softness -> RE: Thoughts on owning a slave - By My Master (6/4/2007 2:59:20 PM)
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I believe that everyone has a right to the relationship that makes all involved parties happy. I would defend any couple that are both equally fulfilled by their relationship. If BOTH of you are happy, secure, fulfilled and contented by this model of ownership, then congratulations. I would never be happy in a relationship based on this model of ownership, because is seems to me to fail in one basic respect. I am a thinking, feeling person, an intelligent socially responsible adult, i have needs and wants and desires, i have weakness and strengths and talents. That is what becomes owned, that whole entire person. I will never put myself into the hands of someone who does not value what i hand him. I will never be owned by a person who does not desire my whole person. That means they care for my welfare with the same passion and determination that i desire to serve them. That means they work towards my wellbeing the same way i strive to secure their comfort. That means that with every step i make towards being what they wish me to be, they make that step right beside me, as my Master. That is was service is to me, what being owned will entail. A journey forward together, in partnership, each providing for the other what is needed for happiness. For me, owneerhsip is not abusing the power that has been given, it is not using "service" as an excuse to dismiss a girls needs and wellbeing. When i bought my house it was not perfect, it needed work, before it would be the home of my dreams changes had to be made. There was a nasty draft, so i fixed the windows. The kitchen was dark, so i refitted it. The bathroom was grimy, so i retiled. I cannot now assume that my house is perfect and i need to complete no more maintenance. I have to work hard at keeping my house the welcoming, nest of comfort that i have created here. Ownership is not an act of purchase alone. Ownership is a committment of responibility
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