domiguy
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ORIGINAL: Ysabo I just want to say: as a white female, I have been predjudiced AGAINST by every race and gender out there - Black people have treated me like I called them a "darkie" or somesuch, when I have never even met them before, Oriental shop owners have followed me thru their stores watching me like I am a repeat shoplifter, Indians have actually TOLD me I must be predjudiced against them, because I'm white, Hispanics have turned their backs on me and commenced a conversation in Spanish (I speak the language quite well, folks, don't even bother), Men have treated me like a whore, even when I wasn't dressed like one *grins* and Women have treated me like I tried to kiss their husband, in front of their kids. Guess what, when it's a MINORITY race, treating someone from the so called Majority in a degrading or sterotypical manner, it's still called PREDJUDICE. We did not invent the word for those who are unkind to Minorities. And when it's two people from the same race and gender, it's just plain meanness. In fact, I think the whole thing comes down to meanness. I try to treat people with the same respect and courtesy that I hope for, and in most of the situations I mentioned above, the situation was turned around, because I refused to allow them to turn me into a stereotype. Predjudice is about how we treat each other - if YOU treat each person you meet as someone you just met, giving them a fresh start and an equal chance, there will be no more predjudice. YOU have no control over someone else's predjudice, you can only end your own. You poor, poor thing.....It is so tough being white in today's society.....My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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