earthycouple
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Joined: 2/19/2006 Status: offline
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24/7 for me is living with the sub that just does it for me. He's the person I want to serve me and I'm the person he wants to serve. Day to day we live life. We go to work, raise the family, watch tv, play board games, go to the grocery store, enjoy the zoo, read books...you get the idea right? Above and beyond day to day life he knows who he is to me and I know who I am to him. He has learned my intricacies in such a way that it is second nature for him to do for me, the little things that he knows make me smile. 24/7 means, to me, that he holds a job outside this house so his days and nights are not spent working himself to the bone to ensure the house is perfect or I don't have to get my (now, in this scenario, lazy) ass off the couch. It means he contributes to the house financially (after all he lives here). He contributes to the overall care and maintenance of the house as do the other family members. His contribution is no more or less than any one else's. He does though, take care of some of the things I hate to do, such as laundry. If he excels at something, oh let's say for instance, cooking *S* then I'm going to support that as well as benefit from that. Decisions to be made focus on the benefit of all and are not selfish. Things like "sessions" or "scenes" or "playtime" (you pick the term for when you want time to pull out the fun stuff) happens as it happens. There are no set rules or protocol for it. If my mood is such that I want to do some rope bondage, I have him at my disposal to do such. Is he too tired because he worked at his profession all day then came home and did laundry? I take that into consideration. I don't demand every second of every day be quite literally for me, though every second of every day is lived for us, and he knows that his service to me is pleasing me, even when his service is working the pass at a resturant all evening. (I know he is doing it for the benefit of the family) For me 24/7 is NOT about being naked, gagged, and bound 5 days a week while the other two days are the days he cleans and buttles about. It is not about my turning into a gelatanous pile of lazy either.
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