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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:22:59 PM   
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Add to that, bejeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus Sophie, are ya at least on your way to the hospital?  And if someone did this to you are the cops involved?  


No and No. I'll be fine. I just needed to vent/rant/scream. I REALLY need a heavy bag, but my shoulder wouldn't stand up to that very well atm anyhow.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:23:16 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:24:48 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:25:31 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:27:14 PM   
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(Yeah, I think I did figure it out.)


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:28:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit it it's NOT YOUR FAULT.  Never has been, isn't and never will be.  If someone else passes those feelings on to you then they're a douchecanoe-asshat-twatwaffle all rolled into one.

I admit you don't deserve that treatment, you're a good person and someone else better realize they have to admit to their own shit and not blame it on you, regardless who it is.

I admit I haz a big stupid stick, I can lend it to ya or I can do the job myself and hit said someone else upside the head a few times to knock some sense into it.

I admit tender {{{{{HUGS}}}}} and damn woman, don't be so hard on yourself, you deserve nothing but the best.

I admit a weekend alone to think things over and take care of yourself are #1 priority.  It was hard for me to learn that I have to put myself #1, in fact it took me over 30 yrs, but I finally learned to do it.  You have to do that too, if not for just keeping your sanity and not ending up around the bend like I have.




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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:30:52 PM   
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I admit I think sophie is a sweetie.

(Yeah, I think I did figure it out.)



I admit I haven't been called a sweetie in...ummmm what year is it again? LMAO

I admit thanks!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:36:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sophie, Im going to say this straight up. Get to a hospital, immediately. Then, go to the police. This is NOT your fault. This asshole needs to be on his way to prison.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:37:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I have made some shitty choices.

I admit it makes me batshit fucking crazy...I cannot STAND for things to be left up in the air, open, unfinished.

I admit I just want to go back, right now, and smash someone's fucking head in.

I admit it is taking every ounce of my being (at 199lbs that's alot!) to NOT act on this urge.

I admit I need to get far far away from everyone and everything.

I admit I'm considering throwing my cell in the garbage and running.

I admit I may need someone to tie me up in their basement for this person's sake.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 1:54:52 PM   
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I admit it the next person that wants to attack me better eat their f'n wheaties

I admit saying.......... wanna bet?

You take your ass for a x-ray right now!  I'll kick your ass five ways to Sunday if you don't.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:15:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I'd take LadyP's advice.  I'm sure she's had more than enough practice for the ass-kicking she promised. 

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:25:21 PM   
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I admit it I can't even put the pieces together to explain it.

I admit it, it's my fault. It's always my fault. I have feelings. I want too much. I need too much. I'm selfish. I should give and give and give everything to everyone all the time and never ever receive anything, nor hope to.

eta: I admit I'm taking my pity party home, taking the Monster to his dad and spending the weekend alone, hating life, the way it was apparently meant to be.


Sophie,

You are in a relationship that has led to physical altercations on more than one occasion:
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3542360

You are in a relationship in which you are unable to get your needs and wants met.
You are exhibit signs that you often feel frustrated, unhappy, disempowered.

You are behaving in ways that in my opinion are self destructive.

Please call your local women's shelter.
Even if you hate the idea of counseling, I think perhaps being a part of a group may help you regain some perspective.

This relationship is abusive, and even if he never laid a hand on you, you are engaging in as much abusive behavior towards you as he is.

Please get medical attention.
And get the other supports you need and deserve.

edit: clarity

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 4/8/2011 2:27:56 PM >

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:38:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sophiesback
I admit it the next person that wants to attack me better eat their f'n wheaties

I admit saying.......... wanna bet?

You take your ass for a x-ray right now!  I'll kick your ass five ways to Sunday if you don't.




I admit to giving the last lady who told me this a case of spanker's elbow. 

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:40:27 PM   
sophiesback


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sophiesback
I admit it the next person that wants to attack me better eat their f'n wheaties

I admit saying.......... wanna bet?

You take your ass for a x-ray right now!  I'll kick your ass five ways to Sunday if you don't.



I admit.. I'd take that bet. Too bad You're not close enough to follow through

I admit X-rays will just prove what I already know.



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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:47:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit I have no problem to fessing up that I've beat someone so hard that My own arms are tired.  LOL.

I admit that one of the people that I play with is a wonderful workout.

I admit it surprised Me that he doens't have leather butt.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:48:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sophie, the reason you arent going is to protect him. You need to end the cycle, now.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:54:19 PM   
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I admit.. I'd take that bet. Too bad You're not close enough to follow through

I admit X-rays will just prove what I already know.



I admit that's just luck in geography on your part.

I admit you might want to count your blessings on that.

I admit, there is no reason for you not to go get an x-ray or seek medical care.  I don't know what happened, but you need to take care of your physical health.

I admit when you don't value yourself, sophie, it pisses Me off a bit.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 2:59:14 PM   
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Call me a royal bitch........it's cool, I can take it, and for all I know, maybe I am not getting something here.

But I've been reading about this Sophie drama off and on for days, maybe weeks.

Sophie, you are an addict of sorts. You LIKE the attention you get by being a victim. You really seem to enjoy it. You enjoy coming here and pissing and moaning about how stupid you are, how terrible your life is, yet you keep going right back to the abuse.

I told a female co-worker once that I was sick to death of hearing her sob stories. For 6 years I had watched her come in with bruises and scrapes because of her husband, then her own sons. Watching her fuck up her work, crying, moaning about how terrible things were. Time and time again I listened and gave her advice. Just like your friends here do.

So I have to ask......exactly what is it going to take for you to get your head out of your ass and quit being a victim? There really are much more satisfying roles you can play. Survivor, advocate, champion, etc etc etc.

Oh yeah..........the co-worker. Her husband still uses her for a punching bag. Her son's do it to their S.O.s and her daughter gets it from her husband.....as do her children. Hell of a legacy wouldn't you say?


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 3:20:33 PM   
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 4/8/2011 3:22:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I admit it I loves all you strong wimmins here.

I've been where you are, Sophie. One day I came to the realization that I didn't deserve to be treated that way any longer & I got out. And I've never allowed anyone else to touch me in anger since.

I agree with LaT, being a victim & the attention that one receives for that can be addicting. But is that how you really want to be seen? As a helpless victim? That you don't have the ovaries to stand up & fight for yourself & your kid???

This is gonna require a lot more than just listening to what we have to say here on the boards. This is a deep-seated behavior pattern that isn't going to change overnight. And it isn't easy to change it. The scariest part for me was the idea that I might end up alone, because I wouldn't take the abuse anymore. How would I ever attract those who would treat me well, the way that I know that I deserve to be treated???

You need to not only go get the xrays to be certain of what's going on with your shoulder, but you also need to go to the police & file a report of assault. And you need to get yourself some therapy. This isn't just about you, darlin. You've got the kids too. And they know what's going on & are traumatized by it. If you won't take care of yourself, think about the kids. They deserve to live in a drama-free environment. Your monster doesn't need to feel like he has to protect you.

And LaT you're not a royal bitch, you're someone who cares & tells it like it is. I admire you a lot, always have.

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