make a Master out of a pup.  I was so focused on my dream of being a house slave - and he was so focused on making it happen for me - that we lost sight of what the real dynamic had turned into (or deliberately ignored it, at times).  But I love my dog, and I couldn't let him continue to struggle like that for an illusion.  We both fucked up.  Now it's time to fix things.

He's already been warned that this is not an experiment, and that I am now in charge - and he'll do what I say, period.  We agreed to no limits with me, and I expect the same.  He's also been warned that I need to be on the bottom sometimes, and that this will likely mean playing with others eventually - but it'll just be play and not a relationship.  I gave him a list of my terms and expectations tonight, and after some discussion and hammering out of details he eagerly agreed to them all.  He's a very good dog, and he's very eager to serve me.  I think this will work out very well for both of us once the dust settles.  It's hard to let go of what we've been aiming for all this time - and my dream of being collared - but I have to do what will best serve both me and my pup.