MistressMercia -> RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? (6/2/2007 11:31:00 PM)
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I am a Professional Dominatrix and 24/7 lifestyler with my husband who is also a Traditional Master in the feilds. I wanted to share my thoughts on this subject. My slave whome was grossly obese when i first met him was denied by a few Mistress"s just because of his size, being Traditional size didnt worry me but what did was his mental state, and his heath threatening physical size , as well as the neglect of his sub side as this wasnt being addressed. He had an imbalance of 3 things, mental, physical and spiritual all of these things had to be addressed and be a known factor to me, to make a wholelistic desion on his training and self disipline applied to his life. Firstly the disipline, soft and a regime acheiveable for him a very simple method. He had to ring me constantly at a certin time, his lazyness was certinally there, and i had to prompt him to keep him on target it wasnt because he didnt want to submit but his old habits were holding him back and had to be broken gently.When i aministered my disipline because he didnt do as requested it was another simple method over the knee big and all as he was and then after that the phsycological as to why he found comfort in eating and then we addressed that, his eating habits were changed as well as the reasons why he had to eat this way. As a Traditional Mistress i have a duty of care to my slaves to bring out the best, not in what they can do just for me but in their submission in and throughout their normal daily lives, submission is a gift to the dominant as is a dominant a gift to the submissive, hence a beautiful union. My update on you all about my slave is this he has lost in 2 and a half months 3 stone, he did weight in at 270lb plus, he is still on his weight reduction method that i have designed for him taking into account all of his physical ailments at the time and his attributes, which he now happily does, he rings me every night without fail, he does a slow Isametric passive exercise that i have designed for him and he started this this week. He has changed in his physical size , his pallor , his demure, his self esteem is improving as is his dress sence and communication skills at work , and in private these have excelled to the stage where in my reward system i am throwing him a party to show my pleasure at all of the above. His submission, his beauty is my reward.......Mistress Mercia
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