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Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 10:47:49 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Greetings A/all,

I just got the call this morning that we have been
anticipating for several months but it still does not
make it any easier.

One of my family members passed away from cancer,
after 6 years of chemo and treatments and pills
and suffering and 9 months of hospice.

The memorial service is next week and I need to put my thoughts
and emotions in order.  And will be moody and not myself for
a while.

Peace and Light,


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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 10:51:29 PM   
selfbnd411


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Status: offline 		Sorry to hear that.  Do what you need to do and don't forget to take care of yourself! 

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 10:53:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		i am so sorry for your loss, you have my heartfelt condolence in this time of grief.  No matter how much a death may be anticipated, it is still a shock when it actually happens.  my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Be well, travel safe

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:13:33 PM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:20:38 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I am sorry for your loss, and hope you are taking care of yourself and finding comfort with your family.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:23:08 PM   
soultoshare


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Status: offline 		sorry to hear of your loss, sending a prayer out for you and yours during this time.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:28:22 PM   
stella40


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Status: offline 		It's hard to know what to say
Or really what to do
To comfort you in your time of sorrow
Through losing someone so precious to you

But this is so to let you know
That we are here and we care
We wish you strength and comfort in your loss
Please be sure you are in our thoughts and prayers

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:32:41 PM   
xxxWENCHxxx


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Status: offline 		My condolences to you and your family.  As it has been said, the loss of a loved one is never easy whether it is anticipated or not for there is a vast emptyness left behind and we know not how to fill that space right away.

Grieve my dear one, grieve and be done then remember to live for them by never forgetting them.  In that way, we carry them with us forever and they can live on through us.

take care

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/19/2007 11:58:37 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		*hugs* you are greatly cared for, i send my best wishes to you and your family in your grief



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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 12:35:09 AM   
HutchGarahl


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Status: offline 		My condolences to you and your family in your time of sorrow. May the heavens bless you all and give the strength needed to make it past this time of sadness. We'll be here when you return.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 12:53:32 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry, Vendaval.  We'll be here when you come back.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 2:52:27 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Condolences V. Never easy and never gets easier. Take your time and remember there are many good people here if you need someone neutral to talk to.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 2:54:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Take care Vendaval, and we'll see you soon *hugs*

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:35:07 AM   
mons


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i am so deeply sorry. i lose my brother may 8 of this year i know the feeling even if they were to pass it goes not stop the pain, as i have told many god holds us up in this time of pain he walks with us and talks with us.

my niece came to take care of my brother i have sleep apean and oh lord i wish i had check on him she had him sigh things and left the place a mess and took all of his thing i have nothing to shown of him, he left me the insurcne she was mad at that how sad i am i want him back i did not know he left me this.

oh please let me pray for you and think of you at this time i am truly sorry for your lost and please take each second at a time and each moment at a time i know lost of a love on , i had cancer before and i wonder whyi am here, i am good to talk to so please write when you come back and you have my deep sorrow for you lose

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 4:36:53 AM   
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Thinking of you and your family.
 
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 5:20:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Both Sinergy and I send our very best to you and your family. We will be thinking of you.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 5:31:50 AM   
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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 5:42:52 AM   
slaveboyforyou


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Status: offline 		You have my condolences for your loss.  I lost two family members last year, and I know this is not an easy matter to deal with.  I wish you and your family the best.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 5:51:08 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Take care, you and yours are in my thoughts.

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RE: Death in family, going off line for a while - 6/20/2007 5:54:40 AM   
LadyPact


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