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RE: Eating cum... - 5/20/2007 8:55:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: devotedslave78

As a previously owned sub, I often wonder about this.  It was a definate limit for me, but I broke it (through Her help) and experienced it.  Funny how something that previously involved a limit has become an object of fantasy for me.

That being said, I wonder if I'll ever be able to do it again?  I broke this limit once as soon after my Mistress and I parted ways.  I was very uncomfortable with it initially, but as time went on I am glad I did it and it became a fantasy of mine.  ...a dark fantasy which I wonder if I'll have the courage to experience again.     

What do the Domme's think about this?  What are your experiences with routinely having subs do this?  Do they actually start liking it? 



I have a firm policy of never requiring or asking someone to do something I wouldn't do myself.  I don't eat or taste cum so I don't require or ask it of my slave.  And on a tangent...I don't own a toy I haven't felt on my own body....long before it ever touches my slave.   I don't believe in doing otherwise.  *well 'cept maybe male chasity devices....silly domme...*

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/20/2007 10:35:24 AM   
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Some people might want to do something you wouldn't do yourself.  It's a fine policy if it suits you, but let's not pretend that it's the only valid approach.

That said, I've never really understood dommes who make males eat THEIR OWN cum.  Eating SOME OTHER GUY'S cum--sure, I can see the humiliation in that.

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I have a firm policy of never requiring or asking someone to do something I wouldn't do myself.

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/20/2007 11:19:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

That said, I've never really understood dommes who make males eat THEIR OWN cum.  Eating SOME OTHER GUY'S cum--sure, I can see the humiliation in that.



Well, maybe I can help shed some light.....

I enjoy this a lot:  Having a male release (either by masturbating with a time limit, by milking, etc.) into a cup.....  then I take a rather large dildo and feed his cum to him off of it.  Seems a bit humiliating to me. <shrugs>

I find extreme amusement in having a male consume his own... probably because it's not commonplace in the vanilla world; because I don't like the taste of male cum myself, and I love when a male can consume his own cum without making an "eww gross" face.   It's a cheap thrill, what can I say.

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/20/2007 12:00:08 PM   
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just another thought for you......something I had a man do for me once and he really liked it....he would eat his own cum etc. if i wanted but..when he was about to cum he leaned back ie his legs up in the air, ass very exposed and vulnerable and he shot his cum on his own face......if you like eating your own cum you may find some enjoyment/humuliation in cumming on you rown face and being made t owear it for awhile....although i did lick some off his lips just to fuck with him lol. just a thought, figured it might fit into your kink

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/20/2007 3:17:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Eating SOME OTHER GUY'S cum--sure, I can see the humiliation in that.


LAM,
More than anything, I can see the "safer sex" life threatening issues with that.  I wouldn't want to be with a Mistress that would expose me to that kind of risk! 
 
Mistress has me consume my own cum all the time and I enjoy sharing this pleasure with her.  I see no "ick" factor to it at all.  But that's just me and the way I view things.  This weekend she fed me twice from her mouth.  It was a very nice and intimate way IMO to share the experience as well as to increase my desire for her.  I remember her once saying to me that she could see us fighting over who got to swallow my ejaculate as she likes my taste so much as well.
 
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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 8:29:52 AM   
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All of My subs are trained to eat their cum, both online, and My hubby r/l.  All but one has grown to love the taste, and will beg Me for the pleasure of slurping up every drop.

I normally start them out with just a taste...a fingertip full.  The amount increases over time, til they're consuming their whole load. 

It's wonderful to not have cum dripping out of Me all night after sex.


my first time, was when a gf moved up and gave me a deep kiss right after sucking my cock and still having a mouth full of cum. shock was the first feeling, then intense excitement as she made sure she transfered it all to me. something about the not asking, just doing aspect of it. she did this a couple of more times, with the only result being the excitement part. no feelings of wanting to pull back.

then a big step was next. she was on top, and when we were both spent and she was quite full of cum, she quickly moved up, straddled my head and said "eat me". this was a totally new experience and level altogether. it was almost a reflex as i did without question. that quickly became the norm, and a great number of things expanding from there.

But always, it's her suggesting, insisting, making it happen that is the part that does it to me. can't explain it, it just is.

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 9:34:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

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I've never really understood dommes who make males eat THEIR OWN cum.  Eating SOME OTHER GUY'S cum--sure, I can see the humiliation in that.



Me either LAM, there are some things that I've been doing with my partner for all my adult life; that would be one of 'em.  Any guy who doesn't enjoy the taste and activity of licking his fingers off isn't open enough; not sensuous enough, not hawt enough for me.  I like guys who really enjoy the raw, sweaty, nasty wonderfullness of sex...  Personally, I don't think that's so unusual, either.
 
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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 9:38:15 AM   
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LOL... you found a great gal there, solvr! 
 
I remember a guy some...35 years ago who, when I finally took matters into my own hands after 3-months of dating the guy and no sex... and sucked him off. 
 
I laid my head in his lap after, while he sat, fully clothed in a chair... and waited for 'the moment' to pass.  Oddly...he jumped up and started pacing the floor, waving his hands!  "OMG...you swallowed!!!  OMG...go brush your teeth!!!  OMG...ewwww!!!"  Poor boy went on and on. 
 
It was the last time I'd see the guy.  Bah!
 
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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 10:35:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

LOL... you found a great gal there, solvr! 
 
I remember a guy some...35 years ago who, when I finally took matters into my own hands after 3-months of dating the guy and no sex... and sucked him off. 
 
I laid my head in his lap after, while he sat, fully clothed in a chair... and waited for 'the moment' to pass.  Oddly...he jumped up and started pacing the floor, waving his hands!  "OMG...you swallowed!!!  OMG...go brush your teeth!!!  OMG...ewwww!!!"  Poor boy went on and on. 
 
It was the last time I'd see the guy.  Bah!
 
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very true Bearlee. but that was, unfortunately, a previous gf.   i have not found O/one with quite that level of interest since then....

BOL as the experience you had!!

now, i have to admit, prior to the sharing, well forceful sharing , in the kiss, i had never thought about doing that myself. but i never thought twice about the "ewww" reaction the guy you talk about had. lol...wow...after a swallow, a kiss is just a kiss even.

something tells me You were not with him long...

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 10:41:52 AM   
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Once upon a time I wasn't terribly bothered by it, and didn't mind at all. That's when I really enjoyed giving head.

However, one fateful night that my boyfriend still bitches about, I was with another man (b/f & I did long distance so we had proxies) and the gentleman urinated & ejaculated into my mouth. The combination was bitter, but I forced myself to swallow it. Since that day I can't swallow semen, pre-cum makes me gag, and even having it on my skin makes me gag. Oh, and the smell too!

*shudder*

*double shudder for good measure*

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RE: Eating cum... - 5/21/2007 11:05:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAnnabelleLee

Once upon a time I wasn't terribly bothered by it, and didn't mind at all. That's when I really enjoyed giving head.

However, one fateful night that my boyfriend still bitches about, I was with another man (b/f & I did long distance so we had proxies) and the gentleman urinated & ejaculated into my mouth. The combination was bitter, but I forced myself to swallow it. Since that day I can't swallow semen, pre-cum makes me gag, and even having it on my skin makes me gag. Oh, and the smell too!

*shudder*

*double shudder for good measure*


ewwwww....

i'm shuddering with You. that would do it.

but the male anatomy makes that very hard (pardon the pun to do). if a guy is hard, not kinda hard, i mean really hard, it is VERY difficult to urinate at all. nature built us that way for a reason i'm sure.

sooo sorry to hear about that experience!

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/1/2007 8:56:20 PM   
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Two very distinct places here, 'our' own and another's. The latter no way in the frellin' distinct 9 circles of hell, if only for reasons of personal safety & disease prevention. Personally, i'm no cuckcold. The former might surprise you, as it seemed it did for you.

i'm almost sure to get into trouble over this, but the first time was years ago while in one of Ms. Akasha's (CM aka AAkasha) 'long distance' online training programs. [It WAS long distance, i was on the East Coast at the time.] i don't remember the year, it was whatever year the Anaheim Ducks were in serious contention for the Stanley Cup last. It was some time ago. She has a hockey thing. Anyway, i did it alone & for Her & i didn't mind it one bit. Liked it, actually, chased with a shot of citrus spiked vodka. But ONLY my own and because She demanded it. Done it a handful (no pun) of times since on demand, but oddly enough never in person. The best was for Goddess DG a year ago. And that has been the last time to date. Do it again in a cold heartbeat for my Her if She asked.

The 'shoot in the face' scenario is nice, but you'd better be either very flexible or practice your Kegels for a while. Otherwise, keep the vodka handy.


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RE: Eating cum... - 6/1/2007 9:05:45 PM   
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i get to cum?!

Damn it!

i hate when you people keep me in the dark about these things!

ch ch ch chia* (the pet)

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/4/2007 6:58:17 PM   
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I've only been with one woman who made me eat my own cum. She loved the fact that as I was cleaning her out I would be gagging. I basically went like so: slurp, slurp, gag, giggle, slurp, slurp, gag, giggle etc

I'm not a fan. Pyschologically it's a 'gay' thing for straight guys. It came up with my vanilla friends one time and the consenss was that it's  just not a normal something straight guys do. And we're not talking about licking or creampies or whatever, we're talking about even kissing after a blow job.

I admittedly stil don't  like kissing a woman after she goes down on me. Mentally it just weirds me out.

And the taste is just disgusting :(

If they made it taste like chicken wings, or beer, I'd be a much bigger fan.


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RE: Eating cum... - 6/4/2007 7:09:49 PM   
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Spit or swallow is a pretty common question, and plenty of people pick the latter. Don't make such a big deal out of it.


When asked this question in the vanilla world i always answered "swallow of course, ladies don't spit". An entertaining answer at least.

I love to share my partners cum with him after sucking his cock. He gets disappointed when i get greedy and keep it all to myself.  As to health risks, other than the usual related to safe sex in general i don't think it can hurt your digestive tract unless you are allergic to it. It's actually low in calories and high in protein, or so i have read.

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/4/2007 7:20:46 PM   
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Hello Mistress Wicked, I  really enjoyed reading how you made your slave eat his cum. I too am addicted to licking my cum off my mistress fingers. of course this was on line i hope one day to find a Mistress to use me for her amusement and pleasure. especially one that knows how to use sex and pain as a means for her superiorit.

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/5/2007 3:27:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

I've only been with one woman who made me eat my own cum. She loved the fact that as I was cleaning her out I would be gagging. I basically went like so: slurp, slurp, gag, giggle, slurp, slurp, gag, giggle etc

I'm not a fan. Pyschologically it's a 'gay' thing for straight guys. It came up with my vanilla friends one time and the consenss was that it's  just not a normal something straight guys do. And we're not talking about licking or creampies or whatever, we're talking about even kissing after a blow job.

I admittedly stil don't  like kissing a woman after she goes down on me. Mentally it just weirds me out.

And the taste is just disgusting :(

If they made it taste like chicken wings, or beer, I'd be a much bigger fan.



I dont see how you equate oral sex with a woman you had just made love to, as being gay. To me its a natural part of things, the whole scenario just tastes of "Us" 
I would also think that any woman who gave me a bj would be deeply offended, and even hurt, if i said i was unable to kiss her, as i didnt like the taste. This is just my viewpoint though and i can see how some men have a problem with it.

Regards.....politesub

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/5/2007 3:43:32 AM   
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I dont see how you equate oral sex with a woman you had just made love to, as being gay. To me its a natural part of things, the whole scenario just tastes of "Us" 
I would also think that any woman who gave me a bj would be deeply offended, and even hurt, if i said i was unable to kiss her, as i didnt like the taste. This is just my viewpoint though and i can see how some men have a problem with it.

Regards.....politesub


I've certainly never had an issue with it at all. Like Politesub states, the taste of "Us", for me, is erotic.

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RE: Eating cum... - 6/5/2007 6:06:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

I've only been with one woman who made me eat my own cum. She loved the fact that as I was cleaning her out I would be gagging. I basically went like so: slurp, slurp, gag, giggle, slurp, slurp, gag, giggle etc

I'm not a fan. Pyschologically it's a 'gay' thing for straight guys. It came up with my vanilla friends one time and the consenss was that it's  just not a normal something straight guys do. And we're not talking about licking or creampies or whatever, we're talking about even kissing after a blow job.

I admittedly stil don't  like kissing a woman after she goes down on me. Mentally it just weirds me out.

And the taste is just disgusting :(

If they made it taste like chicken wings, or beer, I'd be a much bigger fan.



Oh sure, i finally find out i can cum, now i find out i'm gay!

Damn it!

i hate when you people keep me in the dark about these things!

chia* (the pet)

p.s. How long have you had this fantasy of a Woman going down on you?



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RE: Eating cum... - 6/7/2007 7:31:53 AM   
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The question would be Her having you consume your own cum, or someone else's?


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