AAkasha
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Did the subject line get your attention? Did it turn you on? Probably, it annoyed you. I used that subject line to ask about verbal humiliation. I've used verbal humiliation in the context of an overall bdsm situation -- where it's clear to the man that I'm not saying the things in a strictly mean-spirited manner. That said, I don't say things like, "You loser," or "You are such a fucking idiot" or "What are you, a moron?" -- The things I say are more teasing, playful, or seductive. Visualize a male sub who's been gagged and tormented and is just starting to drool, and the femdom takes his cheek in her hand and looks him in the eyes and says, "Aww....you look so pathetic" -- but the tone is almost *affectionate*. Contrast that to a woman with her hands on her hips looking down at a man on the floor and saying in her most bitchy, sneering voice, "You stupid loser! You are a pathetic piece of shit! I can't stand the sight of you. Go ahead and cry, you big baby, you're a pathetic piece of garbage!" Is the second scenario a serious hot button for subs into humiliation? Is it more edgy, more exciting? Does it do anything for you? I can see how it might be powerful in the context of an agreed-upon scene or situation. However, it seems that some femdoms use this tone in their content on their web site -- as if to say, that's their normal demeanor, and their reader (the male sub) is that "loser." Do subs who are into humiliation get off on simply reading text that is brutally demeaning? Just curious, Akasha
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