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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/6/2007 11:20:59 AM

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just wondering how you perceive your ability to make good choices.

Isn't this like asking "Just wondering how you perceive your ability to drive well"? Don't we all think we make the best choices ever made by any other human being on the planet? Prior to having hindsight to the contrary I mean.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/6/2007 7:04:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

People can be immature at any age. I know a 22 year old who consistantly act more mature than a lot of 40 year olds I know...AND he's Dominant.
Master Fire

And then there's me, lol. Just goes to show that for every example there's a counterexample.
...23 going on 12, yeah baby!

I have been told that dating me can be like dating a weirdly buxom 12 year old who can drive and buy booze.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/7/2007 10:22:54 AM

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Don't we all think we make the best choices ever made by any other human being on the planet?

Geez, I hope not. The OP stated that most of the Doms she has talked to have been immature. Could it be, maybe, that she is making choices on who to talk to based on the wrong criteria? (I'm not saying that she is, it was a question for her to see the situation from a different point of view). If one keeps making choices that get one results they don't want, it seems logical to me to go inside and examine if your criteria might not be skewed.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/7/2007 11:28:59 AM

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I can totally relate to grlneedstolearn because i'm dealing with the same thing.

Kink or not we all still want to feel treated respectfully. Yes this is D's yes we may be sub or slave but at the same time we all have a soft side and deep down in us whether we are 22 or 60 want care. Being sub or slave doesn't mean we should just have to lay down and spread our legs on the first meeting.

I havn't searched for someone in a long time seriously but guys my age do seem very immature, they seem to just be here for the sex and to count the numbers so to speak. It's like there's a competition on how many girls each guy can fuck and who ever wins gets what?

A cookie.

On topic, and in reply to meticulousgirl and grlneedstolearn:
Perhaps you girls are just meeting the wrong type of people.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/19/2007 11:52:55 AM

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im a 25 year old Dominant, and have not been taken seriously yet,its quite discouraging,I know what I want. and how I want it.but the age always seems to be an issue

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/19/2007 8:29:58 PM

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but men are most attractive at 35.

I couldn't agree more, but then what the fuck do we do with them when they turn 36?

If you can, rent the movie Logan's Run.

Take notes.

Sinergy

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/19/2007 11:28:53 PM

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I myself am 22, I take this life very seriously, Im not the classic latex/leather clad amazon, I approach things more mentaly, but I'll use my slave the way best I can, and as I am learning (knowing my age is a factor and thus I make a point to absorb, learn, read and do as much as I can) I've been rudely scoffed at by slaves I've inquired into, and ignored by those who've even come to me, simply becuase they don't take me seriously do to my age.

I find it somewhat frustrating, but in the same breath its why I tend to deal with slaves my own age, hell I got a very rude reply from a 26 year old Female, it seems uneeded. Like slaves, you don't know a Dom till you've taken the time. Age is not always an instant know how if someone is mature, experinced or even one to act thier age

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/19/2007 11:57:55 PM

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some of the younger Doms i have "met" here seem to embody, um, how to describe, like Heavenskeeper, Mad Rabbit, Rafters, for example. i read the things they say and i feel like, this a high quality guy here. i learn from what they say and i enjoy the content of their words.

it is not so much an age things as it is a soul thing, a heart thing too. the trick i guess, is how to meet someone cut from this sort of cloth like these enlightened younger Doms are and not the lie, cheat use abuse fabric that many men of all ages are. i personally do not want a really young Dom. (ok i kinda do in a nice fantasy sort of way) i want one tho that is super cool and amazing, like some of these younger Doms really seem to be.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/20/2007 11:19:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

i am in no way meaning for my post to offend any Doms that are younger, i know their out there yet it's a matter of where.

But in a way, this topic does offend, for it only asks where mature *young* dominants can be found. Personally, I've met many young dominants who are very serious, and many older Doms who rely on routine at best or are only after young flesh as much as the other way around. Being seriously interested and being/acting mature just doesn't have that much do with age.

Roel

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/20/2007 11:22:27 AM

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There is a great percentage of older men who just want ass as well. They are just better at making you think they want more.

That is SO true!!!

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/20/2007 12:41:12 PM

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I am one of the Old Doms but remember what it was like when I was younger and full of piss and vinegar.
The way I see it is that today its too easy to read a web site, catch on to some of the lingo and claim you are a Dom. There isnt any training anymore. (see my post under "Finding a Mentor").
truth be told there are not that many true Doms or subs out there in the real world. Reading the internet it seems like everyone is and has 25 years experience. Including Old Guard even though they arent gay or even male in some respects.
Now I do want to be clear and say that there are expceptions and there are those who do have it together but that I feel is the vast minority.
Geee is my cynism showing? LOL
William

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/21/2007 12:22:46 AM

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The way I see it is that today its too easy to read a web site, catch on to some of the lingo and claim you are a Dom.

That's not any easier for a 22yo thant it is for a 40yo beginner.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/21/2007 9:57:45 AM

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I am one of the Old Doms but remember what it was like when I was younger and full of piss and vinegar.
The way I see it is that today its too easy to read a web site, catch on to some of the lingo and claim you are a Dom. There isnt any training anymore. (see my post under "Finding a Mentor").
truth be told there are not that many true Doms or subs out there in the real world. Reading the internet it seems like everyone is and has 25 years experience. Including Old Guard even though they arent gay or even male in some respects.
Now I do want to be clear and say that there are expceptions and there are those who do have it together but that I feel is the vast minority.
Geee is my cynism showing? LOL
William

This is true. Course, part of my cynicism is that I don't believe people when they say something that equals "There aren't many true doms out there, but I'm one of the rare ones".

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/21/2007 12:59:27 PM

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I am one of the Old Doms but remember what it was like when I was younger and full of piss and vinegar.
The way I see it is that today its too easy to read a web site, catch on to some of the lingo and claim you are a Dom. There isnt any training anymore. (see my post under "Finding a Mentor").
truth be told there are not that many true Doms or subs out there in the real world. Reading the internet it seems like everyone is and has 25 years experience. Including Old Guard even though they arent gay or even male in some respects.
Now I do want to be clear and say that there are expceptions and there are those who do have it together but that I feel is the vast minority.
Geee is my cynism showing? LOL
William

This is true. Course, part of my cynicism is that I don't believe people when they say something that equals "There aren't many true doms out there, but I'm one of the rare ones".

LOL LOL now isnt that the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you didnt take my original post to mean that, it didnt. The point I was making is that there are few people who are really into the lifetyle in relation to the population of the world. But if you look online it seems everyone person claims tey are into it.
William

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/21/2007 1:04:34 PM

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This is true. Course, part of my cynicism is that I don't believe people when they say something that equals "There aren't many true doms out there, but I'm one of the rare ones".

LOL LOL now isnt that the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you didnt take my original post to mean that, it didnt. The point I was making is that there are few people who are really into the lifetyle in relation to the population of the world. But if you look online it seems everyone person claims tey are into it.
William

Just a tease. I can't take anything too seriously, even if it is my lifestyle.

I guess it just depends on how you define BDSM. I don't really think it's something you either belong to or you don't. I think you can dabble with bondage or you can be in a 24/7 d/s relationship. Maybe I'm just a crazy young'un.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/21/2007 1:09:45 PM

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I truly think this is one of the few times that looking older than I actually am has worked to my advantage.

That is the problem however if you're "hunting" in the online communities. People tend to read your stats and then make their decision instead of how you'd present yourself in real life.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/22/2007 7:17:21 AM

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Just a tease. I can't take anything too seriously, even if it is my lifestyle.

I guess it just depends on how you define BDSM. I don't really think it's something you either belong to or you don't. I think you can dabble with bondage or you can be in a 24/7 d/s relationship. Maybe I'm just a crazy young'un.

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No your not just a cray young'un, thats exactly what its all about.
It is what you define it to be for yourself.
I think the reason that there are so many issues about whats right or wrong, whos real or not is that people try to define this life to death. Its been made wayyyyyyy to hard and confusing for those who are new or interested. Addtionally people are judgemental and this should be a non-judgemental lifestyle.
Just read the thread on the person who had their ureathra stretched. Most posts where slamming the person instead of answering their question.
This can be a wonderful, open thing we do but the nay sayers and the ones who can only focus on what they consider wrong or dangerous make people afraid to talk openly and make them feel like they are wrong in liking what they do.

William

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/22/2007 10:42:52 AM

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I have never been interested in a Dom younger than myself.
A few years older has worked for me so far.

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/22/2007 5:15:23 PM

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At 23, I consider myself a Dom.
I won't claim to having near as much experiance as most other people in my community but does that make me any less of a Dom simply based on experiance?

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RE: Younger Doms? - 7/22/2007 5:24:59 PM

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Just read the thread on the person who had their ureathra stretched. Most posts where slamming the person instead of answering their question.
This can be a wonderful, open thing we do but the nay sayers and the ones who can only focus on what they consider wrong or dangerous make people afraid to talk openly and make them feel like they are wrong in liking what they do.

William

I was on that thread. I was the one mentioning how sounding rods (I believe that is the term) have been used to enchance male masterbation for a long time.

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