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Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 6:52:58 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Would U ever meet a Dom after 4 short messages and get into His car and take off on a trip to another country?

One on here wanted to know if i was free and would i like to go. I declined of course.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:05:52 PM   
GeekyGirl


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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:07:43 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight

Would U ever meet a Dom after 4 short messages and get into His car and take off on a trip to another country?

One on here wanted to know if i was free and would i like to go. I declined of course.




not just no but HELL NO

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:13:17 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		I've had those.  I just block them

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:15:42 PM   
slaveish


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I've done some stupid things in my 4+ decades here. Back in my younger, crazier, and more rebellious days I may have taken him up on it (although the world was a little bit different that many years ago).

Wait. There was no Internet back then. So ... never mind.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:19:34 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		I never took off to another country and He was a nilla guy not a Dom, but after talking by phone and msn for a week, I took off for a weekend with a guy. Was totally platonic and was an absolute blast.

Not every one is a freak, but I would have concerns about going to another country. Where we went for the weekend I knew I could get home on my own with no problem if I needed to.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:23:27 PM   
MsPleasure


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Status: offline 		I have turned down several offers like that.  I just wish there were some type of references for the doms that are safe and follow through. 

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:27:20 PM   
BlindDescent


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Status: offline 		There still exists a real slave trade in many parts of the world. Once you are out of sight...

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:39:13 PM   
winterlight


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tyvm for the comments!

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:40:22 PM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		You have to wonder about anyone who'd even ask you do to such a dangerous thing - how can you trust their judgement during a scene if they're so desperate, or careless?

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:41:21 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I highly doubt you truly needed to ask..:0)..Tempting

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 7:43:46 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight

Would U ever meet a Dom after 4 short messages and get into His car and take off on a trip to another country?

One on here wanted to know if i was free and would i like to go. I declined of course.



Sure. Why the fuck not. After all, if we decline, it means we are not really TRUE submissives and slaves right.

Anyone who does something this stupid and idiotic, deserves exactly what they get.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 9:09:32 PM   
LadyPaige


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Status: offline 		He's probably just trying to impress you and get you to play.  He's probably never been out if the state.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 9:38:28 PM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		You have to wonder, do they ever find anyone who agrees to that?

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 9:59:43 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		I just had another Dom (visiting friends in town), message me 5 times with quick messages. One of them was what he would do to me. Tie me on a bed, massage me have me strip to my undergarments.

I just shake my head over these idiots that think a sub will just go and meet somebody and allow this to happen to her.

Frankly it creeps me out. Guess what? I declined...

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/23/2007 10:23:58 PM   
velvetears


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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/24/2007 6:29:27 AM   
Malacophonous


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlindDescent

There still exists a real slave trade in many parts of the world. Once you are out of sight...


It's not just in other parts of the world.  It's estimated that  upwards of 18,000  thousand women/girls  in the United States  are being forced or coerced into sexual slavery/forced labor. Worldwide the estimate is close to 800,000.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/24/2007 10:12:59 AM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		Let me think about that one.. hmmmmmmmm, HELL NO. 4 short emails and he wants me to go off with him {rofl}, I'm not insane.

I will stick with knowing someone before I decide to do anything that requires a passport, like a ring on my left hand.

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/24/2007 10:34:46 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		if the Dom cannot fly here to visit me on my "home turf" what makes him think i'm flying overseas to meet him alone?

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RE: Meet a Dom after... - 6/24/2007 10:42:37 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I have met people off the internet at starbucks on occasion...but only after chatting for several weeks, and kinda getting a feel for the person. I would NEVER go anywhere after only a few short emails, NEVER go anywhere private, NEVER get into their car, and definantly NOT go out of country...ive been out of country...got shot at..wasnt fun..rather not go back.

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