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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/19/2007 5:55:44 PM   
LadyHeart


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Status: offline 		I am post menopause and I still get wet. Maybe my body hasn't read the right books! I've always been about average for wetness, and am perhaps now fractionally drier, but my husband commented the other night that I'm wetter than ever at the moment. I dunno!

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/19/2007 6:49:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I am not a very wet girl. I get wet enough that stuff goes in, but I never drip and I hardly ever get my panties wet. 

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/20/2007 1:53:33 PM   
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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/21/2007 3:04:01 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I tend to get very wet when excited and turned on.
When I am receiving oral pleasures, I tend to drip.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/21/2007 8:13:50 PM   
charlotte12


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Status: offline 		I used to never get very wet at all to the point where it made sex difficult even with lube. I thought there was something wrong with me. I have recently found i just needed to be bound and now i can be dripping wet with just a look.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/22/2007 11:21:35 AM   
MistressHolly71


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Status: offline 		I get wet very easily. There are even times when I have to change my panties.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/22/2007 12:02:56 PM   
angelsub642


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Status: offline 		i used to get real wet when my perevious Dom showed up . And i'd usually stay wet until he left or until later that day.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/22/2007 12:16:51 PM   
MsOpal


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Status: offline 		I pretty much have always been "more wet than not".  I had a tubal ligation at 23 so from then on sex was all about fun for me.  I did always have some times when I was dry no mater how aroused I was.  I am pretty much the same post menopause and post total hysterectomy.  Some days its dripping from reading an emial, some days its dry and we need lube, no rhyme or reason (no ovulation anymore, no hrt)  But still more wet than not wet.  The "textbook dryness and fragile tissue" was somethign I had been taught to expect but so far (6 -7 years post menopause, 4 years post hysterectomy) the wet/dry issue has not changed noticibly and we engage in some pretty "rough" things at times and so far good - no tearing or problems.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/22/2007 7:26:35 PM   
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I tend to get extremely wet to the point of having  to change undies ...


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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/22/2007 7:30:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		and then you bitch about men dont let you wear undies, they are for keeping balls warm and not for women.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/23/2007 1:11:14 AM   
NefertariReborn


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Status: offline 		I'm very wet.  If the intercourse is ahem! gutteral and loud, I'm a river.  *sigh* I'm even a splasher....yep ejaculates but that only happens with oral damn good oral.  I hate it because as some have said there are days for no reason at all it's just out of hand even with a panty liner.  I have to change the liners a few times per day.  This is usually right before My period though.  I used to douche but My OBGYN told Me to stop.  Messes up My yeast or whatever is naturally occuring up there. 

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/23/2007 8:30:21 AM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Interesting thread, especially since I don't have girlfriends with which I can discuss this!
Internally I am usually wet but not externally even when extremely aroused. I think the external dryness is due to medication but I'm not sure. When playing or having sex I do need lube added about midway through. I hate that.. I feel like I don't work right.
So, I am very glad to read about all the differences we have.


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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/23/2007 10:08:50 AM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yaqeta

This isn't exactly a "health & safety" question, but it doesn't seem to fit anywhere else either, and my curiosity was inspired by some of the responses to my question about dry sex...

I don't know how many women will be comforable answering this, but I'm really wondering about it.  How "wet" do you get, and how much variation is there between women, or at different times?

Talking to a gf of mine tonight I realised that her and I are so different in this way.... she talked about having occaisional problems with dryness, while I am always wet very quickly - sometimes too much, to the point where it reduces the sensation during sex and I can't feel a lot happening.  And the replies to my question on the "dry sex" thread seem to suggest that a lot of women's bodies work *REALLY* differently to mine.  So its made me wonder...

I'm not sure how many replies I'll get to this, but if anyone else is ok with sharing this information, I'm definitely interested to know how much variation there is out there....


I'm more on the dry side of things - and I tend to cycle between mildly wet and a little bit wet.  The only exception is probably g-spot orgasms where I get pretty wet.  But I've never ejaculated or gotten so wet that I could feel it on my thighs.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/25/2007 6:12:47 PM   
shadevarr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nyrisa

I've never been one for getting very "wet", no matter how much arousal. From all the talk I hear about men equating wetness with arousal, I've often wondered if this was disappointing to men. From all the hype I've read, a woman should be dripping down to her knees at the touch of a good lover. **rolls eyes**
 I'd attribute it to japanese hentai for the constant depiction of wetness down to/past the knees.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/25/2007 8:30:17 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I get so wet that sometimes it causes me to loose sensation. Also its messy and when I cum, SPLASH....yup I am a squirter lol  My sub of course loves it and I guess it beats being dry. I've heard when a woman goes through menopause she dries a bit, but I am not sure how true that is.

~Lashra



I can only hope so. LOL I'm in the same boat as well. so wet it reduces sensation and a gusher. Not that I've ever had a complaint on either but the laundry from the towels gets a little ridiculous at times.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/26/2007 1:59:47 AM   
Tarisa


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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/26/2007 2:09:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		My Master has said i'm like playing in a bowl of soup.....LOL

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/26/2007 5:20:36 PM   
sinbetweens


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Status: offline 		I've been known to soak the bedsheets, which I've only recently learned to appreciate. Being dry seems a lot more unpleasant, and dripping drives the girls wild. My last pet used to get so wet that I could fist her without any additional lube, which was pretty neat. We were an awfully messy pair.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/26/2007 7:57:48 PM   
eratosservant


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Status: offline 		I, like you, get really wet, really fast.  But, not so wet that I can feel anything during sex.  I'm sure that you can find a position so will give you the sensation that you're not getting.

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RE: A personal question for any women who want to answe... - 7/26/2007 8:40:22 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I have noticed at times that I can be too wet to feel as much as I would like.  I know that Master loves it and I haven't had anyone ever complain, they actually get more turned on when they see it (literally).  I used to think it wasn't normal, but now I just accept and enjoy that my body reacts the way it does.  All Master has to do is grab me by my hair and I am instawet...sort of like the instasoup...only a lot tastier (or so he says).

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