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I admit you took the words right out of my mouth, theshytype. I admit I've heard a saying before, at a past job: "If you want to get something done, give it to the busiest person" - since that's the person who gets things done. I admit in addition to taking on a whole additional load at work (and part of this is my fault - I see things that need to get done so I do them, particularly if nobody else is stepping up or sees it needs doing), I am dealing with an extremely passive-aggressive coworker who talks a great talk about how hard she works but doesn't actually do the work. It took her 2 1/2 weeks to create a page of FAQs for our program users. And that's ALL she did. I admit, in that time, someone had to do the rest of the work, and now she's spewing remarks throughout the day, playing victim, being upset, whenever she sees how much work I've been doing. I admit, she brings in treats for everyone all the time, but then comments on how much other people are eating it ("You're having ANOTHER muffin, Joe?? How many is that today?"). I admit that kind of bitchiness pisses me off. I admit I can usually let people like this roll off my back but I'm having a really hard time this time. I've never dealt with someone so extremely passive aggressive and bitchy and lazy before, all in one. I admit it gets me uptight and I have no idea how to deal with this one.
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