Evlgryn
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ORIGINAL: k0432 I realise that this is a question from "bdsm for fuckwits", but nonetheless ... I'm lucky enough to have a beautiful sub who is interested in kidnapping role play; whereas I'm middle aged but very inexperienced in bdsm. Would people be interested in sharing their experiences in kidnap role plays. I'd be very interested in knowing what has worked and not worked for people. And I would need to be aware of all the health and safety aspects so as not to do something stupid and injure my woman. If this is relevant, my sub is heavier than me, so as much as I'd like to, I won't be able to sling her over my shoulder. I do want to stress that this would all be safe, sane and consensual. Many thanks, again. k. Dear K0432, this is not a question for fuckwits. In fact true fuckwits are too stupid to ask this question, and the newspapers are full of the results. Every year somebody in this thing we do gets detained and sometimes arrested for being observed doing a kidnap scene. Recently some local high school kids thought it would be fun to act out a kidnapping in a parking lot. The cops didn't think it was fun at all and said so to the judge at their arraignment. The trick experienced people know about our play is we do it discretely and safely so that we can do the same fun things with the same fun people over again another time. Nobody gets banned from the hotel, nobody gets hurt and nobody ends up in jail. So your question is the kind a smart person asks whenever he is not sure he has all the answers. To play outside You need to control all aspects of who is seeing you and interacting with you which is a tall order. "There is always a little old lady looking out the window on every corner" a cop friend was fond of telling me. But carrying her off over your shoulder (another favourite) is not the only way to treat a hostage. How about a home invasion? I heard a story that someone (not necessarily me, I got witnesses to swear I was out of town at the time) arrived at a friends apartment (she was expecting him) carrying a six pack of coke, a brown paper bag, and a pizza in an insulated sack. In the brown bag he had a roll of duct tape, and a wicked looking knife ( to cut the duct tape officer I swear). It all looked perfectly normal to anyone watching on the other side of locked door; nobody cares where the pizza guy goes. To further test this hypothesis (the story goes) before he found her place , he misread the numbers and inadvertantly walked in the wrong open door. The folk in there politely directed him on his way! Try doing that while not carrying a bag full of pizza. Or while carrying a toy gun: a previously suggested scenario, and something guaranteed to make the local constabulary testy. If a woman can't get enough thrill from a man holding a knife and a roll of duct tape, she needs another man(unless she lives with her parents, then the whole deal is off). A little imagination can make any kind of bondage out of duct tape, they have websites devoted to it. But the true genius of the scene is that when you have played your hind ends off, you have fresh pizza (those bags make a diffence) and soda to refresh the both of you so you can have another go a little later.
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