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Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 3:34:43 PM   
BlackSakura


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I have a sub coming over in a few days for a play session - he's a pain slut.  Unfortunately, I do not have many "tools" here at home.  I am looking for advice/ideas on possible things I could do or use that I may be able to find around the house...  Trying to be resourceful here!   Thank you All.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 3:39:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Scouring pad. It will be your best friend. It does an incredible job when used in some very tender places. 
Also, if you are into CBT, ise the tip of a safety pin (do not pierce the skin, just drag it around) for some major effects.  Ive been imrovising with Kitten, before he left, since he was a pain slut in training.

Have fun

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 4:19:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlackSakura

Hello All!
I have a sub coming over in a few days for a play session - he's a pain slut.  Unfortunately, I do not have many "tools" here at home.  I am looking for advice/ideas on possible things I could do or use that I may be able to find around the house...  Trying to be resourceful here!   Thank you All.


I love DIY torture. Anything is pervertable. Very few of my accoutrements are purchased from my IV line flogger to my nipple torture device made from a trouser hanger. There's more than a few threads on the boards that address this as well and I'm sure LA will be along to provide some links any moment now.

Off the top of my head...

Wooden utensils for spanking and smacking hard to reach places.
wooden rulers for smacking naughty bits
water bottles for insertion fill them with sand, H20 and freeze or warm water and the sensation changes
take out chopsticks
ping pong paddles cover each half with different sides of velcro for different sensations. I have a dozen of them covered with different things for sensation play including the scrubbie part of sponge scrubbers.
silk scarves
belts
wooden hairbrushes and sterling silver ones. Love the patterns that are left by my antique hairbrush when used to spank.
squirt bottles with ice water during wax play
unscented votive candles (paraffin not beeswax)
a broom stick or mop handle for a spreader bar.
beans/rice make corner time interesting.
a handful of change in a fabric bag makes great impact play toys
pillowcases for hoods
books for walking in high heels or spanking
binder clips and rubber bands for nipple torture or cbt

ok I could go on and on and on.....

Best of all is your brain. Walk around the house...pick up anything and ask yourself..."how can I use this for evil?"

IE. the bottle cap from my water bottle sitting next to me could be used to hold against the wall with his nose during corner time. he could be made to push it back and forth across the carpet with his nose (arms bound behind him) racing the stop watch to earn a puppy treat. It has little pokey things to use for sensation play. It could be used to play fetch or floated in a bowl. It could be used to make him hold it between his elbows while he does other chores without dropping it. The list is endless...and it's a pretty simple little item.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 6:48:09 PM   
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Aim 4 inches into the buttocks, for instance.

I rarely use implements.


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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 6:58:59 PM   
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Flat of your hand.

Aim 4 inches into the buttocks, for instance.

I rarely use implements.



Some of us have manicures to think of darlin. I enjoy implements. The more innocent appearing the better for the mind fuck they cause.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 7:30:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never said your fingers should deliver the impact.
That's what the pads inside the hand are for, whether the lower ones, the upper ones, or both.
A smaller area will sting more, of course.

Obviously, this can be used elsewhere as well, but I'd not start off with the CBT.


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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 7:40:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

I never said your fingers should deliver the impact.
That's what the pads inside the hand are for, whether the lower ones, the upper ones, or both.
A smaller area will sting more, of course.

Obviously, this can be used elsewhere as well, but I'd not start off with the CBT.



Thanks darlin, I've done a few spankings over the years. However subs wiggle, they struggle, and they try to escape unless lashed down firmly. Frankly I like it when they struggle and impact in those instances can still lead to a broken nail.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 8:10:34 PM   
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My nails aren't that long anymore, so I shouldn't trust my memory, but I've never had that problem, despite attempts to get away. Cup the hand like a duck's bill, but keeping the fingers at a 90 degree angle to the hand, then, and strike with the knife edge of it. Still does the job, although a bit more care is called for in other locations around the body, since the knuckle will deliver a greater portion of the impact.

Lately, I've been conditioning my nails to handle being used as claws, but that's not an option beyond a certain length, unless one is willing to end up with very thick nails. It also means that, instead of breaking, they will gouge. So not ideal if one wants to avoid piercing the skin. But with a shorter length, a thumb-poke does wonders as far as pain is concerned.

Not trying to be a smartass or anything; just sharing my experiences.


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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 8:17:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know you aren't. However you will concede there is quite a difference between your nails as a male and the typical french manicured feminine nails that I'm speaking of that extend a good bit longer...they don't take much to break. Catch the car door handle wrong and you can lose 4 out of 5.

I apologize for the hijack. you may now resume your normal postings.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 10:19:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ahh thank you so much DiurnalVampire!   Those are all great ideas!! >=)

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 10:41:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		clothes pins, fly swatters, those odd back scratcher thingys with the little curved hand, belt of your bathrobe (cock & ball wrapping), feather duster, toothpaste & mouthwash (minty), bobby pins, skewers the wooden ones are perfect for swatting cock and balls, wooden spoons, regular spoons, and finally I have taken to using a spritzer of hand santizer or alcohol.  You might want to go for sensory deprivation - there was a great thread on one of the other forums recently maybe general or masters. 

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 10:44:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		oh yeah - cat toys - the plastic stick that used to dangle feathers is a great cane type spanker, and the cat curry comb offers a good scatchy feel, and plain simple white candles for dripping - colors not good too hot.

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 10:57:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course, you can't forget the chemical fun... Capzaicin/IcyHot/BenGay cream applied to the cock and balls will send him screaming... *keep the cold water running in shower*

Mineral Ice is also fun and a bit less intense.... Wasabi paste is also very fun... very intense at the start and then dulls.... a few drops of tobasco will heat things up... just keep adding until he calls red or squirts... either way, a glass of iced milk is the best way to cool things off... if that's what you want... :)

Also note that doing any of these after playing with anything irritating increases their effectiveness significantly...

Oh, and depending on season and area of the country, stinging nettles can be REALLY fun.  Just make sure the sub in question isn't allergic.  They are great for CBT, and also nipple play.  I've found they will leave my nipples crazy sensitive for a good 24-48 hours afterwards... Can be a fun send off...

Have fun...


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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/17/2007 11:10:18 PM   
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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/18/2007 12:13:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		The rods off of blinds make great canes...so do driveway markers with the reflectors removed.   The little ring off the cap of a two liter soda bottle..good for cbt.  Saran wrap..duct tape...trash bags for mummification/sensory deprivation.  Just a few suggestions...enjoy. :)

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RE: Advice on some homemade pain. - 8/18/2007 6:19:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		painslut-you lucky gal!  I am a toy JUNKY, really I should seek help before I have no more room for the subbie but even with all that my favorites for pain pigs are still an electrical cord to whip his ass, shorten to whip balls-the welts this leaves are awesome, and a heavy thuddy metal bbq spatula-I brought someone to tears with those 2 toys alone.  The bbq brush is great to use on his nipples till they bleed.  Have fun and be sure to give us an update!

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