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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 1:01:14 AM

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Sucking another man's cock?
That is a hard limit for me.

A "HARD" Limit eh! ROTFLMAO!

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 7:21:04 AM

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Oddly enough, I think I'd have a harder time going down on a man than kissing him.

Now, I don't WANT to go down on a man. Never been a fantasy of mine, never liked the idea. I don't like the idea of being intimate with a man in anyway, but in some weird circumstance where I had to choose between cocksucking or kissing, I'd go with kissing. At least then, I can try and trick myself into thinkng it's not a man. With a cock, that'd be a bit harder.

I love the idea of going down on a dildo, but that's because it's an inanimate object or something that's being used as an extension of a Lady. In my mind that's an entirely different matter.

I'm not sure how you would confince yourself it was a woman when kissing a man. Having kissed both, I think women feel distinctly different in a deep kiss. :)

I'm curious if any male subs have really been comfortable with the forced real cocksucking concept but once the reality started to come together, they decided they could not go through with it? I don't know if any subs would admit to that though...

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 7:34:15 AM

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This may reflect rather poorly on my submissiveness, but i cannot seem to imagine myself doing any of the activities listed here.

Maybe it is the general D/s environment in my country, that is yet to take shape; or maybe it is the fact that i just never happened to be in a situation, where such an act might have been expected of me.

Nonetheless, hard as i may find it to even touch another man's privates or to kiss him, i just 'might' be able to do it to make 'Someone' happy. If it is done out of submission and surrender, then i'll definitely have to be in subspace in order to be able to kiss another man. And if done under such circumstances, then the appearance or willingness of the other male wouldn't matter at all.

It would be more about 'doing what i have been told', than 'doing what i'm comfortable with'. I would do it with the purpose of making Her happy, because She's the reason why i would be in that situation in the first place.

Submissives do tend to have a rather amusing logic at times!

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 7:34:39 AM

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I always wondered why people just sucked cock. Such a waste of time. Now if you were asking if anyone had a problem enjoying themselves while licking, sucking, holding, feeling, tasting, etc... I could see the responses. But to just wrap your lips around a cock..slide up and down a few times to get them hard or off.. boringggggggggggggggg.

I've seen enough men on men films... and been to parties and watched long enough to get bored with all that. Same as 2 women. Some films.. parties i've been to, everyone has seemed tight... not really interested. Just going thur the motions. That's boring too. But to see to 2 of the same gender... really enjoying... wanting .... being into each other....... OMFG!!!... It's not about the action. It's about the outcome.

Kissing is very intimate. But It's the same as oral. If you're not into it, it's not there. So why even bother.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 8:37:04 AM

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Oddly enough, I think I'd have a harder time going down on a man than kissing him.

Now, I don't WANT to go down on a man. Never been a fantasy of mine, never liked the idea. I don't like the idea of being intimate with a man in anyway, but in some weird circumstance where I had to choose between cocksucking or kissing, I'd go with kissing. At least then, I can try and trick myself into thinkng it's not a man. With a cock, that'd be a bit harder.

I love the idea of going down on a dildo, but that's because it's an inanimate object or something that's being used as an extension of a Lady. In my mind that's an entirely different matter.

I'm not sure how you would confince yourself it was a woman when kissing a man. Having kissed both, I think women feel distinctly different in a deep kiss. :)

*blushes* Well, I mean more in the sense of "I am not here. I am in Disneyland. Lalalalala", not really being convinced it's a woman.

Maybe if it was a really effeminate man?

...I'm suddenly feeling very soiled and unpleasant. >_>

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 8:55:58 AM

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I always wondered why people just sucked cock. Such a waste of time. Now if you were asking if anyone had a problem enjoying themselves while licking, sucking, holding, feeling, tasting, etc... I could see the responses. But to just wrap your lips around a cock..slide up and down a few times to get them hard or off.. boringggggggggggggggg.

I've seen enough men on men films... and been to parties and watched long enough to get bored with all that. Same as 2 women. Some films.. parties i've been to, everyone has seemed tight... not really interested. Just going thur the motions. That's boring too. But to see to 2 of the same gender... really enjoying... wanting .... being into each other....... OMFG!!!... It's not about the action. It's about the outcome.

Kissing is very intimate. But It's the same as oral. If you're not into it, it's not there. So why even bother.

There is another angle here, and that is the reaction factor. When they see that what they are doing is exciting Me, they in turn get more excited, which feeds into the action, which excites Me, so in turn..... you get where I'm going with this circle.

They may not be "into it" for their own sake, but doing it to please Me, whether it sexually excites Me or I am pleased with their submission, does add to the energy that's happening. That's something that you can't get from watching the flicks.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 11:46:47 AM

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Many submissive men are willing to suck another man's cock, but how many are willing to kiss a man full on the mouth? As in -- making out. I'd like to hear from subs who consider this a hard limit, but are willing to either:

* Suck a dildo/strap on and/or
* Suck a real cock

Do you think there are more submissive men with a limit of kissing the same sex on the mouth than female submissives? Any female subs consider kissing another woman a hard limit, and why?

I think there are more women willing to kiss women than men willing to kiss men in general.

I don't consider it a hard limit at all. I wish my Dominant would let me kiss some girlies.

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For both genders, if you are willing to do the act, does the physical appearance of the person you are made to kiss matter to you at all? Are you more willing to do it if the person is considered attractive to you? If you were not able to choose the person or have input regarding their appearance, then what?

Yes. I'd rather make out with someone I found attractive.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 12:36:03 PM

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To me the concept of kissing someone means I fancy them or care deeply for them. It is intimate and a sign of my affection towards someone. If I am doing something for a Mistress, I may not really wish to do it, but do so for her. Kissing is most definately something I save just for those who are special to me.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/21/2007 7:37:54 PM

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kissing is very intimate--I am bi so I have no problem with anything same sex--but the kissing.mmmm when I am bound and blindfolded and the Dominant just lightly teases my lips with his lips..

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/22/2007 5:27:51 AM

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I've never been told to, so I don't know. I've serviced Doms & the subs of other Dom/mes on command. Kissing somehow has just never entered into it.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/22/2007 5:30:30 AM

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NO limits, they will do what ever we demand of them,after all a submissive WILL obey smiles..bounty

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/22/2007 7:07:22 AM

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i'm not sure my opinion is valid, but i think i would suck a cock before kissing another man on the lips!
circumstances vary, obviously, depending on the mood and ambience, and one doesn't know before the fact what will happen in actuality, or maybe i never met the right man!! but i could contemplate sucking a cock dispassionately, but not kissing a man on the lips. just my 2 cents.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/22/2007 1:24:02 PM

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yes the kissing would be a hard limit. not sure how to explain why, but it would be.

I'd like to hear from subs who consider this a hard limit, but are willing to either:

* Suck a dildo/strap on and/or
* Suck a real cock
yes to both. the more both of the above excited the Woman, the more exciting it would be for me. can't explain it, it just is what it is i guess.

Do you think there are more submissive men with a limit of kissing the same sex on the mouth than female submissives?
my guess would be yes. but i'm a guy, could be just wishful thinking!

For both genders, if you are willing to do the act, does the physical appearance of the person you are made to kiss matter to you at all?
it probably would. but i've never been there/done that so we would have to see. unless of course i was wearing a hood or blindfold that did not let me see what the person looked like. that particular addition does add a little spark to the whole variation for me as well.

Are you more willing to do it if the person is considered attractive to you? If you were not able to choose the person or have input regarding their appearance, then what?
not having input on who the person was would be the general idea, and for myself, is part of the excitement of it all.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/22/2007 3:44:32 PM

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Although I'm not bisexual, kissing another woman would not be a hard limit for me. If I knew it turned him on and he really wanted it, I would do it...but not on any regular basis, and not for very long sessions. I would hope he would end it within a few seconds, and not have the session last too long. As for why... I would know that, for me, there was nothing sexual between myself and the other woman. I would be doing it strickly for him, while thinking of him and watching his reactions.

Appearance definately plays a role for me. I would never be able to kiss someone I found repulsive. It would totally ruin the event and I would never care to breach that boundary for him again.

If I couldn't pick the person or offer any input whatsoever...well, that would suck. But, I would hope that he would know me well enough to know what I would be able to tollerate. Good hygene, good dental care, no gross pimples starring at me...things like that. But also preferably a woman who was not better looking than myself. Can't have insecurities start over something like that. :P

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/24/2007 9:28:54 AM

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Although I'm not bisexual, kissing another woman would not be a hard limit for me. If I knew it turned him on and he really wanted it, I would do it...but not on any regular basis, and not for very long sessions. I would hope he would end it within a few seconds, and not have the session last too long. As for why... I would know that, for me, there was nothing sexual between myself and the other woman. I would be doing it strickly for him, while thinking of him and watching his reactions.

Appearance definately plays a role for me. I would never be able to kiss someone I found repulsive. It would totally ruin the event and I would never care to breach that boundary for him again.

If I couldn't pick the person or offer any input whatsoever...well, that would suck. But, I would hope that he would know me well enough to know what I would be able to tollerate. Good hygene, good dental care, no gross pimples starring at me...things like that. But also preferably a woman who was not better looking than myself. Can't have insecurities start over something like that. :P

sounds like the more exciting it is for him, the more exciting it would be for you?

well, with fem-fem play being a big interest of just about every guy out there (some admit it, some don't) this seems like it would be easily achievable.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 5/24/2007 11:14:42 AM

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I love my boy sucking my strap on off but I dont think I would want to see him actually suck a real cock off. I know it would be one of his extreme hard limits so its not even an issue for us. I have to admit though that since Ive been with him I have gained a bit of a "he's mine" streak so I wouldnt enjoy it at all.

When I worked escorting back in the day kissing was one of the most requested services and I admit I did find it a limit for me I was there to do a job and kissing didnt feel right in it. I think kissing is such a strong thing to do so much can be said in a kiss and they can be simple or full on or down right dirty. I guess for me kissing is just special and not something I like to give out readily and wouldnt want to see my boy doing it even though I love gay porn and watching men get it on.

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 6/7/2007 6:17:04 AM

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I love my boy sucking my strap on off but I dont think I would want to see him actually suck a real cock off. I know it would be one of his extreme hard limits so its not even an issue for us. I have to admit though that since Ive been with him I have gained a bit of a "he's mine" streak so I wouldnt enjoy it at all.

When I worked escorting back in the day kissing was one of the most requested services and I admit I did find it a limit for me I was there to do a job and kissing didnt feel right in it. I think kissing is such a strong thing to do so much can be said in a kiss and they can be simple or full on or down right dirty. I guess for me kissing is just special and not something I like to give out readily and wouldnt want to see my boy doing it even though I love gay porn and watching men get it on.

i totally understand "he's mine", and was not thinking kissing at all.

just did have a gf that brought up me taking cock for her in a scene. at first, i was like no-way, then the idea of going there at the direction of, and to excite a Woman, has started to stick in my mind. interesting to read you love watching gay porn. could be where she got the idea from. but no kissing for sure, just the other two entries

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 6/7/2007 6:26:17 AM

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The limit of our cock suckers are those allow by us ,nope nada its our way or the highway...

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 6/7/2007 12:43:23 PM

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RE: The limits of cocksuckers - 1/17/2008 11:19:11 AM

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Sooooooo much has to do with what is exciting to the Woman that is there, and having me perform is such a way (well, actually that has everything to do with it).

a strapon is an easy yes. real flesh, She would have to be insistant on, and very excited by. and being taken by more then One (at a time even) would have to do with how seriously erotic She thought that was, some working up to it, and lots of "encouragement" both verbal, and gentle hand on the back of my head pushing it down for example. i can think of a number of other examples, but that covers the general idea.

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