angelikaJ
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ How badly do you want this? Procrastinators tend to be perfectionistic. My Master has been teaching me: Don't let the perfect become the enemy of the good.". You don't have to do this... but if you want to do this, if you choose to do this, then just do it to the best of your ability. Many mistakes do have do-over buttons, it just means the task will take longer. And maybe you might find keeping a journal helpful... or not. Thank you for this....my trainer had a similar discussion with me yesteray.. I have a bad habit of getting overly excited about something, and putting everything I have into it, then the instant something doesnt go quite the way I had imagined it in my head...I get disappointed and back away completely... He says I need to work on not expecting so much so quickly...and just learn to complete one thing at a time before I move on... Im trying, honest.... Ive been considering the journal idea....but Im afraid Ill end up with just one more thing Im trying to shove into a busy day...I already have alarms set to remind me when to eat... Consider keeping a journal AND if you write in it good, and if you don't, good too. Win/Win! Keeping it on my bed makes it easy to grab if i have a thought. Ghita, I have found that things rarely go as we imagine them in our heads. But seeing that as failure (it's not) stops us from seeing a world of wonderful possibilities. (Note: I struggle with that too.) If those possibilities begin to overwhelm you, you can journal about them IF you wish... and ever get around to it.
< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 4/25/2012 4:05:15 AM >
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