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AAkasha -> The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 2:44:09 PM)
Male subs who spring on their wife/gf that they are kinky, get the lady to reluctantly try as best she can to make it work by learning and having an open mind, only to find out he is still cheating on the side with a femdom because he needs a "real Mistress." Guys, if you are going to try to make it work with your wife or significant other, the first thing you need to do is be honest and stop the flings on the side. It must be heartbreaking for a woman to realize she's being giving it her all, only to find out he was still cheating on the side. Akasha

MstrssPassion -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:02:56 PM)
exactly why I make it a rule to not have anything to do with married men... period

MadameButterfly -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:07:46 PM)
Here Here!! I have a stedfast rule that I do not engage in relationships with married men. I do have someone I play with from time to time that is married but his wife is right there learning as we go. Madame Butterfly

domiguy -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:09:00 PM)
Yes it is...but I imagine it must be priceless to see the expression on your wife's face when you explain to her just after she has consumed a liter of your pee that Sally doesn't make all of those strange faces when she does it.

slaveish -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:13:16 PM)
Omg ....................................................................................... ~hysterical~

AquaticSub -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:20:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha Male subs who spring on their wife/gf that they are kinky, get the lady to reluctantly try as best she can to make it work by learning and having an open mind, only to find out he is still cheating on the side with a femdom because he needs a "real Mistress." Guys, if you are going to try to make it work with your wife or significant other, the first thing you need to do is be honest and stop the flings on the side. It must be heartbreaking for a woman to realize she's being giving it her all, only to find out he was still cheating on the side. Akasha Not to mention that it's going to jade her for the next guy. It's hardly a wonder that kinky-folk who don't want demanding 24/7 relationships have trouble getting otherwise willing and loving partners to try their kinks for fear of a slippery slope.

MercTech -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:25:20 PM)
It works the other way as well. The first clue I had that my wife was into such kink was when she was recruited into a polyamory and was forbidden by her dom ever to be alone in a room with me ever again. I had some really strange times in 1992. Stefan

AquaticSub -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 3:35:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MercTech It works the other way as well. The first clue I had that my wife was into such kink was when she was recruited into a polyamory and was forbidden by her dom ever to be alone in a room with me ever again. I had some really strange times in 1992. Stefan Your first clue that your wife was kinky was that she was recruited into poly and ordered to never be alone with you? Wow... I bet that made life weird...

MagiksSlave -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 5:14:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MercTech It works the other way as well. The first clue I had that my wife was into such kink was when she was recruited into a polyamory and was forbidden by her dom ever to be alone in a room with me ever again. I had some really strange times in 1992. Stefan Oh I bet that went over real well. Oh and that "Master" sounds like a real sleezball for trying to do that!!! Magik's slave

earthycouple -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 5:16:54 PM)
Amen, Sister!

aldompdx -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 7:17:59 PM)
The particular form of "cheating" is only a manifestation of deeper issues. Many people do not really know why they do what they do. It takes two to tango. BOTH partners need therapy.

Tuomas -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:03:26 PM)
I've always contended that only loosers cheat. Winners are winning, so they don't have to ;) Cheating is like engaging in polyamory without consent... like, a kind of rape, if you stretch it. But as for getting someone to get into doing something they don't really want to, just to make you happy, and then still stabbing them in the back? shakes head Some people should be shot just on the general principle of making this world a better place [:D]

Stazia -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:04:32 PM)
i agree this sucks terribly... and let me guess someone has been reading "ask a mistress" forum?

Lynae78 -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:09:08 PM)
I would never interfere like that in someone's relationship. If I play with a married person, it is only if I know both people and know for a fact that they are ok with it.

Lynae78 -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:14:25 PM)
A guy like that deserves to get his sorry ass run over.

Tuomas -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:18:38 PM)
Why do people go out with married people, anyway? Cheaters really annoy me. Afterall, if they are capible of doing that to someone they love -what kind of sick things will they do to people they don't care about?

gandalf0297 -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 8:53:53 PM)
Cheating is cheating. No matter how you turn it around.

Wickad -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/10/2007 10:23:50 PM)
(fast reply) Did you send this thread to the person in question - lol?? Wickad

PrincessEllie -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 5:49:29 AM)
Methinks someone needs a good spanking. With a spiked paddle and everything. You can even pour lemon juice into the wounds afterwards. What a mean fellow.

LadyPact -> RE: The lowest of the low: worse than cheating (5/11/2007 6:04:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadameButterfly Here Here!! I have a stedfast rule that I do not engage in relationships with married men. I do have someone I play with from time to time that is married but his wife is right there learning as we go. Madame Butterfly That's exactly the best way to go. If BOTH the married people aren't present at a play session, or been enlightened to it face to face.... It's a no go.

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