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ron2421 -> Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 12:54:56 PM)

I was wondering if any submissive women or Doms enjoy this kind of thing, or if I am the only one with this particular kink.
I was at a Memorial Day picnic with my sub wife and friends.
It was pretty dull party until in the middle of the afternoon when I was fortunate enough to catch a view of a couple, appearing in their late twenties on a park bench a bit off in the distance.
They were making out, as the man openly massaged her breasts and in between her legs with his hands and fingers.
After awhile, he repeatedly kept on lifting up her shirt to expose her bra.
She shyly, laughing, would finally slap his hands and pull her shirt back down. It seemed almost a game for him to see how far he could lift up her shirt, a little further up each time, before she retaliated. At one point, he had her shirt pulled up in the front and back all the way up to her shoulders.
The best was yet to come.
While her shirt was safely pulled down, I watched as he undid her belt and snap. He slowly over a matter of several minutes pulled down her jeans until they were about mid-way down her thighs. Finally she laughing wrestled with him on the park bench, her pantied bottom wiggling about and her pants falling to her knees, before being able to shly stand up and pull her pants back up. Even though I was a good distance away, I could see the redness in her face.
Not sure if they caught me witnessing voyeuristically this thrilling live movie, which went on for a good half hour before they got up and walked away. The group I was with only casually seemed to take interest. And they did not seem to be looking during the best parts!
I have myself had fun in the past partially undressing my girlfriends and wife in a similar way in a semi-private place such as a park. I always made sure they would not be easilly noticed, or at least not by people they knew. Besides, most of the time nothing beyond their underclothes would be exposed. Again, something about the humiliation for the sub makes this a total turn on for me as a Dom to either witness or actually practice.
Again, just wondering if any one else finds this exciting and erotic, or maybe I'm just a bit odd.
Thank you.



merrysbrat -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 1:23:40 PM)

That would probably piss me off, personally, but I know poeple who would like it.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 1:33:01 PM)

I'm a nudist so my nudity is just something I prefer in general.

However, I dislike making others uncomfortable in any situation outside of a scene, so would not want such an action if I felt it was likely anyone around me would feel unduly uncomfortable from my actions, nude or clothed.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 1:44:59 PM)

Due to indecent exposure laws any one who tried to undress me in any place doing so could get me arrested, fined or a public record would be  getting their ass kicked.



SirCumStance69 -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 1:48:24 PM)

Move to Toronto - we don't have any laws like that! One can go topless - not 100% certain about having the nether region exposed tho'.



earthycouple -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 1:50:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ron2421

I was wondering if any submissive women or Doms enjoy this kind of thing, or if I am the only one with this particular kink.
I was at a Memorial Day picnic with my sub wife and friends.
It was pretty dull party until in the middle of the afternoon when I was fortunate enough to catch a view of a couple, appearing in their late twenties on a park bench a bit off in the distance.
They were making out, as the man openly massaged her breasts and in between her legs with his hands and fingers.
After awhile, he repeatedly kept on lifting up her shirt to expose her bra.
She shyly, laughing, would finally slap his hands and pull her shirt back down. It seemed almost a game for him to see how far he could lift up her shirt, a little further up each time, before she retaliated. At one point, he had her shirt pulled up in the front and back all the way up to her shoulders.
The best was yet to come.
While her shirt was safely pulled down, I watched as he undid her belt and snap. He slowly over a matter of several minutes pulled down her jeans until they were about mid-way down her thighs. Finally she laughing wrestled with him on the park bench, her pantied bottom wiggling about and her pants falling to her knees, before being able to shly stand up and pull her pants back up. Even though I was a good distance away, I could see the redness in her face.
Not sure if they caught me witnessing voyeuristically this thrilling live movie, which went on for a good half hour before they got up and walked away. The group I was with only casually seemed to take interest. And they did not seem to be looking during the best parts!
I have myself had fun in the past partially undressing my girlfriends and wife in a similar way in a semi-private place such as a park. I always made sure they would not be easilly noticed, or at least not by people they knew. Besides, most of the time nothing beyond their underclothes would be exposed. Again, something about the humiliation for the sub makes this a total turn on for me as a Dom to either witness or actually practice.
Again, just wondering if any one else finds this exciting and erotic, or maybe I'm just a bit odd.
Thank you.


I find it deplorable since you mention picnics and parks where UMs are most likely to be found.  If someone wants to feel his girlfriend up in such a way he should be doing it in total privacy not semi privacy.  Not easily noticed means someone MAY notice and 5 year olds shouldn't be subjected to someone fondling another in a public place.

I'm all for nudity at kink clubs and private places.  Would I strip my slave in front of company in the privacy of my own home? yes.  In public where kids could be? never.



drawntothedark -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:00:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ron2421

I was wondering if any submissive women or Doms enjoy this kind of thing, or if I am the only one with this particular kink.
I was at a Memorial Day picnic with my sub wife and friends.
It was pretty dull party until in the middle of the afternoon when I was fortunate enough to catch a view of a couple, appearing in their late twenties on a park bench a bit off in the distance.
They were making out, as the man openly massaged her breasts and in between her legs with his hands and fingers.
After awhile, he repeatedly kept on lifting up her shirt to expose her bra.
She shyly, laughing, would finally slap his hands and pull her shirt back down. It seemed almost a game for him to see how far he could lift up her shirt, a little further up each time, before she retaliated. At one point, he had her shirt pulled up in the front and back all the way up to her shoulders.
The best was yet to come.
While her shirt was safely pulled down, I watched as he undid her belt and snap. He slowly over a matter of several minutes pulled down her jeans until they were about mid-way down her thighs. Finally she laughing wrestled with him on the park bench, her pantied bottom wiggling about and her pants falling to her knees, before being able to shly stand up and pull her pants back up. Even though I was a good distance away, I could see the redness in her face.
Not sure if they caught me witnessing voyeuristically this thrilling live movie, which went on for a good half hour before they got up and walked away. The group I was with only casually seemed to take interest. And they did not seem to be looking during the best parts!
I have myself had fun in the past partially undressing my girlfriends and wife in a similar way in a semi-private place such as a park. I always made sure they would not be easilly noticed, or at least not by people they knew. Besides, most of the time nothing beyond their underclothes would be exposed. Again, something about the humiliation for the sub makes this a total turn on for me as a Dom to either witness or actually practice.
Again, just wondering if any one else finds this exciting and erotic, or maybe I'm just a bit odd.
Thank you.


Anyone notice this reads sort of like a Penthouse Forum. Not like I have ever READ a penthouse forum[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m11.gif[/image]

Anyway, this was something I discussed with Justin before we commited to each other. I actually like being naked (to a degree) but I did not want my nakedness to make anyone feel uncomfortable.

earthycouple sited UM's - I always thought of dear old grandma. I would never subject an elderly person - who is just trying to get her morning walk in - to my nudity. She has lived her 86 years on this planet and should feel safe to walk without seeing my naked flesh or anyone else.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:02:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ron2421
I was wondering if any submissive women or Doms enjoy this kind of thing, or if I am the only one with this particular kink...


quote:

...Again, something about the humiliation for the sub makes this a total turn on for me as a Dom to either witness or actually practice.


this slave finds playing with puritanical obscenity laws, voyeurism and exhibitionistic displays erotic...yet not humiliating in the least.
 
a turn-on, perhaps, but not from a place of humiliation.



ron2421 -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:17:16 PM)

To be clear, there are precautions that can be taken to ensure you are far away enough from kids to be seen, or better yet, see that there are no kids in the area and if some appear to immediately cease such activities.
It only takes a second to re-adjust her clothes.

The same goes if someone should appear that could lead to an arrest for indecent exposure, as if one could get busted for briefly exposing bra or panties.

You'd be surprise. Everyone, except me perhaps, seemed too preoccupied with their own activities in the park that day to even take a passing interest in the scene I described.  I would assume sensitive doms would always take precautions.

And I want to emphasize, the sub in this situation seemed to be fully enjoying herself, laughing, playfully slapping and kissing her Dom all the while. In other words, she did not appear uncomfortable. I would also agree with Mr. and Mrs. Merc. The turn-on is not necessarilly from humiliation.

Americans can get uptight about this stuff. In some cultures such as Japan, males enjoy routinely flashing or exposing females in public. And many Japanese females there don't seem to mind in lieu of pleasing the culturally-accepted dominant male. They even have fun with it.
Thanks.



swtnsparkling -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:35:22 PM)

No law that prohibits public nudity in Vermont



slaverosebeauty -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:35:51 PM)

It is NOT illegal to be naked or topless etc, at least not in my area, its ONLY an issue if someone find it offensive. I drive with tubetops on and if you look into my car, it looks like I am topless, I have been pulled over a few times, and when the cop got to the window, I saw this almost 'disappointed' look in teir faces; I just smile and say, 'can I help you officer?' One told me, 'you can't drive topless, you know that.' I wasn't, then I quoted the local code that stated it was LEGAL for me to be nude or topless in my own car, he got pissed and left me alone. Jokes on him, I called the PD and reported him for harassment.

Now, would I be half naked like those the OP watched in public, no; in a bathing suite, no prob; like those who were watched, no. I would have left the man there. I dont' have an issue with my body, I liek it, but I do have a sence of dicency and right and wrong.



AquaticSub -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 2:58:04 PM)

I would tell them to stop or possibly call the cops on them since they are in a public park on a day where children are out of school and likely to out with parents. That's putting your kink above the rights of other people.



MagiksSlave -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 3:05:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ron2421

To be clear, there are precautions that can be taken to ensure you are far away enough from kids to be seen, or better yet, see that there are no kids in the area and if some appear to immediately cease such activities.
It only takes a second to re-adjust her clothes.

The same goes if someone should appear that could lead to an arrest for indecent exposure, as if one could get busted for briefly exposing bra or panties.

You'd be surprise. Everyone, except me perhaps, seemed too preoccupied with their own activities in the park that day to even take a passing interest in the scene I described.  I would assume sensitive doms would always take precautions.

And I want to emphasize, the sub in this situation seemed to be fully enjoying herself, laughing, playfully slapping and kissing her Dom all the while. In other words, she did not appear uncomfortable. I would also agree with Mr. and Mrs. Merc. The turn-on is not necessarilly from humiliation.

Americans can get uptight about this stuff. In some cultures such as Japan, males enjoy routinely flashing or exposing females in public. And many Japanese females there don't seem to mind in lieu of pleasing the culturally-accepted dominant male. They even have fun with it.
Thanks.


Earthycouple pretty much stated how I feel, so I wont get into that however I am just curiouse to know how you knew they where Dom and sub??

Magik's slave



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 3:06:14 PM)

Personally, I dont find it erotic at all. To the couple involved, maybe its a kick, but exposing everyone around to something like that is just wrong, and terribly self centered. If its a holiday and there are families out, then there is the possibilities of the elderly, and UMs seeing, yes. Theres also a much higher chance of getting nabbed for public indescency. Or sexual harassment from other people in the park, since technicaly sexual harassment is forcing them to observe what you are doing. And yes, there are people out there that will think of it and sue, people will sue over anything now adays.
Thats just me, if I am going to humiliate my pets, I am going to do so in a venue that it is approriate to. Somewhere that no one ELSE will unnecessarily be subjected to embarasment or humiliation, including myself. Imagine what everyone else must think of the man in this situation, and what an absolute pervert he is for not being able to control himsef in public. How do you think they will look at him if they ever see him alone, any other time. Youd be amazed how well faces remain in someones mind.  And if they dont stay together, and he starts dating someone else whos friends or family witnessed how he treats women... and word gets back to her...

DV



MissHarlet -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 3:06:14 PM)






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No law that prohibits public nudity in Vermont

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ron2421 -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 4:04:39 PM)

No offense intended Diurnal Vampire, but I wish you'd read the entire posts before responding to things already addressed. I indicated the Sub did not seem to mind it at all and playfully went along with it. She did not appear to be hateful or angry at the guy, as you insinuate she must have been.
In fact, based on way the couple left the park, holding hands and googly-eyed, I sure bet they had excellent sex later on that day!
I don't think the couple was being selfish. I greatly sensed they were cognizant if enough people seemed to care about what they were doing, they would stop. As an example, they stopped a few times when people walked on the trail near to the bench. And the "flashing" part occurred when no one was on the trail close to them. Accessibility and visibility to the area was extremely limited due to fencing and the trail through the brush.
Some years ago, I one time also witnessed in a somewhat remote location of a different park a teenage guy give his teenage girlfriend a full wedgie, until her panties ripped off. I suppose that scene would offend some as well. But she also laughed and seemed to play along with it. I recall afterward she she tackled her boyfriend to the ground and slugged him quite hard in the back, and yes quite playfully, afterwards. They were both laughing.

As to MajiksSlave, you're absolutely right. I am not sure whether they were a Dom and Sub. I can imagine? Thanks.



OsideGirl -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 4:15:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

No law that prohibits public nudity in Vermont


Felony public nudity and felony assisting in public nudity will get you on the sex offenders list in California for life. And all it takes is a minor stumbling upon that scene and reporting it to an adult.

You can't control the general public, so it really doesn't matter if the area wasn't easily seen. All it takes is one.



swtnsparkling -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 4:23:47 PM)

Miss Harlet,

I heard it on the news. Then googled and it is true [:)]



DomButNotForgotn -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 4:30:21 PM)

Interesting "naughty" story. I agree with others posting, that to behave thus around "innocents" is dumb and possibly illegal, depending on your location, but public exposure with a degree of humiliation for the submissive can be a really erotic situation. However, discretion is a must. If I was with a young child I would be upset & might even consider dropping a dime on those behaving that way... it is improper (at the very least) to not consider that your behavior might offend or outrage others who are not part of the scene. Due to the very nature of "public exposure" you are taking a risk of having others see something that is too adult for someone who might wander by. 



ron2421 -> RE: Public undressing of sub females (5/30/2007 4:34:35 PM)

Boy, kind of surprised about these responses. But that's okay as I appreciate being informed.
Obviously, there must not be very many advocates around here in favor of  even more risky activities such as intercourse or oral sex in public places, which is enjoyed and advocated by even some vanilla couples.
(Who can forget that funny Woody Allen movie where the comedian cannot get over his sexual impotence until he discovers the thrill of having sexual intercourse in public places. Then we also had that Number One pop song where a woman sang about giving head to her boyfriend in a movie theater.
And then many here must also frown on public exhibitionism and flashing, which I also sensed were a bit more commonly accepted than what I'm reading here.
These type of activities, actual public sex and flashing, seem to face a much greater risk of being seen by children and elderly people, as well as a threat of arrest from indecent exposure, than the comparatively innoculous scene I've described.



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