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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 8:00:18 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Status: offline 		How about talking to the kid like they are a human being, and not a trained animal? How about reason? Worked for me and my sis.

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ORIGINAL: jlf1961

I admit that when time outs dont work, (grandson keeps getting up and walking away from the chair to try and watch tv) and taking away tv, or putting his toys up or anything else I can think of, what else is there to do?


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 8:46:52 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I admit when my daughter was younger and still living at home, I tried everything with her. I removed everything out of the house that she would miss. I even took her bed and clothing out of her bedroom and even took the door off the hinges. It still didn't work. She simply did not care.

I admit she's extremely stubborn and when she makes up her mind that she will or won't do something, that's it. There's no changing it.
I admit I even spanked her and even that didn't work.

I admit for some parents they are lucky enough to have a child who will get by with just removing something or a time out. For others they need a heavier hand and then others, like mine....nothing at all works and you go insane and have a mental meltdown.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 8:53:00 PM   
Switcheroo1983


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I admit when my daughter was younger and still living at home, I tried everything with her. I removed everything out of the house that she would miss. I even took her bed and clothing out of her bedroom and even took the door off the hinges. It still didn't work. She simply did not care.

I admit she's extremely stubborn and when she makes up her mind that she will or won't do something, that's it. There's no changing it.
I admit I even spanked her and even that didn't work.

I admit for some parents they are lucky enough to have a child who will get by with just removing something or a time out. For others they need a heavier hand and then others, like mine....nothing at all works and you go insane and have a mental meltdown.


I admit I am one of those lucky parents where time-out works. I've seen in my daughters that time-out is effective, and that often they just need to cool their jets.

I admit that I do not judge parents that spank. Parenting is not something that can come from a book, and what works for some kids simply will not for others.

I admit that yes, sometimes, nothing works for some kids and parents. Children are not a separate species, or "small adults", they are human beings with wills and determinations of their own.

I admit I am also one of those "crazies" that think children have rights just the same as an adult. There is spanking, and there is abuse. Abuse is never to be tolerated or accepted.

I admit abuse comes in many form, from hitting, sexual, verbal, and emotional. There are parents who have never laid a hand on their children that will instead belittle them/scream at them/rape them.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 8:57:35 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I admit there were many, many, many times where I screamed at my daughter and she screamed right back at me.
I admit she never had a normal childhood though unfortunately which caused her problems growing up.
I admit as she grows older she's not quite so bad but she still is just as stubborn as ever.
I admit there are times I really feel sorry for her boyfriend lol.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 10:30:10 PM   
jlf1961


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Status: offline 		I admit that my grandson's behavior issues are a recent development.

I admit that my son and daughter in law are separated.

I admit that my grandson is mistreating animals and my grand nephew as well as being downright rebellious with adults both at home and at kindergarten.

I admit that my daughter and law and rest of family have tried everything we were advised to do by the local mental health/mental retardation agency while we wait for his appointment with them in March.

I admit that the one I really want to spank, or beat some sense into is my son.

I admit that my daughter in law and my son are separated due to questionable behavior on my son's part with women he new when he lived in North Carolina 6 years ago.

I admit that everyone thinks my son is cheating on my daughter in law.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 11:03:39 PM   
calamitysandra


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Status: offline 		I admit, that while I am always opposed to corporal punishment, I would be especially leery of it with Jeffs grandson. The boy seems to be having major issues, and I would stay far, far away from teaching him that violence is a acceptable tool to resolve problems.

I hope you and your family will find the strength you will need for yourself and for the child. Tell the kid you love him, despite everything that is going on.

< Message edited by calamitysandra -- 2/3/2013 11:05:00 PM >

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 11:19:17 PM   
jlf1961


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Status: offline 		I admit that spanking is our last resort, and has been used once, when he kicked a dog, and I admit that I probably should have handled it differently.

I admit that the appointment was made in January after he was caught swinging my daughter in law's dad's dog around in a pillow case.

I admit the people at the local MHMR agency did not seem to feel that his behavior is serious enough to merit an emergency appointment.

I admit that the people that make the appointments at that office are not mental health professionals, but office drones.

I admit that the state of Texas has cut funding for mental health care in some stupid areas, such as not having mental health professionals making appointments or available to assess the situation for a possible client.

I admit that Theresa, my daughter in law, was the best thing that happened to my son, hell I would love to meet a woman like her, only with an Irish accent and maybe a bit older, say 15 years.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/3/2013 11:36:28 PM   
calamitysandra


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Status: offline 		You and your family will be in my thoughts Jeff. The positive energy I am sending might take a day to cross the pond, but it will get there eventually.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 3:51:11 AM   
ashjor911


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I admit that my life without CM forums sucks ..... big time.
I admit that i am here .... hugs to all.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 6:45:21 AM   
Switcheroo1983


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Status: offline 		I admit I am happy Ash was able to finally get in. I too enjoy "this side" of the site.

I admit the new coffee I bought is lacking and leaving me wanting more.

I admit I am going to finally try "e-cigs" just to see if i like them. If so, I may likely switch.

I admit, if anyone else here has tried/currently smokes e-cigs, I'm all ears as to your review(s) on them.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 7:51:43 AM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		I admit that i am still not able to acess CM .. throw my regular connection ... i have to use VPN to enter this side.. WTF
I admit that i am stuck at "Auto Log-in" thing...gah

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 10:17:59 AM   
jlf1961


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Status: offline 		I admit the whole family is relieved, Damian woke up today with no temp.

I admit the only thing he fussed about was wanting to see his favorite music videos on my computer.

I admit I can handle the Gummy Bears song, but Gundam style is not my cup of tea.

I admit that he also likes the video "addicted to love" from my younger days.

I admit I have too things to work on with Damian, one his taste in music and two, get the boy ready for a career in the Army, airborne and rangers.

I admit I would like Damian to go to West Point, but that is his choice, he can be an enlisted grunt if he wants to.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 10:29:35 AM   
Switcheroo1983


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Status: offline 		I admit, back when I was 18 and in excellent physical shape, I tried to enlist in the US Army but was rejected due to my vision.

I admit I wear very strong prescription lenses.

I admit my Father retired from the US Army after 25 years of service.

I admit my Uncle, his brother, retired from the US Army after 17 (I believe) years of service on medical grounds.

I admit no member of my Mother's family has served in the military or military capacity since WW2.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 10:39:18 AM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		I admit my husband gave me a really long letter this morning instead of a birthday card and that, even though I LOVE my present, the letter was the best present I could ever receive.

I admit he has given me love letters before, but this one meant the most.

I admit that I'm still gushing over his words.

I admit I feel for jlf1961. It's not easy dealing with a hard-headed, strong-willed child.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 10:58:34 AM   
jlf1961


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quote:

ORIGINAL: theshytype

I admit my husband gave me a really long letter this morning instead of a birthday card and that, even though I LOVE my present, the letter was the best present I could ever receive.

I admit he has given me love letters before, but this one meant the most.

I admit that I'm still gushing over his words.

I admit I feel for jlf1961. It's not easy dealing with a hard-headed, strong-willed child.



I admit happy birthday to theshytype, happy 21st.

I admit I am glad that she enjoyed her gift, and I am adding birthday wishes.

I admit wish number one is that she and her husband win the powerball drawing.

I admit that wish number two is that her favorite European super car is placed in her driveway.

I admit that for wish number three, she and her husband get the house of their dreams in the perfect location.

I admit that I have tendency to wish for big things for others, I just want to win a million in the mega ball lotto.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 11:00:22 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Happy birthday Shytype

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 11:01:51 AM   
Switcheroo1983


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Status: offline 		21?! Wow, Happy Birthday!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 11:04:52 AM   
jlf1961


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Status: offline 		I admit that I am guessing at shytype's age.

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You cannot control who comes into your life, but you can control which airlock you throw them out of.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 11:46:16 AM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		happy birthday Shytype

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 2/4/2013 12:08:09 PM   
lmpishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		I admit that after several weeks of sickness that the doctor found a spot on my husband's lung.

I admit I took a half day to take him to the hosp for further testing. It is just a waiting game now.

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