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ORIGINAL: Mystique567

I almost want to raise an eyebrow at the rather age discriminating statement

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I don't do brats.  I know some dominants like that in the dynamic, to varying extents.  I don't. 

I can do mischievous, playful, even a bit recalcitrant.  But a brat?  No...I did not allow my ums to be a brat and I damn sure don't want it in an adult.

In your case, I would say that you need to speak with her.  And as Latex said, if you knew this going in, then why are you wanting to change it now?  Either way, you are going to have to communicate with her and change something because it sounds like it is beginning to wear on you.

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ORIGINAL: PAcpllooking

The morning after when she is acting like that immeadiately remind her she is acting like that. You said in one post that she doesnt realize it until its too late so remind her before it happens.
Another reason why she may act like this is because she enjoys the feeling of being sexually frustrated and once that is gone she is not what I call "centered".
Does she act the same way when you get off with her? If not then it could be that she feels bad because you didnt get off when she did which may make her feel like she isnt serving you.
Try a few differant things and see what the reaction is

William

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ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

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ORIGINAL: PAcpllooking

The morning after when she is acting like that immeadiately remind her she is acting like that. You said in one post that she doesnt realize it until its too late so remind her before it happens.
Another reason why she may act like this is because she enjoys the feeling of being sexually frustrated and once that is gone she is not what I call "centered".
Does she act the same way when you get off with her? If not then it could be that she feels bad because you didnt get off when she did which may make her feel like she isnt serving you.
Try a few differant things and see what the reaction is

William

She acts the same way if she is with me accept when we actually do a scene which is about every couple of weeks. Then she is really extreamly quiet for about three days and sometimes after the three days are up she will give a one line comment on the scene which I also think is a little strange. Last night I spent about twenty minutes with her and just treated her as if she was having sub drop and she pulled out of it so to speak and became her old self. I am kind of suprised that she requires that much attention after just getting a finger...lol not really buying into it and it kind of makes me look closely at all of her after behaviors. She very rarely talks about sex at all or mentions it so a scene has to have a big effect on her before she will make any kind of comment at all.

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ORIGINAL: sublimelysensual

    I think You've gotten some really good advice, and I hope some part of it will help You out. My inclination is that finding something to put her in the right headplace the next morning might be the thing to do the trick. My only other thought would be, that after the next time it happens, withhold orgasms for a while (say a week, two weeks, whatever). Let her associate the undesired behavior with a loss of pleasure. On the flipside, if You do withhold, and after the next time she's allowed release, she behaves (for lack of a better word), reward her.
 
 That being said, I hate the whole "well, she might be hormonal" excuse. I've been having periods for 24 years. I'm at the point now where I know when I'm going to start because I get moody, I want to binge eat, etc. When I know I'm moody because of hormones, I think before I speak. Sounds simple, eh? I hate the fact that so many women pawn being bratty/b*tchy off on being hormonal and then wonder why men make jokes about it. Be responsible and own up. Seeing that His girl is in her 40's, she should be able to recognize by now if that's what is going on. There have been times I've been emotional, explained why I was feeling that way, and that I knew part of it was because I was about to start and that once that dropped off, I would look at the issue again. I'm also peri-menopausal, so that doesn't hold water with me either unless the person doesn't know they're going into menopause. The thing is, even then, women recognize when they're being a b*tch. Sorry for the soapbox, just a pet peeve, and only my two cents worth, as usual...
 
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