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The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Male S... - 8/16/2007 2:06:57 PM

TopMeeeeee

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Because male Subs are looking for TOPS, not f doms.

There aren't as many female tops as there are female doms. A female dom is not interested in the Male Subs "List" of activities He wants to played on Him.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:13:27 PM

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i'd have to agree...

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:16:30 PM

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Most pro-girls can top or bottom at will. But a pro-Domme is in very much higher demand.
She can dish out many more lashings than a pro-sub can take in the same period.
And in much greater safety as she is in control.
So, in the circumstances, which would you do?

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:47:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TopMeeeeee

Because male Subs are looking for TOPS, not f doms.

There aren't as many female tops as there are female doms.

A female dom is not interested in the Male Subs "List" of activities He wants to played on Him.

Aah, ya gots yer CAPITALIZATIONS all wrong, dinkums

...apart from that, I reluctantly do agree,
that some among those self-describing as 'male submissive'
are in reality, seeking some FEMALE to "top" 'em,
to the-pseudo-sub male's own preferences.

[still smells like troll... and not in a GOOD way]

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:49:22 PM

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girl doms?

I see the light.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:50:45 PM

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After what I witness around here, I have to agree with this also.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 2:54:26 PM

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An intended mistake. (?)

You get My point, though.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 3:00:03 PM

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Most Dommes I know don't like to be called "girl". I haven't been a girl since I was 11 years old. That could be one of the problems.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 5:56:23 PM

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What if you're both?

What if you like to play with people who like what YOU like, rather than inflicting whatever you like on whomever will stand there and suck it up, but you don't want to do whatever you don't like?

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 7:37:07 PM

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um how about person or peoples

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 7:49:41 PM

kiyari

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ORIGINAL: TopMeeeeee

An intended mistake. (?)

You get My point, though.

meh, what a twit

girlie girls and, what? boylie boys?

..or might that be: boyz

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/16/2007 7:52:00 PM

SunNMoon

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Can I join others with the question of "girl doms?"

Hmmm, even through I look 5 years younger. I don't think of myself as a girl.

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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

What if you're both?

What if you like to play with people who like what YOU like, rather than inflicting whatever you like on whomever will stand there and suck it up, but you don't want to do whatever you don't like?

Now I agree with this. I couldn't think of anything nicer then having someone that liked what I like.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 1:44:57 AM

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nice style......and what id hope to find as well..

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 2:43:07 AM

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World population poll. Women are still the majority. There are more female doms and subs than male doms and subs. It has nothing to do with what men and women want, it's just sheer numbers.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 11:05:54 AM

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ok, please dont get angry with me for asking this but, what is exactly the diference between a Dominant and a Top?

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 11:26:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TopMeeeeee

Because male Subs are looking for TOPS, not f doms.

There aren't as many female tops as there are female doms. A female dom is not interested in the Male Subs "List" of activities He wants to played on Him.

God I love generalizations.....
I am a submissive male who would occasionally find myself in play with a Fem Top, but for a relationship I had no desire for anything but a Domina. I wanted to belong to a woman who when she walked into a room, she commanded the room. I am lucky enough to be with such a woman now.

We are a perfect fit for each other from tastes in music, food, movies, hobbies, and BDSM activities. She is absolutely interested in my list of play activities I like- it is a list that lets Her know that I am THRILLED to be tied up or cut, or flogged, or caned by Her. These are things I need. And it just so happens that they are things She needs and likes as well. Last night we did some needle play while laying in bed watching a movie. After an hour of getting little pointy things stuck in me I was so far into space that all I was aware of outside my body was Her wonderfully evil laugh as She flicked at the little buggers with Her fingernails. Which of us was enjoying it more? Who was the greedy one? It was (of course) play that She initiated, but which She knew I would enjoy and thus give Her something to feed off of.

No Top that I played with in the years before meeting Mistress could ever have convinced me that sticking needles in my dick could be fun. And that is because they were not dominant enough.

So I guess I disagree.

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 11:28:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: sirguym

Most pro-girls can top or bottom at will. But a pro-Domme is in very much higher demand.
She can dish out many more lashings than a pro-sub can take in the same period.
And in much greater safety as she is in control.
So, in the circumstances, which would you do?

"those who can, do...those who can't...charge by the hour"

LOL

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 11:31:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sjacket
No Top that I played with in the years before meeting Mistress could ever have convinced me that sticking needles in my dick could be fun. And that is because they were not dominant enough.

Quoting myself, what an ego!!
edited to add that this was in reply to Feliw

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 12:47:39 PM

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I never had the impression that there were more "girlDoms" than male subs. Maybe there are, but I got the impression it was the other way around...how does anyone really know?

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RE: The Answer for why there are more girl doms than Ma... - 8/17/2007 1:10:47 PM

SunNMoon

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Feliw

ok, please dont get angry with me for asking this but, what is exactly the diference between a Dominant and a Top?

I’m not always the best person defining things, but I shall give it ago.

Top: A person that is the active person in the play. Such as the person flogging, tying up the bondage, ect. (Bottom: is the person receiving, the flogging, being in bondage, ect.)

Dominant: A person who has authority, control (your choice) over the other person. (Submissive: one which gives control, authority ect to the dominant.) =this is harder to define. (At least for me.)

Now, a submissive person can top a dominant person.

LA is the person who knows how to find all the pervious threads on this subject. But you can try to search for these terms and it’ll give you more insight.

PS LA teaching me how to search like you do, please.