earthycouple
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ORIGINAL: desiresluv In this world of bdsm that we live in...trust and integrity are valuable. I know that a relationship built on cyber space is not one likely to last. So my question is more for the 24/7 relationships or ones working towards that. As submissives, we offer our complete and total trust to our Doms. We dominants offer our trust and love to you subs as well. We give our thoughts, feelings, needs and desires and love to you. In turn, you feed our desires, provide us with a stable, loving environment. You allow us to pleasure you which in turn gives us a great deal of satisfaction and self worth. A true submissive takes a great deal of pride in making her Dom/Master happy and contented. Having our limits pushed is not only exciting but shows us another side to ourselves that we might have not known. So..with that being said...is it hard for a Dom to keep his word to his sub? Not for me. If I say it I mean it. If his feelings change, for whatever reason...is it feasible to expect him to convey that? Yes. How can it be otherwise? A sub always defers to her Dom, so if she is getting warning bells does she have the right to question him? Yes. Without questions there are no answers and resolve only misery. I am not in this situation, but I am looking for the right One for me. I have had a disappointment with a Dom I met online..we did meet in r/l...he lied..enough said..but he did make me think there was a future for us. Lesson learned. Go with your gut and send the idiots packing. I am wondering though, because I did have warning bells--I chose to ignore them. I think now it would have been better for me to have confronted him. Absolutely! So..to the Doms/Masters...do you agree that trust is vital and important and that a sub should be able to voice her concerns? Trust or building of is the single most important aspect of a relationship as far as I'm concerned. I guess I am trying to make sure I don't go through another relationship like my last. Afterall..if you take the time to meet a sub, shouldn't the honesty be expected? No you can never expect honesty. Some people will screw you at every turn you can not expect honesty. You have to sniff it out and hope for the best. when the warning bells sound listent to them. Thanks for your input.
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