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Master who lies - 8/6/2007 9:40:04 PM

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girl lived with Master 24/7 for three years (Wwe have been together for seven years total) until recently girl found out that Master had others on line, approx. 4 slaves, which he used on a regular basis and did not tell girl... now girl is left alone, owned but not released.. Master refuses to release her, while Master goes off to live with the others.. He has destroyed girls four children and left girl disabled and hating what He turned girl into for His purposes.... what now?

RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 9:50:30 PM

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I'm not a Master but my advice would be to realize that you have been released if he's moved on. He's just not said it out-loud yet. IMO that means he's scared to tell you but I could be wrong.

I'd also get whatever help I needed for my kids and move on with my life. Take some time to heal before looking for someone else.

Just my thoughts.....

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 9:50:52 PM

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Release yourself. Fast.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 9:53:00 PM

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Leave. His lies released you a long time ago. Without trust., their IS NO relationship.

Pick up the pieces of your life, your children and move on. You are better off without him and his lies.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 9:55:44 PM

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Sorry to tell you this, you are living in a fantasy world. You have been released. You don't actually need his consent. Take care of yourself and forget about him as fast as you can.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:01:42 PM

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Ditto to all of the above

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:15:39 PM

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Nothing worse than a cheater and liar. I would not even call this man as a dom let alone a master. I would leave him and try to rebuild a life with your children as they are the ones who need your comfort at this time.

I would also see about getting checked out for any type of STD's this man may have possibly given to you considering there were others he was cheating on you.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:18:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Flame777

girl lived with Master 24/7 for three years (Wwe have been together for seven years total) until recently girl found out that Master had others on line, approx. 4 slaves, which he used on a regular basis and did not tell girl... now girl is left alone, owned but not released.. Master refuses to release her, while Master goes off to live with the others.. He has destroyed girls four children and left girl disabled and hating what He turned girl into for His purposes.... what now?

Greetings,

The post that is written and the evidence that is presented to me, does not make sense. I have this deep feeling that it is written not in truth.

Be well.

Frank Ar.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:20:58 PM

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Greetings
yep yep....unclear on the post as well ...did you and He play together in real time...it appears as if you did....has He then played with the others real time as well? you mention online....and basically online is at worst smoke up one's ass and at best a shadow of the real thing.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:32:09 PM

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The moment he lied he broke your trust and any obligation you might have had to him. You don't need him to tell you that you may go. It matters not what is in your contract as a slavery contract is illigal anyhow.

Move on and get help for you and your children.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:34:11 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Flame777

girl lived with Master 24/7 for three years (Wwe have been together for seven years total) until recently girl found out that Master had others on line, approx. 4 slaves, which he used on a regular basis and did not tell girl... now girl is left alone, owned but not released.. Master refuses to release her, while Master goes off to live with the others.. He has destroyed girls four children and left girl disabled and hating what He turned girl into for His purposes.... what now?

You get off your ass, tell him you've released yourself and you take care of those four kids because they need you a lot more then you need him.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:51:12 PM

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Sorry for your hurt, just found out something similar about the one I love after being approached by several subs last night who had been duped by at least two profiles he has on here but I wasn't no-where near as 'in deep' as you.

Its time to get into damage limitation mode......cry for a few days, shout and scream for a few days, then start smiling and prove you can enjoy life, those children need their happy/smiling mum back again and it will get on his nerves if he knows you can move on.

However, if he comes crawling back.....Think carefully, you could find yourself re-living this dark time all over again.

I know things seem hopeless, but as each day approaches, the hurt will get less....

Big hugs,

xxxxxx

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:55:15 PM

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Your master destroyed children? disabled you?

The fact that he has a bunch of online toys is the least of your problems.

you are alone? good, pack up while he is playing with the computer gf's.

and your profile says you need a new master to protect and love you?

That is a job for yourself to do for yourself and your children for a while. no?

wow, priorities.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 10:57:56 PM

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Pray for your sanity.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/6/2007 11:06:09 PM

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Even being new to "this" I've learned that, above all, honesty and open communication is the only way to carry out any relationship/contract. Without that vital foundation everything else is built under false circumstances. And though they will be shed remember he does not deserve your tears.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/7/2007 12:05:21 AM

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Agreed.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/7/2007 5:51:13 AM

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girl needs to get a spine and get the hell out of this situation. Why would you stay with someone that would in your words "destroyed girls four children"? Any woman who allows someone to hurt her children is no woman, a woman defends her children to her last breath even against some self titled "master".

What do you do? get out to a domestic violence shelter and learn how to stand on your own two feet. You say your disabled, perhaps job corps can help you learn a skill so that you can get a job and support yourself if not there are government programs. Whatever you do learn to be independent and more wise in your selection of "masters".

~Lashra

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RE: Master who lies - 8/7/2007 6:12:04 AM

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I've gotta go with Frank on this one. It's simply too incredible to believe. There's more to this story.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/7/2007 6:14:29 AM

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A man is only as good as his word. So much of what We do, indeed so much and ANY relationship is based on trust. Lies are the surest way to destroy any possibility of trust and thus any possibility of a relationship.

It isn't that he had four others that is the problem, it is that he lied about them. Anything has a chance to work without destroying a relationship so long as it is done openly and honestly.

What now... Its upto you. Personaly, lies = over, they are history, I dust Myself down and move on.

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RE: Master who lies - 8/7/2007 6:16:31 AM

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He has abandoned her by his actions so in my world abandonment = release. Doesn't always have to be a verbal release. Sometimes actions speak louder than words.

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