SlND3R3LLA
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I think I do allow it to influence me to a point. I have the trouble where I am sort of liberal on most things, but this isn't one of them. I have found that with the way I believe about abortion, along with a few other different subjects, it's almost impossible for me to not give up atleast one thing that I hold dear to when voting someone into office. I try to look at what those things are, and what the real chances of making a difference in those areas would be if they ever tried. I have found that there is usually something they can change (or have a decent shot at), while something else they don't have a snowballs chance at pushing thru. I will usually vote for the one that I think has the best chance at making a difference in this world, or atleast to the causes that mean the most to me. I don't really hold most political figures in very high regard in the first place, I don't trust a thing they say, and I automatically take it with a grain of salt at election time. I know that this is one of those things I do hold the most dear after watching my friends and others abort babies I would love to have. I don't hate those friends, not at all, and I do try my very hardest to never judge others. It does break my heart, I can't deny that. I would never quit loving someone just for that reason, though I would hope to encourage them to either use birth control or keep their legs shut in the future. They are going to have to live with it after, and what comes years down the road when they start seeing children that would have been that age, or maybe they can never get pregnant again..both are horrid things to deal with. I can't walk a mile in their shoes having made the choice, but no one can walk in mine having to keep from falling apart everytime I am in the presence of a baby because my heart gets to aching so bad. We are all human and we all make mistakes, I think it's more what we learn and take with us from them that matters. ~sin
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And in that moment, everything I knew to be true about myself up until then was gone. I was acting like another woman, yet I was more myself than ever before. ~F To hell with diamonds, lube is a girls best friend ;)
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