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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

You are an ornery man, Mr. Bounty

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

I suppose what I am saying is that I think the idea of "kissing and telling," to be pretty horrible.  Discussing explicitly about what the two of you (or more as the case may be) do in private is very disrespectful of your partner(s) and yourself.  It also shows a lack of courtesy to those around you who might hear. 

Saying that you enjoy sex in many different places is one thing.  Telling us all about the sex you have had in different places, with different partners, is something different.  But even with the first, there is a time and place.

The word, "intimate" means something.  To take that something and throw it out for public consumption, lessens it. 

When I was in sixth-grade, I had crush on a guy, Ryan M (we had been in elementary school togeather as well).  We had some school dances, and I was at one point thinking about asking him to dance with me at the next one.  Until one day in the girls locker-room, after PE class, I heard some girls talking about them.  They were talking about passing him around as a boyfriend.  He was going to be getting a two-week stint or something with each gal, in a certain order.  This disgusted me.  As a sixth-grader, I was appaled.  How could anyone let themselves be a party to such was beyond all rational.  This was not a sweater to be shared, it was a person.  And Ryan was okay with it.  It increased his "status." 

So, yes, I do not like locker-room talk, from males or females.  I find it disgusting and de-humanizing for the talker and the talkee.   

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

You are an ornery man, Mr. Bounty

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER
while its on my mind why are old folks so unimaginative to think the screwing must be done in bed and in the dark..any takers on this one smile..Just a curious ol' Master wants to know good night everyone..B

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Overall I think that it may be just a turn of phrase.  "Behind closed doors" is a phrase used to denote something that is private.  And once upon a time, and still for some of us, our sexual lives are something that we consider private.  It is not for the rest of the world. 

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

HUMM are you trying to tell me sonething aylee smile..I love "IT" with a light on and where ever the fancy suits me,ie hayloft, side of the road or on the desk in the office..lol

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

I suppose what I am saying is that I think the idea of "kissing and telling," to be pretty horrible. 

Saying that you enjoy sex in many different places is one thing.  Telling us all about the sex you have had in different places, with different partners, is something different.  But even with the first, there is a time and place.

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

If I remeber correctly aylee I didn't say with whom I had sex with smile...Those that are offended by my post are free to leave..read my post again maybe you will find another point of view.. 

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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Pomme's computer went kerpluey

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Re-capping the conversation and with oooodles of cutting.

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTY HUNTER
while its on my mind why are old folks so unimaginative to think the screwing must be done in bed and in the dark..any takers on this one smile..Just a curious ol' Master wants to know good night everyone..B

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Overall I think that it may be just a turn of phrase.  "Behind closed doors" is a phrase used to denote something that is private.  And once upon a time, and still for some of us, our sexual lives are something that we consider private.  It is not for the rest of the world. 

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTY HUNTER

HUMM are you trying to tell me something aylee smile..I love "IT" with a light on and where ever the fancy suits me,IE hayloft, side of the road or on the desk in the office..lol

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

I suppose what I am saying is that I think the idea of "kissing and telling," to be pretty horrible. 

Saying that you enjoy sex in many different places is one thing.  Telling us all about the sex you have had in different places, with different partners, is something different.  But even with the first, there is a time and place.

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTY HUNTER

If I remember correctly aylee I didn't say with whom I had sex with smile...Those that are offended by my post are free to leave..read my post again maybe you will find another point of view.. 

I never said that you did.  I took your comment of, "trying to tell me something?"  To mean that I was not clear enough and so I elaborated. 

I was never offended by what you said and in fact pointed out that I thought your comment was a different that explicit discussion of what and with whom.

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ORIGINAL: Sasy

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

You are an ornery man, Mr. Bounty

You just now figuring that out Sunshine ?

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ORIGINAL: PommeDeMonSang

oks but just so you know Sir the topic you gave will be most likely used in the NEXT essay ill have to write that is a cause and effect essay :D

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ORIGINAL: PommeDeMonSang

yep so far this essay im working is going to be the second with Aylee Ma'ams help :D still waiting on grade for the one that we had just finished