CreativeDominant
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ORIGINAL: trappedinamuseum Ok, I take it partially back because I see your point. Perhaps you should have been more aware of the situation, and made sure he used protection. However, my guess is that your were trusting your Sir to watch over you as well, and make sure nothing happened. He failed at that. You both did. So, he's angry for not watching you, and you feel guilty (both because you were not paying attention, nor was he) I'm all for placing blame where blame is due...and in this case I think it is on all of you. Talk to this guy, talk to your Sir, and move on. Mistakes happen, and whatever comes of it, we're here for you. *hugs* Nicely put, trapped and I have to say that I agree. I am also one of those people who believes that you are still responsible for your actions, even when consuming chemicals such as alcohol...those actions may be altered and not on the right track but then, you made the choice to drink to that point in the first place. So in a situation where what is affecting you are body chemicals and not outside chemical compounds, that responsibility doesn't change, nor should it. However, just as a person who is going to drink (hopefully) relies on a designated driver, isn't that akin to what a submissive does with her dominant (s) when he (they) take her into subspace? There is blame to go around here...everyone should confront it, deal with it in a responsible way and move on.
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