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anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/14/2007 9:03:56 PM

yuyu777

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how do you fulfill your desires, I suoppose you willl have to order your sub to spank you, isnt it weird... hehe

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/14/2007 9:06:25 PM

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Many weirder things, a sub is there to provide service.

Or you could just go play with another friend. It doesn't have to be topping just to get your masochism on.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/14/2007 10:31:13 PM

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You train her to do it just right. I like my back scratched just so and that is harder than most can take it. I also like to have my neck bitten and even a few nips on my nipples at times. It helps that she is a sadistic top so I have to rein her in as opposed to push her to do so. My safeword is "fuck, it is going to come off"

Spanks, absolutely not! I actually for the most part detest pain being quite the wuss.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/14/2007 10:46:50 PM

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What we do does not necessarily define who we are. Topping and bottoming are physical skills/desires. Anyone, no matter what role, can have them.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/15/2007 6:06:14 PM

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In an d/s aspect I'd consider myself a dom. However I'm also a huge masochist. Therefore I don't do d/s during s&m play. Me and my partner do it in companionship.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/17/2007 3:06:19 AM

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I don't recall myself ordering a sub to spank me. When I am in need for pain, biteing and clawing is what's normally required along with some occasional burn play.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/17/2007 5:21:05 AM

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I think We are all masochists.... with the number of headaches you subs give us it is about the only explination for why We keep going

(bottoming doesn't appeal to Me, but couldn't resist that little comment *g*)

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/17/2007 7:59:56 AM

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He likes a 'struggle' in which we both inflict some pain on eachother, sometimes it's a bit staged but it can be fun. Especially when he gets to yell "When I get out of this I'm so gonna <insert creative threat>."

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/17/2007 12:51:57 PM

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Nothing more fun than a sub who bites.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/17/2007 3:01:51 PM

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Spanking, NO (agreed, Michael).

CBT? Absolutely.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/18/2007 9:11:48 PM

Damocles809

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Well I do like a sub who puts up a fight, and a very painful one at that.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/18/2007 11:25:54 PM

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There is some specific pain he likes. I kow what it is. I kow how he likes it. And as another said, since I am also a sadistic top I've got absolutely no problem dishing it out to him. Biggest issue is not hurting more than he'd like.

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RE: anybody here is a Dom but also a masochist? - 8/18/2007 11:29:35 PM

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My Daddy is a big sadist ... but he also has a bit of maso in him ... which is fun since I have my Domme moments. I am allowed to choke him during sex, scratch his back as hard as I like ... and in the evenings I am also allowed to do cbt ... as he loves to have his balls played with. I get my "fix" but at the same time I am still pleasing him and getting him off.

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