Aswad -> RE: Shit (8/8/2007 4:28:27 PM)
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kittinSol, slaveaurora, came4U, tatangel, servantheart, and others ... What did you people really expect when you clicked on this thread? Seriously, do you feel it would be appropriate for vanillas to invade the forums with a lot of similar posts directed at your own activities? Please, try to show some minimum of respect, manners and politeness! I don't understand why some people feel the need to be that rude to other posters in such ways. This is a disgrace. I quite get that this is something that will churn most people's stomachs, as there are (a few) things that will churn mine. This is not one of them. It is something I engaged in at some point in the distant past, in fact. For me, as it seems to be for the Japanese, it was the taboo aspect that held the appeal, as the interest disappeared once I systematically deconstructed the social mores I had been imprinted with over the years. Others will have other reasons for engaging in it, or having engaged in it. Feedback like this can be a great way to drive people back into not posting, not getting the safety info they need, and feeling ashamed of what they are doing. And don't bring up the straw-man argument of how "this is the Internet, so people have to grow harder skin". There are humans like yourself on the other end of the screen, and if you are capable of consenting to WIITWD, you are capable of remembering that. Most of us have taken shit (no pun intended) from vanillas for what we do, and would prefer to do without it. No need to bring hypocrisy to the table. The topic is clearly labelled, and if you react that badly to the topic, you pretty much knew up front you were going to have this reaction to the thread. Why then even click on it in the first place? And, seeing as though this isn't your thing and you don't really have anything constructive to add (scorn doesn't count), what is it with coming in here and posting in such a condescending manner? If you don't approve, just leave it at "This isn't my thing" if you have to comment. Or, as LadyHeart said, "expect to be shown the door". Bootprints in the rear are on the house. I'd say apologies are in order.
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