SubinMaine
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ORIGINAL: softness she's not so upset she isn't looking at the other threads! lol nah you aren't an unfeeling bitch, but you didn't read my OP, I wasn't sharing angst, and am actually quite embarassed (and flattered that people actually care enough to share sympathy with a perfect stranger) by the sympathy, that is not what I wanted at all my purpose was to share that sometimes, for whatever reason, we have to do some shockingly unpleasant things in the course of submission. For me, the hardest things have nothing to do with pain, or play, or humiliation. For me the hardest to accept that my feelings are unimportant. I feel very deeply, I have known this man for 13 years, we have had a sexualised relationship since I turned 16 (officially at least, and before you get scandalised he is only two years older than me) for me it is unthinkable to have people in my life i feel nothing for, or at least nothing that would upset me. winks ... I have the hide of a rhino, next time please feel free to let rip, I did read the OP....I guess I was just confused by it. How can you say your feelings are unimportant? What on Earth makes you believe that? i have to agree...one's feelings are the MOST important thing in any relationship, hell in life itself. if this man made you feel as though your feelings were unimportant then, shame on him...one day maybe he'll get a taste of what it feels like and will be chagrined.
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