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ORIGINAL: AAkasha



It's interesting to compare what circle of friends kinky people have, and how sometimes even though a person may have very similiar "kinky" lifestyles (regarding how often, what kind of play, etc) they have different social groups.

Are most of your friends (not online) kinky? Or are most of your friends (not online) vanilla? If you have both, do they ever intermix? Do they know about each other? Ie, if you were going to have a birthday party and invite all your friends, would you have to pick one group over the other?

What about people you consider your 'online' friends (those people you have never met, or met online and only interact with primarily online)? What is the breakdown?

Here's the big one: Does your BEST FRIEND know how kinky you are? Is your best friend kinky also? (to clarify best friend -- this is not including your play partner or relationship partner --- of course my best friend is my husband, but he doesn't count).

I have a couple of best friends -- one is vanilla, but she's very aware of my kinky side. My other best friend, who has known me less time but we are still very close, is kinky. All my friends together in one room or party wouldn't be a problem, even though some of my more casual friends don't know that I'm kinky. I'd imagine if they found out they wouldn't be surprised, but none of them would have an issue with it.

Akasha