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RE: question re: finding a good male Dom/ or pro male Dom - 7/18/2007 3:46:04 PM

Grlwithboy

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There are professional men in this line of work. They generally expect to work with male clients, because men are usually the consumers of sexual services - but they're professionals and I'm sure some of them will be more than elated to work with female clients. I'm sure there are some good ones in NYC, too - as we all know, if you can't find it there it doesn't exist.

Professional play can be hot, safe, competent, and teach you a lot about what you like. Professional players are often good sounding boards for questions and non-judgemental.

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RE: question re: finding a good male Dom/ or pro male Dom - 7/18/2007 3:57:11 PM

DarkDaddyZ

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

There are professional men in this line of work. They generally expect to work with male clients, because men are usually the consumers of sexual services - but they're professionals and I'm sure some of them will be more than elated to work with female clients. I'm sure there are some good ones in NYC, too - as we all know, if you can't find it there it doesn't exist.

Professional play can be hot, safe, competent, and teach you a lot about what you like. Professional players are often good sounding boards for questions and non-judgemental.

I agree and there are plenty of people who have had power exchange even a deep connection with those that are pros. Some start as a pro/client relationship that grows. Others stay long term pro/client relationships but still have many of the same aspects as other power exchange relationships. My first long term BDSM relationship was with a pro Domme. I couldn't afford to pay her so I did other forms of payments but it was still a pro/client relationship and I learned a ton from her.

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