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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/25/2007 4:28:29 PM   
HutchGarahl


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Couple of questions.....

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

I can't totaly empathize, but, I do know ways of dropping weight and gainign muscle, they are simple ways and work VERY well. I use them most of the time for normal stuff and living, or when I have a shoot, I just do as many as I can in a short period of time. I also get winded walking for short distances, I am asthmatic and my asthma is slowing getting undercontrol, so hardcore worksouts are still out of bonds for now.

Simpel little things ~
  • take a bit, then put your fork down and your hands in you lap, chew and swallow completly before picking up your fork.spoon again; this gives you stomach the chance to feel 'full' if thats what you are going for and to savor your food.
  • eat until you are staisfied, NOT until you are stuffed. this may take a bit of time to understand you own body clues.

What's the difference? I'm not satisfied unless i'm stuffed, and that usually takes a lot of food. :( What can I look for in a difference?
  • for every glass of soda you drink, drink 2 glasses of water; plus drink one large glass of water before every meal

Water is no problem for me as I happen to like water. I have one of those huge 32 oz bottles with a sip top and usually drink 4 - 5 a day.
  • use smaller plates and bowls, if you are still hundry after eating, wait 20 minutes before going back for 2nds, or remove the tempatation all together, after plateing up food, then put the rest in the fridge, so its not out and the temptation is out of sight.

Wouldn't it be better to just not go back for seconds? That of which i'm completely guilty of.
  • when you are driving or eatching tv, clinch your butt muscles at the stoplights/comercials.
  • when you are watching a movie, get on the treadmill and walk at a compfortable pace turning the movie, when/if anyone is running on the screen, run with them.
  • do NOT tell yourself I will NOT have 'xyz' once you do that, you crave it more, instead say, "I will have one scoop' or 'one handfull' etc, that way you KNOW your limit and put the rest of the temptation away
  • keep carrot sticks and celery sticks in the fridge where you can grab them, use a little low fat dressing to dip...
  • Park a farther back than normal when shopping, etc.

Ok.. I have a bunch more little things.. but hopefully that willg et you started. Good luck.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/25/2007 4:38:49 PM   
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  • eat until you are staisfied, NOT until you are stuffed. this may take a bit of time to understand you own body clues.


What's the difference? I'm not satisfied unless i'm stuffed, and that usually takes a lot of food. :( What can I look for in a difference?


Nope. You THINK you are. BIG difference. Your body doesn't need as much food as you think it does. Mys on can eat MORE food in one sitting than I can, he needs it, he burns it off faster than I do. Satisyied is {bsaed on 1 to 10 scare... 1 being starving/famished and 10 being overfull/stuffed; you want to stay about 6 or 7}, you want to be comforatble, but NOT so full that you have 'food coma' as my best friend and I say. Where you are so full, you think 'I won't need ot eat for days, etc.'

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  • use smaller plates and bowls, if you are still hundry after eating, wait 20 minutes before going back for 2nds, or remove the tempatation all together, after plateing up food, then put the rest in the fridge, so its not out and the temptation is out of sight.


Wouldn't it be better to just not go back for seconds? That of which i'm completely guilty of.


Use a smaller plate, if the plates you use now are 10in in diameter plated, use 6in plates, do NOT 'fill' aka 'mound' your food. Also, remember to NOT eat off other people's plates. Leave a little bit of off on your plate, the world will NOT coem ot an end if you leave a few bites on your plate. If you are guilty of going back for seconds, then plate the food in the kitchen and put the rest in the fridge.

If you want more tips, PLEASE email me, I have a bunch. Very easy ones.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/25/2007 10:33:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

quote:

ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
  • eat until you are staisfied, NOT until you are stuffed. this may take a bit of time to understand you own body clues.



What's the difference? I'm not satisfied unless i'm stuffed, and that usually takes a lot of food. :( What can I look for in a difference?


Nope. You THINK you are. BIG difference. Your body doesn't need as much food as you think it does. Mys on can eat MORE food in one sitting than I can, he needs it, he burns it off faster than I do. Satisyied is {bsaed on 1 to 10 scare... 1 being starving/famished and 10 being overfull/stuffed; you want to stay about 6 or 7}, you want to be comforatble, but NOT so full that you have 'food coma' as my best friend and I say. Where you are so full, you think 'I won't need ot eat for days, etc.'

Boy have I got my work cut out for me.  I have eaten so much i've made the statement.."I can't eat another bite" or.."Won't eat for a couple days", yet find myself digging through the fridge a couple hours later.
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  • use smaller plates and bowls, if you are still hundry after eating, wait 20 minutes before going back for 2nds, or remove the tempatation all together, after plateing up food, then put the rest in the fridge, so its not out and the temptation is out of sight.



Wouldn't it be better to just not go back for seconds? That of which i'm completely guilty of.


Use a smaller plate, if the plates you use now are 10in in diameter plated, use 6in plates, do NOT 'fill' aka 'mound' your food. Also, remember to NOT eat off other people's plates. Leave a little bit of off on your plate, the world will NOT coem ot an end if you leave a few bites on your plate. If you are guilty of going back for seconds, then plate the food in the kitchen and put the rest in the fridge.

That's one thing I don't do. I have this thing about catching germs. But ye...I can do this...smaller plates.  OK! I will try to do this.

If you want more tips, PLEASE email me, I have a bunch. Very easy ones.


I will...thanks.  But for now, i'm heading for the rack. 7am comes early and the fish don't wait. Got a pole just dying to get tossed.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/25/2007 10:51:45 PM   
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i understand the concern about weight.  One of the basic things is to make sure that the fat calories are less than 30% of total calories.  Read the labels. Take the total fat calories and multiply by 9.  Then divide that by the total calories.  Try and keep total calories around 1500.  Exercise daily  - walking counts!!  Learn ways to reduce the fat in the foods you do use.  i  use ground turkey instead of ground beef and drain it.  Take the skin off of the chicken and never fry foods.  You can bake them. 

i wish you the best!!

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 1:43:41 AM   
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i don't know if i am the odd one out but once i stopped not eating...ie. eating on a regular basis, the pounds have just started to drip off...in the past year or so i have lost 65lbs cause my body doesn't think its starving anymore...now at 311, i still got a long way to go but i am gonna stick with this eating regularly thing until i stagnate...btw i went from eating 2000 calories a week to 2000 calories a day...
oh and i'll echo the eat smaller portions until you are satisfied...i drive my family nuts at a buffet (which i can do and still loose weight) cause i'll stay there 30 min to an hour longer than them because i don't fill up my plate (unless its crab but thats mostly shell lol) and then i'll wait 10 or 15 minutes before going back...i don't count anything...i know white carbs and saturated fats are bad so i eat them in moderation...the rest, i eat till i am not hungry...now if that means i have to go back in 3 or 4 hours to get back to not hungry again, thats fine...
anywho, thats whats working for me, no surgery, no diet, limited exercise - but i am trying to change that for endurance and rehabilitation purposes rather than weight loss...
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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 3:03:39 AM   
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I haven't seen this mentioned in any of the other posts, and santalia didn't mention it in the initial one that I saw.
The first suggestion I have is to visit your doctor and rule out medical problems.  I put on 40 lbs in 8 months, freaked out because I was exercising, dieting and driving myself nuts by not letting myself have any of the things I liked and was still gaining more.  I thought I was just being lazy and would lose the weight if I just tried hard enough.  Turned out I have hypothyroidism and the weight wasn't going anywhere but up until I was started on Synthroid to correct the imbalance.  I didn't really have any of the other typical symptoms, so it's not something I would have thought of as being the cause of the problem. 
Second--Try taking one or two 500mg cinnamon capsules before each meal.  A friend suggested it to me to help get the belly/hip fat to start going away a little more quickly and it is helping.  Not sure how or why it's helping, but it is.
Third--Eat slowly and chew your food very thoroughly.  The more time you give your body to realize it's had enough, the less you'll eat overall.  If I recall correctly, it takes about 20 minutes after you stop consuming for you to feel the full effects of what you've eaten.
Wishing you good luck on your efforts! 

J

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ORIGINAL: santalia

Greetings

i have quite a bit of weight to lose. It's not because my Master necessarily wants me to, but because i know i need to for health reasons. i find my hips knees and ankles are aching and with the least bit of strenuous activity (or even an acre walk to the back part of my family's property where we grow our blackberries) i'm winded. i'm tired of feeling like this, so i'm going to lose weight.

i'm about 265-270 and wear a US size 24 pant now. i want to be back where i was in high school, which was about 160-170 and a size 16 pant.

How do i plan to achieve this? *sigh*    any way i can.

Seriously, though. i have already cut out all candies, cakes, and stuff like that because they just don't seem very appealing to me anymore. i have not yet cut out my beloved Dr. Pepper. i know i have to and will be doing so immediately because it's loaded with all that extra sugar i don't need. Over the past week i've been taking walks to the blackberry patch and back (which, as i said, is about an acre one way, so total of 2-acre walks so far). i don't want to overstress my body at the very beginning. If i do, as i have done in the past, i end up hurting and not wanting to continue. So, i'll begin my exercise routine by taking a walk to the blackberries at least 4 times a week, if not every day, then extend it to longer and longer walks.

i want to lose enough to be down one to two pant sizes by August. That is when i go to visit my Master and i want to be looking better than i do now for Him.

i will be posting updates and information on what seems to be working for me, and what isn't. One thing i know for certain that works for me is eating one pint of blackberries a day. Having a blackberry farm has its advantages *smiles*  Last year when i was doing nothing all day every day but sitting in the booth selling blackberries, i'd eat about a pint of them every day and by the end of the season i'd lost 10 pounds. And i did nothing but adding blackberries to my existing diet! :) Did i say i love blackberries? lol...

Any encouragement will be very much welcome and appreciated.

-santalia{JR}


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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 7:24:47 AM   
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Have you considered using plastic wrap bondage as a regular part of the play?  Its great for weight loss.  Also latex and plastic fetish clothing. 

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 4:54:31 PM   
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I got a horrible stomach virus in the lining of My tummy that got Me started
to eat things without salt and I lost weight.
Then I stopped soda(now I have 1-2 cans a week),I lost more weight.
I kept buying canned fruit and veggies,fresh if I can trust the farm and frozen veggies too.I drink lots of fruit juice...cranberry is an essential one.I drink more water also....and the kicker I dont really exercise any more than what I did.
I dont eat any red meat,I only eat chicken once in a while,no dairy products except aged chedder cheese and some sour cream with mexican foods.
I started at 188 (March) and today I am 165,I dont crave anything I used to eat.
The sweets actually make Me feel yucky so I dont miss it.

I feel so much better now and thats the incentive to keep going.



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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 6:28:18 PM   
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Currently I am swearing by Sparkpeople.com . They will do all your nutritional and fitness calculations for you. However, I wouldnt use their suggested meal plan, you can turn it off and do your own and aim to stick in the ranges they give you. Spark group Love to Cook and the message board of recipe requests is a great place to get ideas. Their offshoot Sparkrecipes.com is also a great place to find recipes.

Work your way off of soda type stuff and to water really helps, need to be doing a minimum of 8 glasses a day, most people need even more than that. Generally the rule is for every 25 pounds you are over your weight range you should add one more glass. But work up to that over time, otherwise you are going to feel pretty sloshy and take up residence in the bathroom.

Making exercise a habit is another thing. Start with 15 minutes and work your way up.

If you want to know more about SparkPeople let me know.... that place has been so motivational and helpful, lots of information in one spot, best of all, its all FREE!  

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 7:26:15 PM   
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paint,
good point about talking about a thyroid problem.  i had graves disease before i took the radioactive iodine.  i used to be skinny as hell.  lol not that anymore.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 5/26/2007 9:57:59 PM   
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Greetings

Thank you all for your responses.

On the thyroid, yes, that problem runs in my family. All the women on my mom's side have thyroid problems. i found out a year and a half ago i have an inward goiter. Take after my mom for certain. The dr won't give me Synthroid. Says my thyroid levels are about right. i don't know that i believe that, but can't do much about it because i don't have private insurance.

But, i was contacted by someone who suggested a regimen that seems like it would be easy to follow. i'm going to try it and see how it works. It's a 7 day regimen that has specific things i can eat every day, naming pretty much exactly what i can eat that particular day during the regimen. So, i figure why not give it a try? i'll post here as i'm going through it to let you all know how it's working. i'll be starting tomorrow and finishing the week-long regimen next Saturday.

Thank you all again and well wishes

-santalia{JR}

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 12:07:59 AM   
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quote:

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Currently I am swearing by Sparkpeople.com . They will do all your nutritional and fitness calculations for you. However, I wouldnt use their suggested meal plan, you can turn it off and do your own and aim to stick in the ranges they give you. Spark group Love to Cook and the message board of recipe requests is a great place to get ideas. Their offshoot Sparkrecipes.com is also a great place to find recipes.

Work your way off of soda type stuff and to water really helps, need to be doing a minimum of 8 glasses a day, most people need even more than that. Generally the rule is for every 25 pounds you are over your weight range you should add one more glass. But work up to that over time, otherwise you are going to feel pretty sloshy and take up residence in the bathroom.

Making exercise a habit is another thing. Start with 15 minutes and work your way up.

If you want to know more about SparkPeople let me know.... that place has been so motivational and helpful, lots of information in one spot, best of all, its all FREE!  


I've been on SparkPeople for a while too, and using "Yourself Fitness" on my PC.
I've had a hard go due to hypothyroid disease, but I'm getting there.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 4:27:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: santalia

But, i was contacted by someone who suggested a regimen that seems like it would be easy to follow. i'm going to try it and see how it works. It's a 7 day regimen that has specific things i can eat every day, naming pretty much exactly what i can eat that particular day during the regimen. So, i figure why not give it a try? i'll post here as i'm going through it to let you all know how it's working. i'll be starting tomorrow and finishing the week-long regimen next Saturday.


-santalia{JR}



That sounds like one of those "wonderdiets". I can only suggest you stay away from those. They work very well (if you do not cheat), but the moment you get of the plan, you gain back rapidely.
Those diets have mostly been invented for patients that need to loose weight very fast, most times because of upcomming surgery. Those patients are monitored closely by professionals, and get much help to keep at least a bit of the weight of after the plan ends.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 11:38:22 AM   
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Hey all, new here and I thought I'd share my own weight loss experience.

I weigh a bit over 300 pounds right now (301.6 as of last Saturday). A year ago I weighed 375 pounds. I'm still a long way from my goal of 200, but I've been dropping weight fairly steadily just through dieting. Nothing fancy or expensive, just portion control. It was hard at first, cutting down on my precious, precious chocolate. Soda was hard too, but eventually they came out with Coke Zero and I love it.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 1:49:30 PM   
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OK, here's a few more tidbits to add to the mix. Great dietary information is available on some sites dealing with Diabetes which is useful even if you haven't YET been diagnosed with type II diabetes...
 
Secondly, get a table/book of glycemic indexes. The glycemic index refers to the nature of the carbohydrate (sugar) in a food. Eating carrot sticks instead of cookies may make you feel saintly but when it comes to the sugar hit that your system takes, they end up about the same because carrots contain very simple sugars (high glycemic index) which are readily absorbed by the intestine. Whole grains and things like beans are complex carbs with low gylcemic indexes and take a lot longer to absorb. And sugar ends up as fat ultimately....
 
Good luck to all!

NB: I'm not one for fad diets, but I tried the "acne" diet last year.. basically a raw foods diet. I was never hungry except sometimes at night, and although you are not supposed to lose weight on it, I dropped 5 lbs in a week.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 4:00:20 PM   
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Have you ever been able to have your tsh, t3 and t4 tested?

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/1/2007 9:37:56 PM   
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Hi everyone!
so glad to have found this thread.  I've been super frusterated lately because I want to loose the extra poundage that I have on me but also am to the point of wanting to have a sculpted body.  I am finding that I am very very attracted to the Dom's who are fitness minded, actually i am finding that I very much value fitness myself, and am at sorts with myself that Im not more fit.  maybe I should start a new thread to go into more detail about that part, but the weight loss is still an issue too.   I would say I have about 20 lbs to loose still and have been on this plateu forever!!  Im so frusterated with myself, that I cant seem to get where i want to be.  I did start a new job, and it is sedentary.. uggg.  But the biggest problem I see for myself is that I have NO SUPPORT!  I am soooo glad to have found this thread, I would be so delighted to be a part of a group cheerleading and coaching each other on towards more healthy bodies. 
Count me in if you don't mind,

cheers!
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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/3/2007 10:48:04 PM   
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I applaud anyone trying to take on a healthier lifestyle. It can be hard to change habits that have been in place for a long time. My two cents is this....The problem with our society and weight issues is that it always seems more focused on dieting then working out. Many of the posters are trying to improve their diet and that is great but working out is far more important(unless you have a horrible diet)  

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/3/2007 10:57:27 PM   
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Every body here offered great advice. Take the diet and exercise tips and add a true desire to win, and you will meet your goal. Without the true stubborn desire you need, you will just be talking about wanting to loose weight instead of loosing it.

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RE: Looking to lose some weight - 6/3/2007 11:25:32 PM   
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Most approaches to weight loss, quitting smoking and other addictions don't work for the same reason. They focus on the problem, not the solution, and we become what we think about. Let me put it this way. If I say "don't think about pink elephants" what do you immediately think about? That's right - pink elephants! If you're thinking about weight loss, all you'll think about all day is food. The result is inevitable - you'll end up bigger than ever before. The only way NOT to think about pink elephants is to think about blue giraffes instead. In other words, substitute a positive goal. When I embarked on my weight loss program I ignored the kilos and instead set myself the goal of taking part in a fun run a year in the distance when I first began. I did the fun run - and lost all the desired weight in the process. And it stayed off. I found a book called "Strong Women Stay Slim" tremendously encouraging.

Good luck to all who are trying for a better body - but I say, start with the mind, and the rest will follow.

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