From: Nashville TN
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??
And the answer is.... yes.
For me it's not an either/or, it is both. Some days I like to be cared for, others I like doing the caring.
My normal "mode" is me taking care of my lady, running around and taking care, getting and doing. IN there, I have to have some space to do my stuff, to do a few things for me first. Then there are the nights I don't want to take care of anything, but to order m'lady (my slave) around and tell her what she is going to do. Then I like to spank and flog her as well.
So it's not one thing or the other, it is definately both, and it depends entirely on my mood, how I feel and what we negotiate during the course of the day/week/month.