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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/14/2013 9:27:34 AM

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I admit that there are people around me who are going through some heavy stuff... my little problems don't amount to a hill of beans... But they are still kind of important to me... And I feel kind of shallow for feeling that way...

Sunshinemiss... I saw this the other day, and thought that it rang true. We're all fighting our own battles, and their tough for us... it isn't shallow... it's human.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/14/2013 10:09:16 AM

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Allie, I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. Don't worry about being, as you stated, a "negative Nancy". That's the great thing about this thread, we help each other out.

I admit your posts are greatly missed.

I admit wishing you happy holidays.

I admit to sending you happy thoughts and know that you're in my prayers. You are indeed a treasure & one of the special ones here.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/14/2013 12:06:30 PM

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Tig... thank you so much.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 5:18:30 AM

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I admit that I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself today.
I admit that reading through recent posts here , I have to realize how lucky i am.
I admit warm thoughts and hugs to all who are ill, or who are facing a less than perfect Holiday season.

I admit I am lonely and discouraged.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 7:01:40 AM

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I admit hot lips (I couldn't resist

), being lonely & discouraged are my middle names at times.

I admit to totally understanding where you're coming from.

I admit you know this is the one thread where we try to help each other out. You're part of that group now.

I admit you is gooood peoples.

I admit if you need a pair of listening eyes, don't hesitate to c-mail me anytime. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 9:27:40 AM

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I admit there's a quote that helped me when everything was falling apart some years ago. I don't know who said it:

"Everything will be okay in the end. And if it isn't okay, it isn't the end."

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 9:52:54 AM

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I admit NV, that's a darned good rule to live by. i'll have to remember that!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 12:06:11 PM

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I admit there's a quote that helped me when everything was falling apart some years ago. I don't know who said it:

"Everything will be okay in the end. And if it isn't okay, it isn't the end."

I admit that's a damn good quote, thanks for sharing

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 1:36:13 PM

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i admit i am beginning to see persistant behavior issues an refusal to respect boundaries from someone whos supposed to be a good friend , an it makes me wonder, if this is what they're like with me. was the things their partener did really as mean as i was led to believe, or were they justified.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 1:54:32 PM

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i admit i am beginning to see persistant behavior issues an refusal to respect boundaries from someone whos supposed to be a good friend , an it makes me wonder, if this is what they're like with me. was the things their partener did really as mean as i was led to believe, or were they justified.

I have been having similar problems with a family member over refusal to respect boundaries. How are you dealing with this?

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 2:15:10 PM

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I admit... I got a lot accomplished today and I feel good about it.

I admit... Forcing myself out of bed this morning was the first step.

I admit... I regret all those mornings that I let my covers consume me....

I admit... Lying around doesn't change reality... I have to take steps in a positive direction.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 2:22:28 PM

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unfucking believable. she wouldn't leave me alone and when i told her to leave me alone i have let her know many times politely i need some space and if she will not leave me alone i will block hershe said she had a lot on her plate right now and if i cared i wouldn't be adding to her stress. i told her turn it around. I have so much on my plate, that if she cared she wouldn't keep blathering on about boys an being horny and wanting to smoke pot while i struggled with mental health emotional health and calley may's illness.

And if what was on her plate was as heavy as fighting not to kill herself or get hospitalized or seriously un diagnosed bladder infections, if she had said so i would listen but if not I AMM having serious issues and have told you for a while i need space.

she'supset me so much i am shaking.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 2:30:13 PM

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FelineRanger, i've had to get very blunt. tell them they're not respecting my boundaries and if they won't stop i will block them.

I have my mom refusing to respect boundaries too, and sometimes i just have to put my foot down and walk off and deal with the fall out. She gets mad and acts like I am trying to start something or be mean, and i ihave explained to her before I am not I just can't deal with talking about the issue or dealing with the issue or what ever it is at the time and she still cts like i am trying to strat something when i enforce a boundary so i just eventually stop trying to make it all better with her and if she wants to imagain i am mad or trying to be hurtful w/e it's her nose up her butt problem not mine.

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i admit i am beginning to see persistant behavior issues an refusal to respect boundaries from someone whos supposed to be a good friend , an it makes me wonder, if this is what they're like with me. was the things their partener did really as mean as i was led to believe, or were they justified.

I have been having similar problems with a family member over refusal to respect boundaries. How are you dealing with this?

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 2:35:16 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that you also have someone so selfish in your life. I hope things work out in your favor sooner rather than later.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 3:09:28 PM

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Thank you. I am sorry you're having trouble with boundary respect too.

It wprobably won't get better to much sooner for me because me sticking to my boundaries is new, and she is always the sort to make it all about her. but it will get better because i am learning to simply not engage in the subject , dont arge with her, state your boundary and walk off, or to not even let her know some parts of my life.

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I'm sorry to hear that you also have someone so selfish in your life. I hope things work out in your favor sooner rather than later.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 3:16:30 PM

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Sticking to my boundaries is not new for me. Having my someone ignore them consistently, even deliberately is new for me. And, yeah, it's my mother, too. WTF is it with moms ignoring boundaries? Just to keep this on topic, I admit I lose my temper with her a lot.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 3:17:12 PM

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I admit that I feel better now, than I did when I first posted here this morning.
I admit that Poohbear's understanding brought a tear to my eye.
I admit this means a lot, since she is also fighting a good fight (wink)
I admit that writing these little shitty things here is truly a bit like micro therapy.
I admit that this surprised me!!!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 3:38:00 PM

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i admit that i believe sometimes they feel like they gave birth to you or raised you so you're still their lil kid and they dont have to treat you as an adult and respect boundaries. i admit further if they're the sort to never believe in respecting boundares or never had theirs respected, that they're further more unlikely to understand what a healthy boundary is or have them, sonetmes loosing your patience and temper is needed. one day i snapped right back at my mom and told her youre throwing a tantrum and you're shouting at me and i do not deserve it. i have not done anything other than say we're to busy to stop at joanns today and it's true.

she immediatly became rational again and said she was sory, but it doesnt always work that way with her.

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Sticking to my boundaries is not new for me. Having my someone ignore them consistently, even deliberately is new for me. And, yeah, it's my mother, too. WTF is it with moms ignoring boundaries? Just to keep this on topic, I admit I lose my temper with her a lot.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 3:59:57 PM

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I admit I'm glad you're feeling better BB. This does help, even if it's just getting it off your chest.

I admit to having a particularly well *ahem* endowed chestular area. Makes for a lot of getting it off sometimes.

I admit my mom was famous for not respecting boundaries. My sister & I were made to feel really guilty when we did so. It got so bad for me, I literally had to leave the city. Told her & my dad "this city just isn't big enough for the 3 of us". We're talking a population of over a million people!!

I admit I had to drive Mister Man back to the hospital today. What a trip. Good thing this part of Ontario into Montreal knows how to drive in snow. Toronto would be a big pile up of cars from one end to the other. I drove the 401 there for enough winters.

Edited for various damned auto corrects.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 12/15/2013 4:08:05 PM

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i admit i wish daddy could have just refused to go to work these last 3 days and taken care of me, bt he can't spare the money and work needs him. plus. as sic and as yucky as this is making me feel, this bladder infection isn't such an emergncy that daddy has to take off work. i have my parents here if something truly comes up. i just am scared an tired an sick an i need to suck it up and convalese by myself till tonight cuz daddy is off tomorow and tuesday.

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