candleTC
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Joined: 5/8/2006 From: Springfield, Il Status: offline
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It's been a while since i have posted on the forums... however, with that being said, let the rant begin!! First of all, to those of you saying that this is "untrue", what world of M/s have you been living in? ( i mean this as no disrespect to the Masters/Doms that have posted.. ) This type of thing does not surprise me or Master at all. We have seen this very thing happen time and time again, to the point of offering a place to stay for a girl who's life was destroyed by such antics. Granted she had no children, however that doesn't make the situation any different. The fact that they lived together 24/7 for three years, while the whole time, this girl was being trained for her Master. In that training, sometimes and unfortunetly, comes a certain level of brainwashing. Things often time being said such as " you can beg for release, but that doens't mean you will get it. I will own you until I say so" . When you hear that enough times, you almost HAVE to hear those words of "I am releasing you" in order for it to be true. No matter what the circumstance. This tool was a jerk, continues to be a jerk. He has obviously broken her spirit and her own will of standing on her two feet. This is a common practice in many vanilla abusive relationships. Why does it surprise you when it happens in a M/s relationship? Now, to the girl. Heed my words. Even though you don't feel if you are released, that is fine. That should not keep you from doing what you must do to protect those children. Get back up, dust off your ass, and continue life.. taking care of those kids first and foremost. The positive thing about you not being released, is that you will not feel free to run off to the first "Master" who offers solice. You must remain alone for a while, rebuilding you, your kids and your life. Take one step at a time, He will eventually give up on you, after seeing the beautiful flower you have blossomed into and let you go.
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"On my knees, i think clearer" ~Thoughts are like arrows: once released, they strike their mark. Guard them well or one day you may be your own victim. - Navajo Proverb~
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