Hisown
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Joined: 6/14/2004 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: confusetheswede it started out me and him only. and then she came along. so i decided to destory both of them, they had been seeing eachother for at least 8 months before i got angry. it's funny that you condemm me, but not him or her. i am more insane than just being a common liar, besides, if they would ask were i am or who i am with, i would be honest, they both just never ask. xoxomarinas marinas... May i ask...how do you think this is going to affect you in the end? Forget, for a moment, your original goal with this. Think about where you want to be in a year. Do you want this to be time you have lost to trying to bring them down? Wouldn't it be better spent trying to work yourself through the pain, rather than keep yourself in it? i've been cheated on; i've been lied to. i've gone the revenge route and the only person that ended up hurting that mattered to me...was me. What he did was wrong, imho. What you do defines who you are. No one else can do that for you. Rise up from this and be strong. i know, trust me, how easy that is to say and how difficult it is to actually do. Would you like some advice from a complete stranger? Rip off the band-aid. However this can end, is there any way that seems like it could be good? Like no one will come out of this with some sort of pain? It sounds like however it's going to happen, it's going to hurt someone. my easiest advice, whatever you do, don't continue as you have. If for no one else but for you. i wouldn't want to invest anymore into this girl that i already have. That sounds harsh...i mean, i wouldn't want to, in trying to hurt them both, end up with feelings for this girl and having to deal with that when the truth comes out. Sometimes our first priority, regardless of our place, needs to be ourselves. No one else. i send you strength and hugs, darlin... joanna
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