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MsKittyBlack -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 7:25:27 AM)

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BoiJen -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 7:31:34 AM)

I feel like I'm defending myself...but whatever.

The posting and thread was meant as a joyful little note for those who choose to pick it up. If you can't hold onto that then don't post. Whatever happened to staying on topic. Start a bitchin thread about this one. I don't care. Just stop hijacking something that was/is supposed to be a nice little reminder of the goodies.

We're contrary and have double standards for everything. This would be no different so don't be surprised if a guy who posted the same thing got bashed. It's the way life is...NOT fair.

As for the pronoun I perfer...I don't much care. It's good either way. I respond to both without offense.

boi....

and I don't have to hide being an ass by calling it being a cynic...I just come out and do it.




earthycouple -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 8:21:11 AM)

Go BoiJen!

I liked your message.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 9:39:02 AM)

I adored the original post, and the reckless cheekiness that inspired it.  I imagined a weird twist on The Wizard of Oz in which dominant ladies peered at each other and inquired,

Are you a good bitch or a bad bitch?

MSS




earthycouple -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 3:45:09 PM)

oooohhhh I'm a good bitch most of the time.  Which can then be very very bad!




LaTigresse -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 3:54:30 PM)

Spanks and hugs to BoiJen, what a sweet thing to do.

As an aside to all the little snotty pants. I can think of several males (one male dominant and several submissive )that frequent the boards that most definately could get away with it because anyone that has read enough of their posts would understand the spirit of intent.

The Batich Goddess Queen of The Fucking Universe <--------- Just like I can get away with that.......it's called tongue in cheek humour




hardbodysub -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 6:41:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: rhythmboi

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Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches'  but NOT for male bottom-types??


that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege.



So two wrongs make a right? Sorry, it's hypocrisy.




hardbodysub -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 6:51:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Spanks and hugs to BoiJen, what a sweet thing to do.

As an aside to all the little snotty pants. I can think of several males (one male dominant and several submissive )that frequent the boards that most definately could get away with it because anyone that has read enough of their posts would understand the spirit of intent.

The Batich Goddess Queen of The Fucking Universe <--------- Just like I can get away with that.......it's called tongue in cheek humour


Unfortunately, the presumption of guilt seems to be quite prevalent. We ought to assume no malevolent intent unless such intent was made very clear, but an awful lot of people here seem to do just the opposite.

Quite often, it's not the initial poster who's guilty, but the respondents, ready to take offense at any perceived slight. And perception can be pretty warped when you're carrying a chip on your shoulder.




missfrillypants -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 6:59:26 PM)

um...
yes! despite all the flame warring, i would also like to say that beautiful, intelligent, bitch-goddesses such as the ladies posting here are fsucking AWESOME!

also, boijen, i assumed you were a guy... you look like a guy to me, and your sn had boi in it. but then i'm famously bad for being unable to tell, so...




rhythmboi -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 8:18:12 PM)

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quote:ORIGINAL: rhythmboi quote:Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches'  but NOT for male bottom-types?? that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege. So two wrongs make a right? Sorry, it's hypocrisy.



You got a problem with it, then start helping to dismantle the patriarchy (and, no,being a male sub does not qualify as dismantling the patriarchy). Until then, that's how it works.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/14/2007 8:26:44 PM)

[sm=applause.gif]

MSS




LaTigresse -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/15/2007 6:28:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Spanks and hugs to BoiJen, what a sweet thing to do.

As an aside to all the little snotty pants. I can think of several males (one male dominant and several submissive )that frequent the boards that most definately could get away with it because anyone that has read enough of their posts would understand the spirit of intent.

The Batich Goddess Queen of The Fucking Universe <--------- Just like I can get away with that.......it's called tongue in cheek humour


Unfortunately, the presumption of guilt seems to be quite prevalent. We ought to assume no malevolent intent unless such intent was made very clear, but an awful lot of people here seem to do just the opposite.

Quite often, it's not the initial poster who's guilty, but the respondents, ready to take offense at any perceived slight. And perception can be pretty warped when you're carrying a chip on your shoulder.


I tend to agree, but then I think I had all my shoulder chips knocked off a decade or two ago. It was a relief, they were too heavy anyway.




MisPandora -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/19/2007 12:08:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I LOVE fucking hot women. I love it when they're sadists and I go nuts when it's "sick." To all you crazy Bitch Women out there having fun with this leather/BDSM thing... Thank you for allowing us the chance to cross your paths!

....and some of us fucking hot women love fucking hot bois who are throw-downable, tuff little fuckers :-)




hardbodysub -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/19/2007 4:49:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: rhythmboi

quote:

quote:ORIGINAL: rhythmboi quote:Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches'  but NOT for male bottom-types?? that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege. So two wrongs make a right? Sorry, it's hypocrisy.



You got a problem with it, then start helping to dismantle the patriarchy (and, no,being a male sub does not qualify as dismantling the patriarchy). Until then, that's how it works.


I don't think I'm the one with a problem.




Politesub53 -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/19/2007 4:11:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


quote:

ORIGINAL: rhythmboi

quote:

Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches'  but NOT for male bottom-types??


that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege.



So two wrongs make a right? Sorry, it's hypocrisy.


Where is the hyprocisy ? boi jen posted tongue in cheek, it was accepted as that. The post was a compliment and was seen as such.
i, and others, often post semi sarcastic posts. The Dominas here take it for what it is, a sense of humour but not a sly dig at Them.

[;)]




MisPandora -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/19/2007 5:36:22 PM)

*fast reply*
Some of you folks here could ruin a wet dream, yanno?  Seriously.




ocilla -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/19/2007 8:53:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


quote:

ORIGINAL: rhythmboi

quote:

Hmmmmmmmmmmm I hear hypocrytes. Its okay for a female bottom types to call top type ladies 'bitches'  but NOT for male bottom-types??


that's not hypocracy. that's the cost of living in a world that doles out male privilege.



So two wrongs make a right? Sorry, it's hypocrisy.


Where is the hyprocisy ? boi jen posted tongue in cheek, it was accepted as that. The post was a compliment and was seen as such.
i, and others, often post semi sarcastic posts. The Dominas here take it for what it is, a sense of humour but not a sly dig at Them.

[;)]


Tis true, you've made me laugh more than once with your "semi sacarstic posts".  I like that.  Not bratty in a big way or anything but definitely playful - always a plus.




BoiJen -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/20/2007 8:54:21 PM)

Dommes with wet dreams built around throwin down tuff lil bois make my day! Which is why saying thank you is SO important.

With that said...for the guys who are tired of the hypocracy stop bitching about it. Say thanks for what you have and then you might learn what we get taught mostly the hard way...when we are grateful for what we have we receive more than we ever dreamed of.

So Ladies...here's my gratitude...




Rumtiger -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/20/2007 10:27:25 PM)

you know, this thread could have easily continued it's spirit if someone just made a "stick up the sub's ass" joke at the right time.

You people need me back.




MistressDolly -> RE: Ladies...I just wanted to say... (8/20/2007 10:53:51 PM)

;P BoiJen




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