RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 7:09:14 AM

Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline

LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

(in reply to LadyPact)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 7:49:31 AM

Posts: 9030
Joined: 3/13/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

I have to laugh at these cheating threads too. Since according to research after research approx. 60% of people cheat on their partner. Either most of the 40% are dedicated CM users or some people are telling porkies.

I've never seen the attraction of kink with morals to be honest, it just doesn't seem kinky to me. To quote Nietzche 'Fear is the mother of morality'.

_____________________________

There are fascists who consider themselves humanitarians, like cannibals on a health kick, eating only vegetarians.

(in reply to Dnomyar)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 11:40:14 AM

Posts: 179
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline

There is no justification for being dishonest to a person you claim to love, no matter what the majority think and do. If statistics said 60% of the population slaughtered babies, would that make it ok? Not in my opinion.

(in reply to meatcleaver)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 11:59:17 AM

Posts: 242
Joined: 2/7/2007
Status: offline

...or the only people who participate in a topic about how bad cheating is, are people who don't cheat

meatcleaver, then we can quote Mark Twain, while were are at it: "There are three kinds of lies: lies, damn lies and statistics"

(in reply to Indemnis)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 2:58:36 PM

Posts: 2739
Joined: 2/12/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Male subs who spring on their wife/gf that they are kinky, get the lady to reluctantly try as best she can to make it work by learning and having an open mind, only to find out he is still cheating on the side with a femdom because he needs a "real Mistress."

Guys, if you are going to try to make it work with your wife or significant other, the first thing you need to do is be honest and stop the flings on the side. It must be heartbreaking for a woman to realize she's being giving it her all, only to find out he was still cheating on the side.

Akasha

What the fuck are you talking about?

Grow a fucking dick...then you'll know what you're talking about.

I've said it before...I'll say it again...you're a guy hiding behind a pair of cyber titties.

Give this "girl" some fucking testosterone shots...then "she'll" know what the fuck she's talking about.

(in reply to AAkasha)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 3:55:41 PM

Posts: 221
Joined: 4/8/2007
From: Orlando, FL
Status: offline

I found it just as heartbreaking, as did another young man, when we both inadvertently discovered we were both told, by the same woman, that each of us were her only sub. While I prefer monogamous relationships, at least he wouldn't have been hurt if she'd have simply told him she wanted another sub.

Similarly, in my humble opinion, if someone is not getting their needs fulfilled within their marriage, then they should either be up front with their parter about their problem; if there's no solution to be found within the marriage, then they should also be up-front about their desire for something else on the side. It's not cheating if it's consentual, and noone's feelings would be hurt by their finding things out the hard way. As always, just my $0.02...

-Einzelgänger

(in reply to AAkasha)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 4:35:55 PM

Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

They sure can! But when their spouse is fulfilling their kink and they still go elsewhere, it speaks volumes as to their character.

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to Dnomyar)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 5:33:57 PM

Posts: 221
Joined: 4/8/2007
From: Orlando, FL
Status: offline

...or lack thereof.

-Einzelgänger

(in reply to AquaticSub)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 5:38:57 PM

Posts: 1272
Joined: 4/11/2007
Status: offline

Even if their spouse is happy with them doing it?

minnetar

(in reply to MstrssPassion)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 6:31:04 PM

Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline

If they approve then it's not really cheating is it?

_____________________________

Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to minnetar)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 7:43:31 PM

Posts: 327
Joined: 2/27/2006
Status: offline

I say, if yu're gonna cheat, at least be honest about it

(in reply to AquaticSub)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 8:05:49 PM

Posts: 1779
Joined: 2/16/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tuomas

Why do people go out with married people, anyway?

Cheaters really annoy me. Afterall, if they are capible of doing that to someone they love -what kind of sick things will they do to people they don't care about?

perhaps because not all married people who see others ARE cheaters.

my husband knows what i do on a general level. he isnt into any sort of kink, and i feel unfulfilled without it. we've been happily honorably non-monogamous for years now.

i say "on a general level" because we dont divulge details to one another, it leads to hurt feelings and jealousy issues, and this way works better for us.

kitten who would love to be totally open with him, but it just doesnt work that way.

(in reply to Tuomas)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 8:09:03 PM

Posts: 54
Joined: 4/8/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

If they approve then it's not really cheating is it?

ROFL!!! i wouldn't think so...but who knows!

_____________________________

far-sæla,
pasha

“How does one become a butterfly?" she asked. "You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”

(in reply to AquaticSub)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 10:07:25 PM

Posts: 98
Joined: 5/4/2007
Status: offline

Prepared for my stoning now.

_____________________________

This space was not taken hostage by iranians.

Het-flexible

(in reply to pashafewj)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/11/2007 10:18:49 PM

MzMia

Posts: 5333
Joined: 7/30/2004
Status: offline

Maybe its me, but I can think of many other scenario's that are much
lower than this.
How low can ya go?

_____________________________

Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

(in reply to AAkasha)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/12/2007 3:47:53 AM

Posts: 142
Joined: 8/4/2006
Status: offline

I do agree that he should have talk with his wife from the beginning. He should have let her know his feelings and desires. A married person should never be involved without their better half knowing. Their spouse should always know about it and is ok with it.

(in reply to Lynae78)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/12/2007 6:06:46 AM

Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

Eh?? It would be nice if people had the courage to be intimate with their spouses. i don't play with married men. i've been approached plenty with the "my wife isn't into BDSM but she's okay with me finding my kink outside the marriage" to which i reply "i would love to hear that from Your wife and if she assures me it's okay, then we can talk about meeting." It's so weird that i never hear from that Dom again.... i don't understand....

_____________________________

Proudly owned by InkedMaster. He is the one i obey, serve, honor and love.

No one is honored for what they've received. Honor is the reward for what has been given.

(in reply to Dnomyar)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/12/2007 6:22:03 AM

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

LMAO. Listen to yourselves. What great morals you have. Married people cannot go outside side of their marriage to satisify their kinks. Single ones can whip, beat , brand, pee on , ect ,ect other people and thats great. Why not admit that you dont want competition from the married ones.

Missed the target big with this one, but thank you for the laugh.

(in reply to Dnomyar)

RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating - 5/12/2007 6:53:27 AM

Posts: 260
Joined: 4/17/2007
Status: offline

If you don't get satisfied by the one you marry, then why be married at all and make a farce of it by cheating? Unless of course you either married for money or so the kids didn't get labeled as bastards....

(in reply to LadyPact)

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2024

Terms of Service

0.141