daddysprop247 -> RE: Surrendered Wives on "60 minutes" Austrailia (6/25/2007 10:45:01 AM)
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fast reply, to no one in particular: i just watched the video, tho i had heard of the "Surrendered Wife" book and read some things about it years ago, after seeing this newsclip however i think i'll have to go out and get this book myself. i think that this "movement" if you will can be a wonderful thing for many vanilla couples who have tried the modern way of feminism and equality and realized that it simply does not work. growing up in my own household and observing the relationships around me, i saw firsthand much tension and friction in relationships that mostly came down to each partner struggling for dominance and control, because there was no clear Head of household, no clear leader, everything was just chaos. or worse, i would see couples where the male had happily checked out emotionally and mentally from the relationship, while the female would be going merrily along running her one-person show. our current society which encourages independent, controlling, ball-busting women and pleading, ultra sensitive effeminate men results in damaged relationships with selfish, demanding women and emotionally depleted, emasculated men. it all saddens me a great deal. i think that the Surrendered Wife movement is simply another brand of D/s, as D/s for many of us is nothing new under the sun, and a traditional way of life that has been in existence in human relationships since prehistoric times. my Master and i were not led to D/s thru bdsm or kink, but rather thru old-fashioned values that we both held regarding the natural order. i realize that many do not agree with such beliefs, and that is fine, but i wonder why all the animosity and anger towards those of us who believe and live this way, especially on a place like collarme.com?? i would think that we of all people would understand the beauty and simplicity in the Surrendered Wife model. instead many are criticizing and bashing it even more than those in the outside vanilla world would. as far as the issue of raising children in such a household, i see no harm in it. parents tend to pass on their own values to their children, and as they grow up these children can embrace or discard those values. personally i found it very sweet and touching the way that mother emphasized to her young daughter how important it is to obey and honor her father, and how even the mundane duties of life hold special significance because it is for Daddy. even more significant, that child is being raised in an environment of love and harmony, where her mother and father are complements to one another, not opponents, which is a rare thing indeed in these sad times.
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