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wendyLDG -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/16/2005 11:35:46 AM)

i started out as a submissive then became total slave to my Master. It is He who encourages my Domme side as he says i am a natural and i must confess to enjoying it. however i am and always will be a slave first.[:D]



RobertMaddox -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/16/2005 1:32:05 PM)

Truthfully, it's whichever one allows the energy to ramp up the highest. As a sub, I'm sort of a pig for punishment (must be the testosterone or something), but as a top, I can really go to town with a sub who's getting into it.

It's the screaming. Either my own or my scene-mates'. I guess it's an audio fetish.



statechamp62 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/19/2005 9:01:52 AM)

I perfer being a submissive over dom because its more intense. I have been with a switch befor and we would take turns submitting to eachother. But be careful a Domme will not be to happy if you try to dominate from the bottom



pp1948 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/19/2005 5:59:05 PM)

I would say submissive; but I can be a good dominant if in the mood![:o]



Evanesce -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/19/2005 8:30:47 PM)

Depends on the situation. I am, by nature, an aggressive, dominant individual. I LIKE having slaveboys cater to my every whim. But I also love the feeling I get from kneeling at Master's feet. In play, I'm a sadist who truly gets off on inflicting pain and seeing the reactions of my vic... err.... partner. But just as soon as that play is done and the aftercare is handled, I'm craving pain of my own. It seems that, for me, one side feeds off the other.

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Just Curious,
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??[:)]

I was collared to a Switch, Who altimately
liked being a Submissive/Slave, more so then being a Mistress.
She was very Dominate to me, but liked
serving a Master, more then me serving Her~~~[:D]




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/20/2005 1:56:14 PM)

The witchy side. Sorry, couldn't help it. [:D]



pp1948 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (9/20/2005 7:38:03 PM)

it all depends on my mood but most of the time I like to be submissive. When I am angered then the paddle and whip come out and watch out baby![:@]



Morgaine289 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/2/2005 11:57:27 PM)

I can honestly not write, that i prefer one side over the other. I need both to be well balanced.



tarnishedhalo777 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/3/2005 3:13:48 AM)

That's a good question. I can't really say as it is a craving,more of a preference.
I prefer topping in the physical sense yet I seek a Dom male in overall ltr sense of things.I prefer pleasing and serving in the relationship.Finding a Dom that would let me continue to top would be the ideal.



zaffiro -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/19/2005 9:16:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Just Curious,
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most??[:)]


Having not done anything yet, I would say that I "crave" being on the bottom more.
I don't "crave" being on top, but I would rather be on top more often than not.

And I Crave the B in BDSM more than the DSM :) Top and Bottom.



Spankme3 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/20/2005 4:36:17 AM)

Personally...I love both. Started off in the lifestyle as a total submissve and pain slut...but recently my Dom side suddenly came out and I love that as well. I have a wonderful playmate who is also a switch....so we have a great time switching back and forth. I think i'ts the best of both worlds....but that's just my opinion.



Billiejokay -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/22/2005 4:08:05 AM)

I am a dom most of the time but I call myself a switch because I will instruct my sub to "Dom" me sometimes......[;)]

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FTopinMichigan -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/22/2005 6:05:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Billiejokay

I am a dom most of the time but I call myself a switch because I will instruct my sub to "Dom" me sometimes......[;)]



There ya go! [:D]

This topic came up recently, at a munch. A "Dom" that bottoms once in a blue moon (maybe once a year, or less)...is that someone that might self indentify as a "switch"...or are they a "Dom?"

The argument was that a Dom that bottoms...is a switch...emphatically, and they are not really a "Dom" at all. (Dontcha just love all those labels. [:D])

I don't agree. I think the Dom that "bottoms"....just enjoys the other side now and then. They have a masochitic side that they enjoy. It doesn't change anything (or their orientation/personality, etc.), as I see it.

I also see a difference between "bottoming," and switching to BE "submissive."

I tend to enjoy topping Doms that bottom. I don't tend to see them as switches though, only as my friends. [:)]

K



carib069 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/23/2005 4:07:05 AM)

I love being a switch, as close as I can figure it out I am 15% DOM, 25% subbie and 60% slave. I really enjoy pleasing and serving in a harsh enviornment. I guess the pain slut in me really comes out when I am a slave. [:)]



tightropes -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/26/2005 7:14:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: carib069

I love being a switch, as close as I can figure it out I am 15% DOM, 25% subbie and 60% slave. I really enjoy pleasing and serving in a harsh enviornment. I guess the pain slut in me really comes out when I am a slave. [:)]


I love the percentages! [;)] I also hate the labeling that goes on. Bottom but dominant. Sub not slave. I'm not quite sure 'what' I am but I have been drawn to both sides (are there only two? [8|] ) for decades. I have a sadistic bent and certainly find comfort in controlling my environment, at work and at play. But I also enjoy submitting in the erotic context, whether a function of the time and place of my upbringing (1950's) or otherwise. I am drawn to being humbled perhaps because in everyday life I eschew that. I also find it difficult to find one partner because those who don't switch tend to want someone who fully fits being dominant or submissive, not someone who shows mixed propensities. It seems so many switches end up relating to more than one person, which isn't my need. Which side of me prevails in any given context often depends upon the woman I'm with. Her personality often inspires me at the moment. But unlike some, I have trouble forming a longterm relationship with someone unbending in her own propensities, yet when I 'need' a domme a female switch won't do! What a conundrum. [&o] Apologies for rambling.

tightropes



harleygirl72 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/28/2005 1:13:31 PM)

quote:

Just Curious,
What side of the Switch Bdsm~or S-M
Do You crave the most?


The control. Being in control and on top. I like a guy or girl wanting to do anything to please me and in turn be pleased.



Zoycite -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (10/30/2005 9:33:02 PM)

I lean more to the dominant side.... unless I find the right person. Emotions involved and personalities click... I'm their property then, a helpless slave.



LadyCompassion -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (11/4/2005 4:49:33 PM)

It all depends on what mood I am in. If I am very stressed I love to be used and I love to receive pain from someone that is dominating me. The act of submitting to that person allows me to let it all go and realize that I am not responsible for anything at the moment.
But if I am mellow or just in a good mood in general and he wants me to dominate him...then I am all for it.
I enjoy giving pain and I enjoy receiving pain.



missmercy87 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (11/8/2005 10:14:40 AM)

I love the attention....and the painful pleasure...so I'd have to say I enjoy being submissive more than dominant.



Nuke718 -> RE: Witch side of being a Switch do You crave the most (11/8/2005 2:18:33 PM)

Top, bottom, Dom, or sub, it depends on the partner.

No seriously. I have never had a switch partner where we swapped roles, so it has always been whatever my partner at the time draws out of me.

For instance, a nilla girl I have been seeing a little off DEFINATELY trips my Dominant triggers in a big way. But a lifestyle friend who is a switch is exploring her Top side, and pushing my bottom buutton hard. And I can go from one mode to the other in a matter of an hour, depending on who I am with.

I guess I crave the rush, not the role.

Nuke }:-



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