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ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout Age regression means that a person is either constantly, or upon a trigger, going to feel emotionally like a child, although physically and psychologically they're an adult. A lot of age-regressed people do not have control over their feeling like a child, and they may even try to suppress and deny it because it's uncomfortable for them. They will want the nurturing and protectiveness of a parental figure in their primary relationships. They may or may not want to literally be treated as a child at times, though they also need to be recognized for having adult capabilities in every other way. From what I've seen, and being one of these people, sexual play like incest is avoided like the plague, especially if the person regresses to a prepubescent age, which is almost always the case. Sex is kept to an adult state, even if the nurturing and protective aspects of the relationship are present 24/7 and even if the person is permanently age-regressed emotionally. (If this is still confusing, think of an age-regressed person having to work outside the home. They're going out as an adult, even if they feel like they're still a child inside and never really grew up. They don't want or need anyone to treat them as a child when doing adult activities.) Age play is a broader term that can include age regression, but from what I've seen, it often means that a person wants to play out certain fetishes related to being a child, such as wearing diapers, being instructed by a schoolmaster/mistress, wearing childish clothes, eating age-appropriate foods like baby foods or drinking from bottles or sippy cups, sitting on Daddy's knee or being spanked by Daddy, etc. These people don't really regress to the emotional state of a child, they are playing out a scenario in which they take on the role of a child for a limited time. They're much more likely to be okay with incest fantasies, though it doesn't mean that every person involved in age play wants sex to be a part of it. All of this is from my personal experience, I'm not quoting from any book or online lecture. Age-regressed people are often at odds with age players, because the former feel like a child in a more profound way than the latter, and can't or won't be comfortable with age fetish play. And, you can have people who overlap to some degree. As with anything else, communication beyond labels is important between people. For example, just because you find someone who says they love bondage, doesn't mean they love to wear restrictive hoods. Or, if you find someone who says they love pain, it doesn't mean they necessarily love the pain from electroplay. You have to still find out what specific things are a turn on or a turn off for each person. It sounds like you did quickly find out in the case you posted about, but it sounds like she got a little upset about the idea and judgemental about others doing it, even if it wasn't for her. It's not "contrary to age play" in general; she just felt very strongly that it was contrary to her feelings about age play in particular. Though, keep in mind, incest play is a very common hard limit for people, who sometimes lump it under "pedo", and you'll need to be prepared to field some very unhappy replies to its being suggested. P.S. to the OP: I read your profile, and from what I've seen there it's abundantly clear that you are into daddy-girl SEX. Unless the girl you were speaking to never read your profile, or you've changed it since speaking to her, I don't see any reason why she should have been surprised at your mentioning that kind of play in conversation. Hey lady...i always enjoy reading your posts...there are well thought out and well written...thanks for your insight...i do appreicate it . How are you and your master doing by the way?.....i'll catch you on the other side...i hope......
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*if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything* **collared July 22 2007 by LordKen**
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